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usedtobedemgurl

(1,978 posts)
Tue Feb 24, 2026, 09:36 AM Yesterday

I do not understand an attraction to children.

I cringe to see a 50 year old naked, if they shaved off their hair. Because anything that looks young just does not attract me. I do not understand this attraction to kids. Why is a 45, 55 or even 65 year old man interested in an 8 year old child for? Is the adult truly interested in hearing about the child's day? They are not going to talk about the stock exchange.

In my day, if any older man took an interest in me, my mom would be disgusted. It is hard for me to fathom the interest in children by such a large swath of rich and powerful men. What are these men lacking? How damaged are they? They could go to a bar and find a fully formed adult, or maybe a brothel, but they want barely formed human beings. I just do not understand.

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I do not understand an attraction to children. (Original Post) usedtobedemgurl Yesterday OP
Most people don't understand it. It's just something maga like to call the people they hate. Walleye Yesterday #1
MAGA is completely infected with people who self hate. They hate the kids they BComplex Yesterday #7
It's an addiction to hate and anger. Which are easier than trying to understand things. Walleye Yesterday #9
It's about power over someone, the weaker the better. Some feel it's their god-given right travelingthrulife Yesterday #2
I used to think these older men were just sick in the head Diamond_Dog Yesterday #3
It's like rape Abstractartist Yesterday #4
I think also Diamond_Dog Yesterday #14
True Abstractartist 20 hrs ago #18
They get to hurt young women with sex - think it makes them look /feel virile because they have only hate in them. lark Yesterday #5
I'm a 78 year old male and I don't understand either. OLDMDDEM Yesterday #6
I'm thinking it may be because children won't say "no" as often Wednesdays Yesterday #8
Republicans, the wealthy and other nazis attack the weak and powerless. usonian Yesterday #10
The physical pain for these young girls must be horrific. Most girls that young... 3catwoman3 Yesterday #11
The more forbidding the fruit, the better it tastes multigraincracker Yesterday #12
Exactly. It's the taboo that is the attraction. tinrobot 20 hrs ago #19
Here: PCIntern Yesterday #13
It's attraction....like a hunter to prey purr-rat beauty Yesterday #15
Tons of boys and girls have been molested by family BigmanPigman Yesterday #16
There are different sorts of pathologies at play (ugh need a better word) Coventina Yesterday #17

Walleye

(44,347 posts)
1. Most people don't understand it. It's just something maga like to call the people they hate.
Tue Feb 24, 2026, 09:37 AM
Yesterday

BComplex

(9,833 posts)
7. MAGA is completely infected with people who self hate. They hate the kids they
Tue Feb 24, 2026, 10:19 AM
Yesterday

used to be were so powerless. They hate themselves....they want power over those who are now as powerless as they feel.

There's a little bit of psychopath in every MAGA.

Walleye

(44,347 posts)
9. It's an addiction to hate and anger. Which are easier than trying to understand things.
Tue Feb 24, 2026, 10:28 AM
Yesterday

travelingthrulife

(4,985 posts)
2. It's about power over someone, the weaker the better. Some feel it's their god-given right
Tue Feb 24, 2026, 09:39 AM
Yesterday

as men to screw any woman or child.

It is also forbidden fruit and the appeal is violating that as well.

Diamond_Dog

(40,235 posts)
3. I used to think these older men were just sick in the head
Tue Feb 24, 2026, 09:40 AM
Yesterday

But gosh it sure seems like there’s an inordinate number of them, and it’s nothing new.

I got cat-called when I was 10, 11, 12 by creepy older men driving by as I walked down my street or if my mother sent me into a store. I always felt so disgusted.

Abstractartist

(439 posts)
4. It's like rape
Tue Feb 24, 2026, 09:46 AM
Yesterday

Unfortunately children are used by predators because it’s a control and intimidation factor. It’s like rape. Rape is not a sexual act, it’s a domination and intimidation.

Diamond_Dog

(40,235 posts)
14. I think also
Tue Feb 24, 2026, 12:12 PM
Yesterday

They hate women and it feels so satisfying to humiliate and overpower a woman. A child, it’s all about having power over the weak.

Abstractartist

(439 posts)
18. True
Tue Feb 24, 2026, 08:40 PM
20 hrs ago

True, but rape needs not to be female or male. It’s the domination factor that drives them. Yes hatred can and is a factor, but sexual orientation may not need to apply.

lark

(26,021 posts)
5. They get to hurt young women with sex - think it makes them look /feel virile because they have only hate in them.
Tue Feb 24, 2026, 10:00 AM
Yesterday

The control and the pain is a big part of it - I'd guess.

Wednesdays

(22,209 posts)
8. I'm thinking it may be because children won't say "no" as often
Tue Feb 24, 2026, 10:27 AM
Yesterday

And they won't/can't fight back.

usonian

(24,438 posts)
10. Republicans, the wealthy and other nazis attack the weak and powerless.
Tue Feb 24, 2026, 11:21 AM
Yesterday

Read your fascist playbook.
Immigrants, children, people of color, minority, "minority religion", women, LBGTQ+, the aged and infirm.

These monsters are weak, and play strong. It cuts across gender.




Stop fascism before we all wear triangles.



Real strong people protect the weak.

3catwoman3

(29,114 posts)
11. The physical pain for these young girls must be horrific. Most girls that young...
Tue Feb 24, 2026, 11:27 AM
Yesterday

...don't use tampons when they first start menstruating, so they've never had anything inserting into their vaginas. Obviously, tampons are a lot smaller than an adult erect penis. How does one ever recover from the agony of this?

This should never, EVER be called "having sex with...".

multigraincracker

(37,301 posts)
12. The more forbidding the fruit, the better it tastes
Tue Feb 24, 2026, 11:36 AM
Yesterday

I can see nothing more forbidding
The ultra rich and powerful have just reached that point. My fear is what next.

tinrobot

(12,034 posts)
19. Exactly. It's the taboo that is the attraction.
Tue Feb 24, 2026, 08:58 PM
20 hrs ago

There's all sorts of kinks centered around doing things you're not "supposed" to do.

Another big "forbidden" kink is cheating on your spouse. Guess who's cheated on all three of his wives?

PCIntern

(28,165 posts)
13. Here:
Tue Feb 24, 2026, 11:44 AM
Yesterday
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Main_Page?wprov=sfti1

As I have posted on several occasions, my secondary private school, a boarding and day school located in Bucks County, PA, was a haven for these folks. I am the moderator of a FB group which deals with the survivors: the reason I was chosen was that I was not a victim, but for a variety of reasons, was familiar with the faculty and staff during one particularly bad era, and have some clinical training. These individuals gravitate towards schools for the same reason that Willie Sutton, when asked why he robbed banks, replied that “That’s where the money is.”, that that’s where the kids are.

I have stories that would turn your stomachs.

purr-rat beauty

(1,155 posts)
15. It's attraction....like a hunter to prey
Tue Feb 24, 2026, 12:30 PM
Yesterday

They may want "good looking" or "developed" victims but make no mistake, this arousal isn't sexual, it's sociopathic, it borders on the traits of hypersexuality mixed with malignant narcissism. They need to consume and cannot be satiated....money, resources, lives, bodies.

It's more so children rather than adults because children can be deeply exploited, manipulated, and silenced.

It's cult thinking that children are pure, they have something to take, adults are spent and have a greater likelihood to speak out or even fight back.

It was or God forbid is still the hunt for the easy prey, just like ICE going for soft targets rather than bad hombres. They are not attracted to the child but to the taboo and ease they can harm their victims with impunity.

It's fucking vile and why Mar A Lago isn't burnt to the ground by now is beyond me.

BigmanPigman

(54,930 posts)
16. Tons of boys and girls have been molested by family
Tue Feb 24, 2026, 02:27 PM
Yesterday

member or people particularly close to a family and are trusted. It's more common than you think.

Coventina

(29,539 posts)
17. There are different sorts of pathologies at play (ugh need a better word)
Tue Feb 24, 2026, 02:37 PM
Yesterday

It's complicated, and mental illness is involved.

Not that I'm excusing ANY OF IT, because if you ARE sick that way, there is no excuse for not getting help before you act.

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