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https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2026/feb/24/north-carolina-missing-woman-foundDaughter was heartbroken after Michelle Hundley Smith requested her location not be disclosed to family she had walked away from
One of the first things she described was relief that her father had been proven innocent of accusations that he somehow was involved in Michelles disappearance. She also wrote about her parents having marital issues though, without elaborating, she made it a point to say, My mom did not leave simply [because] of a bad marriage.
She continued: My father has been through so much and I want it made clear that while their marriage had issues (just as many marriages go through) my mom did not leave simply [because] of a bad marriage.
Then, after acknowledging her complex emotions about the closure of her mothers missing persons case, Amanda wrote that she can absolutely understand [someone] taking off and leaving after everything with which she has dealt in her own life.
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No words
Srkdqltr
(9,632 posts)malaise
(294,867 posts)Who am I to judge - I dont know what she was facing when she left.
Torchlight
(6,642 posts)The daughter appears to be handling a surprise of this nature a lot damn better than I think I ever would.
dalton99a
(93,289 posts)2naSalit
(101,584 posts)When I was nine, my mom left my dad, all by herself, walked away from six kids, some pretty young. I never blamed her, my dad was brutal, took it out on us afterward. They both had issues not related to their messy marriage as well but they were the only parents I had. I spent seven years finding my mother and made her take us away from my dad, most of us were still minors.
I know why she left and used it as my standard for when it's time to leave a bad relationship however I may decide to leave it. It also taught me to use multiple perspectives before making important decisions that could have lasting impacts. I get the feeling this lady understands why her mother left and why she never looked back.
You walked the walk.
Thanks for this
2naSalit
(101,584 posts)Me the person I am for good and/or ill.
malaise
(294,867 posts)Jacson6
(1,881 posts)MustLoveBeagles
(15,548 posts)I'll just leave it at that.
lostnfound
(17,466 posts)She exhibits maturity and kindness.
I am not saying she gets off scot-free without accountability or responsibility [because] she absolutely needs to do that, Amanda continued. What I am saying is please remember that each one of us have made mistakes in life, each one of us has hurt souls [whether] intentional or not.
Please remember that each one of us has done things that we are not proud of.