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What is a sign that a person is a good human being? (Original Post) Swede 4 hrs ago OP
Treats everyone with respect. ... marble falls 4 hrs ago #1
Aquarius. Abolishinist 4 hrs ago #2
When your online speech is the same as it would be when you are speaking with your neighbors or colleagues face to face Quiet Em 4 hrs ago #3
They don't say bigly. SalamanderSleeps 4 hrs ago #4
Empathy and Sympathy Haggard Celine 3 hrs ago #5
If animals like them, odds are very high they're a good person. Jedi Guy 3 hrs ago #6
Whereas I do agree with your post in general, lots of bad people have good-boy dogs that love them. Intractable 3 hrs ago #7
About 18 years ago, a woman fell in love with me. Intractable 2 hrs ago #8
I know a marriage counselor who uses this as a standard Seinan Sensei 2 hrs ago #9
Caring for and treating animals with love, kindness respect. nt Raine 2 hrs ago #10
Promote peace BeneteauBum 2 hrs ago #11
In a Nutshell, Don't Be An Asshole lavoosh99 2 hrs ago #12
They're a Democrat. aeromanKC 2 hrs ago #13
Reminds me of the best dating advice I ever saw, which was: Mister Ed 1 hr ago #14
when you do the right thing without expecting some kind of reward in the end Skittles 1 hr ago #15
Oh yes canetoad 57 min ago #16
It cost nothing to be nice. multigraincracker 35 min ago #17

Quiet Em

(3,250 posts)
3. When your online speech is the same as it would be when you are speaking with your neighbors or colleagues face to face
Mon Jun 29, 2026, 01:03 AM
4 hrs ago

Well, of course there would still be a-holes but I'm certain there would be less a-holes.

Haggard Celine

(18,013 posts)
5. Empathy and Sympathy
Mon Jun 29, 2026, 02:04 AM
3 hrs ago

It's important that people are able to put themselves in the shoes of others. We have too many people who either can't or won't do that.

Jedi Guy

(3,528 posts)
6. If animals like them, odds are very high they're a good person.
Mon Jun 29, 2026, 02:07 AM
3 hrs ago

Animals are shockingly perceptive. We don't give them nearly enough credit.

Intractable

(2,592 posts)
7. Whereas I do agree with your post in general, lots of bad people have good-boy dogs that love them.
Mon Jun 29, 2026, 02:23 AM
3 hrs ago

It's been said before, "Be the man your dog thinks you are."

Intractable

(2,592 posts)
8. About 18 years ago, a woman fell in love with me.
Mon Jun 29, 2026, 02:31 AM
2 hrs ago

As they say, there's no accounting for taste.

Nonetheless, for her, I was the real deal. She was in love, and I could see it.

So, I knew she would always be good to me; always be nice.

Over time, I saw that she treated everyone this way! There were no exceptions.

That's when I fell in love with her.

We've been together a long time. We married four years ago. Best thing I ever did with my life.

Seinan Sensei

(1,735 posts)
9. I know a marriage counselor who uses this as a standard
Mon Jun 29, 2026, 02:52 AM
2 hrs ago

“Don’t treat your Spouse (who you live with) worse than you treat Wait-Staff (who you will never see again)

And, yes, there are exceptions.

Like Nosferatu (Stephen Miller) who, in high school, ran for Class President on the platform of, “go ahead and throw your trash on the ground - that’s what Janitors are for.”

lavoosh99

(63 posts)
12. In a Nutshell, Don't Be An Asshole
Mon Jun 29, 2026, 03:24 AM
2 hrs ago

Of course, that requires a definition of who is an asshole. Someone who is willing to lie, cheat, steal, kill, or do ANYTHING else to get what they want. For them, the ends always justify the means, e.g., a certain orange shit stain and everyone around him.

Mister Ed

(7,016 posts)
14. Reminds me of the best dating advice I ever saw, which was:
Mon Jun 29, 2026, 03:44 AM
1 hr ago

"Pay close attention to the way your date treats the waitstaff, because that's how they'll be treating you in six months."

Skittles

(173,662 posts)
15. when you do the right thing without expecting some kind of reward in the end
Mon Jun 29, 2026, 03:47 AM
1 hr ago

yes INDEED

canetoad

(21,229 posts)
16. Oh yes
Mon Jun 29, 2026, 04:28 AM
58 min ago

And that 'right thing'' isn't proscribed in any manual or religious literature but strangely, people seem to know intuitively what "the right thing" is.

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