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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsWhat is a sign that a person is a good human being?
Saw this on Reddit.
My answer was when you treat the wait staff with respect.
marble falls
(73,589 posts)... Especially me,
Abolishinist
(3,113 posts)Quiet Em
(3,250 posts)Well, of course there would still be a-holes but I'm certain there would be less a-holes.
SalamanderSleeps
(1,069 posts)Haggard Celine
(18,013 posts)It's important that people are able to put themselves in the shoes of others. We have too many people who either can't or won't do that.
Jedi Guy
(3,528 posts)Animals are shockingly perceptive. We don't give them nearly enough credit.
Intractable
(2,592 posts)It's been said before, "Be the man your dog thinks you are."
Intractable
(2,592 posts)As they say, there's no accounting for taste.
Nonetheless, for her, I was the real deal. She was in love, and I could see it.
So, I knew she would always be good to me; always be nice.
Over time, I saw that she treated everyone this way! There were no exceptions.
That's when I fell in love with her.
We've been together a long time. We married four years ago. Best thing I ever did with my life.
Seinan Sensei
(1,735 posts)Dont treat your Spouse (who you live with) worse than you treat Wait-Staff (who you will never see again)
And, yes, there are exceptions.
Like Nosferatu (Stephen Miller) who, in high school, ran for Class President on the platform of, go ahead and throw your trash on the ground - thats what Janitors are for.
Raine
(31,267 posts)BeneteauBum
(967 posts)tolerance, empathy, and respect results in peace
Peace ☮️
lavoosh99
(63 posts)Of course, that requires a definition of who is an asshole. Someone who is willing to lie, cheat, steal, kill, or do ANYTHING else to get what they want. For them, the ends always justify the means, e.g., a certain orange shit stain and everyone around him.
aeromanKC
(4,002 posts)Mister Ed
(7,016 posts)"Pay close attention to the way your date treats the waitstaff, because that's how they'll be treating you in six months."
Skittles
(173,662 posts)yes INDEED
canetoad
(21,229 posts)And that 'right thing'' isn't proscribed in any manual or religious literature but strangely, people seem to know intuitively what "the right thing" is.