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Not Heidi

(1,508 posts)
Mon Mar 24, 2025, 03:24 AM Mar 24

Fucking pay attention when I talk to you!

I'm in the middle of telling my wife about the Angels' new clubhouse rule this season, when she interrupts me by getting up and saying "I've got something in my teeth." No "excuse me, sorry," no "hold that thought, tell me when I get back."

She comes back and says "did I tell you what so & so said to me yesterday?" Well, no, asshole, and why would I ? Why would I listen when you'll just blow me off in the middle of my telling you something that's important to me? What's more, it's only baseball. Who gives a rat's ass what the Angels are doing in the clubhouse? Who cares what the hoped-for consequences will be.

It's only baseball, probably the most important thing in my life besides my family and the survival of this country and her citizens.

All things considered, it's small thing about which I'm having this internal snarly discussion.

But be a decent human being. At least pretend you're listening to me, and excuse yourself from the discussion with a quick "excuse me" or something like it. Then exercise this muscle: "Ok, what were you saying?"

Or am I the bitch?

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Fucking pay attention when I talk to you! (Original Post) Not Heidi Mar 24 OP
Dear Lord claudette Mar 24 #1
Um, yeah Hekate Mar 24 #2
So what is the new rule in the Angels clubhouse this season? 10 Turtle Day Mar 24 #3
The rule Not Heidi Mar 25 #7
WTF did I just read? TurboDem Mar 24 #4
Diabetes? AltairIV Mar 24 #5
My goodness. Not Heidi Mar 25 #8
The wife came in the living room the other day and told me I was immature and needed to grow up. Hotler Mar 24 #6
kind of seems like both of you are in a taking the other for granted moment Kali Mar 25 #9
Was it really important for you to talk to her that way LogDog75 Wednesday #10

Not Heidi

(1,508 posts)
7. The rule
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 07:21 PM
Mar 25

is that players may not use their cellphones in the clubhouse. A player can be fined up to $500 per infraction.

"Angels manager Ron Washington has laid out this new policy in hopes of getting his team to bond and focus more on baseball. 'It is not punishment; I just want some focus,' Washington said of the new rule. . . .'"

Veterans Mike Trout and Kyle Hendricks will enforce the rule.

Info from Sports Illustrated online article dated March 19 '25.

AltairIV

(812 posts)
5. Diabetes?
Mon Mar 24, 2025, 07:46 AM
Mar 24

I would get your blood sugar levels checked. Flying into hysterical rages such as you describe is a possible warning sign of diabetes.

Hotler

(12,930 posts)
6. The wife came in the living room the other day and told me I was immature and needed to grow up.
Mon Mar 24, 2025, 11:16 AM
Mar 24

I told her to shut up and get out of my fort.
An old story I may have stole from here on DU.

Kali

(56,170 posts)
9. kind of seems like both of you are in a taking the other for granted moment
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 11:07 PM
Mar 25

it happens. let it go or tell her how you felt when she did that. I would leave the subject line of your OP out of the conversation

LogDog75

(368 posts)
10. Was it really important for you to talk to her that way
Wed Mar 26, 2025, 01:43 AM
Wednesday

Why not just tell her in a calm, soft voice of what she did and why it bothered you. The way you put it tells me you shutoff any communications with her about the Angels club house rules.

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