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Wonder Why

(6,786 posts)
Fri Feb 20, 2026, 07:44 PM Feb 20

They say that riding a bicycle is good for your health. LIARS!

Coming back from a local rails to trails and turning left from the main highway to road only 800 feet from home. In the turning lane and using my directional signal. As the opposite traffic finally cleared, I started turning then realized that the car stopped at the stop sign decided to go. I screamed at him to stop but he didn't and rammed into my left leg.
Apparently, he had just come from opthomologist and had his eyes dilated. Worse, as soon as he started moving, I saw he was looking left and not where he was going.
From the ground, I yelled at him to call 911 repeatedly and said I was badly hurt. He couldn't even do that so I grabbed my phone and called, begging them to get me an ambulance. Luckily the local Rescue Squad was close by with full equipment including IV.
No broken bones but I'm in severe pain, bike broken as is phone.
Interestingly, I have a dashboard camera on my bike and it recorded until the bike hit the ground and the battery pack went flying. Great video caught everything.

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They say that riding a bicycle is good for your health. LIARS! (Original Post) Wonder Why Feb 20 OP
Healing vibes on the way to you! SheltieLover Feb 20 #1
I Admire Your Composure! And Maybe Even a Wee Bit of Sense of Humor in There, Too. The Roux Comes First Feb 20 #2
Wishing a speedy recovery and a good law suit for you. sinkingfeeling Feb 20 #3
Get well soon malaise Feb 20 #4
Don't give up biking, it is good for you. I stay on sidewalks and the beach as much as possible. surfered Feb 20 #5
I used to run but now walk malaise Feb 20 #6
At my age, if you see me running, please kill whatever is chasing me. surfered Feb 20 #7
Bwaaaaah malaise Feb 20 #8
🙏 surfered Feb 20 #9
I call it slogging. Slow jogging. I do see others pass me while they are "walking". multigraincracker Feb 20 #10
Gotta keep moving. surfered Feb 20 #19
Don't run, they think runners make good food. Chemical Bill Feb 20 #17
Please pay attention to the pedestrians on the sidewalks dflprincess Feb 20 #14
Most sidewalks around this town don't have pedestrians. Golf carts are the rage. surfered Feb 20 #20
Even the license plate? Figarosmom Feb 20 #11
My dashboard camera also has a rear camera under the basket on the back so it records both simultaneously. Wonder Why Feb 20 #15
I bought my daughter one for xmas last year. Nt Figarosmom Feb 20 #16
Ouch!! Hope you mend quickly!! FemDemERA Feb 20 #12
People with dilated eyes shouldn't be driving swong19104 Feb 20 #13
I am glad nothing was broken and hope you heal soon. LoisB Feb 20 #18
Hope you are back in the saddle soon! MLAA Feb 20 #21
Bummer ProfessorGAC Feb 21 #22
Helmet and fluorescent orange vest every time I get on my bike. Didn't help. Wonder Why Feb 22 #23
I Actually Like That Law ProfessorGAC Feb 23 #24
Yes. Have to be vigilant passing parked cars. I ALWAYS pass a parked car or truck with enough room that Liberal In Texas Feb 23 #29
A Wise Plan ProfessorGAC Feb 23 #31
When I was 22, I spent three days in a coma, got checked for brain activity, five days in ICU, three weeks... NNadir Feb 23 #25
But I'm 79. Wonder Why Feb 23 #32
If I'd been 79 when that happened, we wouldn't be discussing it. I hope you recover well. NNadir Feb 23 #34
Crashing is the part that isn't good for you WestMichRad Feb 23 #26
I hope you got the driver information and insurance carrier. Hope22 Feb 23 #27
Wow. Very sorry to hear that. Liberal In Texas Feb 23 #28
Healing hug 🫂 to you. mwmisses4289 Feb 23 #30
Interesting updates Wonder Why Feb 23 #33

SheltieLover

(79,498 posts)
1. Healing vibes on the way to you!
Fri Feb 20, 2026, 07:48 PM
Feb 20

So sorry you were injured, but glad you're ok!

Fucking idiot driver!

Take good care of yourself.

The Roux Comes First

(2,258 posts)
2. I Admire Your Composure! And Maybe Even a Wee Bit of Sense of Humor in There, Too.
Fri Feb 20, 2026, 07:52 PM
Feb 20

I had a couple experiences in the same category a few decades back, when bike-riding was still in my "wheel-house." The most memorable was a car backing out into traffic and across the sidewalk I was traversing. No consideration at all dedicated to the sidewalk! It bought me a new bike, but also an extended session of rehab.

Like they say, "guns don't kill people|"

surfered

(12,854 posts)
5. Don't give up biking, it is good for you. I stay on sidewalks and the beach as much as possible.
Fri Feb 20, 2026, 08:21 PM
Feb 20

Hoping for a full and speedy recovery!🙏

malaise

(295,087 posts)
6. I used to run but now walk
Fri Feb 20, 2026, 08:25 PM
Feb 20

I ride the stationary bike at home. Gave up riding on the road decades ago.

multigraincracker

(37,360 posts)
10. I call it slogging. Slow jogging. I do see others pass me while they are "walking".
Fri Feb 20, 2026, 09:17 PM
Feb 20

But I'm religious about it. Every day, weather permitting.

Chemical Bill

(3,154 posts)
17. Don't run, they think runners make good food.
Fri Feb 20, 2026, 10:04 PM
Feb 20

Stay where you are and sing something.
(There are lots of YouTube videos of wild animals enjoying people singing, so it must be true)

dflprincess

(29,301 posts)
14. Please pay attention to the pedestrians on the sidewalks
Fri Feb 20, 2026, 09:44 PM
Feb 20

When out for walks I've have nearly as many near misses from adult cyclists not paying attention as I have from cars when I'm crossing a street.

Figarosmom

(11,329 posts)
11. Even the license plate?
Fri Feb 20, 2026, 09:22 PM
Feb 20

Sorry you were hurt. These days the roads are so crowded and not as safe. If I can't get somewhere on just side streets I don't ride my bike. I've had enough of grown assen leaning iut their car windows trying to grab my ass or not recognizing the bike lane and bfollowing way to close especially on hills.

Wonder Why

(6,786 posts)
15. My dashboard camera also has a rear camera under the basket on the back so it records both simultaneously.
Fri Feb 20, 2026, 09:48 PM
Feb 20

First thing I bought after buying the bike last year.

Both our cars have dashboard cameras.

When we rent a car, I take the packed camera out of the luggage and mount it in the rental before leaving the lot.

People that don't have one are very foolish IMHO.

swong19104

(607 posts)
13. People with dilated eyes shouldn't be driving
Fri Feb 20, 2026, 09:40 PM
Feb 20

Maybe wait the hour or so for the dilation to wear off.

ProfessorGAC

(76,448 posts)
22. Bummer
Sat Feb 21, 2026, 09:25 AM
Feb 21

Glad you weren't hurt worse.
Engineer where I worked retired. Was an avid bike rider, so I'm retirement he rode everywhere..2 months into retirement a guy opened his car door as he was going around the parked car.
Went over the door, landed head first and died from head & neck trauma.
Only 2 weeks of retirement!
Made me buy a helmet for bike riding.

Wonder Why

(6,786 posts)
23. Helmet and fluorescent orange vest every time I get on my bike. Didn't help.
Sun Feb 22, 2026, 09:09 PM
Feb 22

FYI, I looked up state law in NC and failure to render aid if you even suspect that the person you hit is injured is in itself an offense. He never called 911 even after I twice told him I was hurt and needed an ambulance. Law requires him to see if he can help me and he never did.

Medical sites in most states say that one can be charged with reckless driving if one has eyes dilated and causes an accident with injuries.

Liberal In Texas

(16,179 posts)
29. Yes. Have to be vigilant passing parked cars. I ALWAYS pass a parked car or truck with enough room that
Mon Feb 23, 2026, 08:38 AM
Feb 23

if a door opens I can clear it easily.

ProfessorGAC

(76,448 posts)
31. A Wise Plan
Mon Feb 23, 2026, 11:41 AM
Feb 23

I live in a fairly docile small town.
There is seldom so much traffic that one can't give a parked car a wide berth.
It happened to that guy in a similar town. I guess it never occurred to him to create more space. A real shame.

NNadir

(37,791 posts)
25. When I was 22, I spent three days in a coma, got checked for brain activity, five days in ICU, three weeks...
Mon Feb 23, 2026, 06:57 AM
Feb 23

...in the hospital, blood transfusions, collapsed lung, huge gash on my head, broken ribs.

I don't want to do one upmanship, but I will: That was my bicycle accident.

To this day, I joke that I failed the brain activity, but they decided not to take my organs lest they be poisonous.

Other than that I was OK.

After that, I moved to LA, sold my van, bicycled everywhere, for three years, my private little (failed) revolution against the internal combustion engine.

The bicycle accident was my fault, however. I was being stupid, going too fast down a hill, and couldn't stop when I hit sand in the road at the bottom. The car that hit me was totaled, (a Volkswagen bug).

There's probably nothing more stupid than a 22 year old provincial in good shape, bicycling at high speed down a hill. That was me.

Every day after my survival has been on borrowed time.

NNadir

(37,791 posts)
34. If I'd been 79 when that happened, we wouldn't be discussing it. I hope you recover well.
Mon Feb 23, 2026, 05:36 PM
Feb 23

WestMichRad

(3,168 posts)
26. Crashing is the part that isn't good for you
Mon Feb 23, 2026, 07:14 AM
Feb 23

… not the bike riding.

Crashes happen, unfortunately… when walking, driving, etc. Motion creates potential hazards.

Hope22

(4,641 posts)
27. I hope you got the driver information and insurance carrier.
Mon Feb 23, 2026, 07:35 AM
Feb 23

Nothing is broken and that is good but you have more than bones to repair. You may already notice other problems since the accident. Follow up with your doctor and monitor any changes. And don’t sign off with the insurance company until you know for sure that all is good. Also if their insurance person calls you, refer them to your agent. I had an agent call me the day after my bike accident. I had a concussion (even wearing my helmet) and he started asking me questions about the accident. They would love to get you on record while you are still shook up. Refuse the interview.

Liberal In Texas

(16,179 posts)
28. Wow. Very sorry to hear that.
Mon Feb 23, 2026, 08:28 AM
Feb 23

This is one of the reasons I won't ride on roads or main streets. It's bad enough crossing them with a stoplight. I stay in my local neighborhood or ride on the hike/bike trail I can get to in about 4 blocks or so.

I can sympathize as one who had a spill and broke a finger about 2 years ago it's no fun. The finger isn't the same and still hurts all the time.

One of the reasons I stopped riding busier streets was once as I was riding on one that is 6 lanes wide on as far right as I dared, some ass tried to sideswipe me on purpose. Too many assholes and poor drivers out there.

Wonder Why

(6,786 posts)
33. Interesting updates
Mon Feb 23, 2026, 04:55 PM
Feb 23

My condition: Saw surgeon. Very professional and thorough. Each time he touches me or asks me to move a muscle, he explains what he is looking for. Hospital didn't get full coverage with trays so he did more but they were negative. Ordered MRIs of knee and hip because it could catch something CAT scans and xray could miss.

Police: Local chief wants video to attach to police report. Wants to talk to me about accident. This is the service you get with a great female chief and a department with fewer than 10 officers.

Me: Pain level the same but ibuprofen controls it.

Charges: I don't know yet what they charged him with but I found more to discuss with her
1) Driving while impaired because he should not drive after dilation, was only 100 feet from doctor's office and causing accident with injury because of it.
2) Failure to signal a turn. Clearly visible on video.
3) Failure to render aid when causing or suspecting that he caused injury or at request of injured person. That alone is a Class 1 misdemeanor. His only defense to that would be that he couldn't see to call because of dilation which is an admission of being visually impaired and not fit to drive.

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