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LuckyCharms

(23,378 posts)
Wed Jun 10, 2026, 12:05 PM Jun 10

Oh Christ, car is bought. Now, the dog can't walk...

Emergency vet visit. Wife is calling now.

She's in tears.

He's 15. if we have to put him down, I'm not going to be able to bear it.

Please spare a thought for him. Thank you.

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Oh Christ, car is bought. Now, the dog can't walk... (Original Post) LuckyCharms Jun 10 OP
Hoping for good news. 3catwoman3 Jun 10 #1
I know all too well how this feels. imaginary girl Jun 10 #2
Weirdly going through this exact thing today JBTaurus83 Jun 10 #3
I'm thinking of you. LuckyCharms Jun 10 #35
Lucky JBTaurus83 Jun 10 #42
Oh I'm so glad to read this! LuckyCharms Jun 10 #44
It is terrible to make these decisions for our beloved pets. brer cat Jun 10 #4
Have had him in my prayers Marthe48 Jun 10 #5
Gentle 🫂 to you. mwmisses4289 Jun 10 #6
Praying for your beloved dog. Lucky. debm55 Jun 10 #7
Sparing a thought berksdem Jun 10 #8
Sending you all healing thoughts during this unfortunate time Niagara Jun 10 #9
the only way i could get through it when my lil ol man passed... cremate/save. ShepKat Jun 10 #10
Our is in a box under the bed and my pillow. Bradley was such a good boy. I think about him everyday ... marble falls Jun 10 #29
Sending good vibes. Figarosmom Jun 10 #11
Hurting heart here BaronChocula Jun 10 #12
Praying for healing for you and your family, Tanuki Jun 10 #13
Hang in there Lucky Coolgoober Jun 10 #14
Lucky, you know the inevitable is coming. Prairie_Seagull Jun 10 #15
All you can do is your best when they are alive and put them to rest when it is time. twodogsbarking Jun 10 #16
💔 I'm so sorry. That's 3 now, you should get a break. 1WorldHope Jun 10 #17
Sending kind wishes to all three of you. JMCKUSICK Jun 10 #18
Sending good vibes KT2000 Jun 10 #19
I'm hoping for the best, LuckyCharms. In my mind, the only downside to dogs is that they have a tendency generalbetrayus Jun 10 #20
I sure hope he's ok. I am so sorry. LoisB Jun 10 #21
Talking to my 14 yo Havanese...with leg problems... MiHale Jun 10 #22
Hoping for and wishing you the best, Lucky... slightlv Jun 10 #23
I understand completely, Lucky.... some_of_us_are_sane Jun 10 #24
There is a special place in our hearts that only animals know. SupportSanity Jun 10 #25
I hope, Lucky, stage left Jun 10 #26
I'm so sorry - have been through that TBF Jun 10 #27
I get what you are going through: if anything happens to our cat, I admit it: I will be in deepest mourning. ... marble falls Jun 10 #28
I'm so sorry you're going through this. StarryNite Jun 10 #30
Sending lots of love. bamagal62 Jun 10 #31
I hope he will be all right, Lucky. Sending health karma your way. Diamond_Dog Jun 10 #32
*keepings fingers crossed* a kennedy Jun 10 #33
HE'S HOME NOW. LuckyCharms Jun 10 #34
YEAH!!!!! irisblue Jun 10 #36
Good IbogaProject Jun 10 #37
What a relief! 3catwoman3 Jun 10 #38
So glad to hear this! TBF Jun 10 #39
Thank goodness Niagara Jun 10 #41
Great news! JBTaurus83 Jun 10 #43
Happy to hear this Marthe48 Jun 10 #45
Hooray!!!!!!!!!!!!! some_of_us_are_sane Jun 10 #47
Add my voice this this happy chorus. Prairie_Seagull Jun 11 #49
Wonderful , Than you so much for the great news. Lucky. debm55 Jun 10 #40
Sending positive thoughts your way for the recovery of your beloved dog. Fla Dem Jun 10 #46
Whew! Thank heavens, Lucky. Totally Tunsie Jun 11 #48

imaginary girl

(1,047 posts)
2. I know all too well how this feels.
Wed Jun 10, 2026, 12:10 PM
Jun 10

I'm sorry you're going through this, and my thoughts are with your family.

JBTaurus83

(1,858 posts)
3. Weirdly going through this exact thing today
Wed Jun 10, 2026, 12:13 PM
Jun 10

I have a 16 year old Maltese, and he had some type of seizure or stroke. He can’t move his back legs and I’m sitting at the animal hospital. I hope your pup recovers! My hope is to have mine pass at home when the time comes.

JBTaurus83

(1,858 posts)
42. Lucky
Wed Jun 10, 2026, 08:00 PM
Jun 10

I hope things turned out for the best with your pup. Mine is still kicking. They gave me some sedatives and I took him home. He seems to have regained mobility for now.

brer cat

(27,775 posts)
4. It is terrible to make these decisions for our beloved pets.
Wed Jun 10, 2026, 12:15 PM
Jun 10

I'm sorry that you and your family are going through this.

Niagara

(12,424 posts)
9. Sending you all healing thoughts during this unfortunate time
Wed Jun 10, 2026, 12:45 PM
Jun 10

Last edited Wed Jun 10, 2026, 02:31 PM - Edit history (1)



ShepKat

(565 posts)
10. the only way i could get through it when my lil ol man passed... cremate/save.
Wed Jun 10, 2026, 12:48 PM
Jun 10

Back in 2012... We are their stewards and take the responsibility seriously.
We are the alpha and make decisions for their sake- not ours. It's the honorable loving thing to do.
My angel still sits on the upper shelf overlooking all the goings on and I feel him with me still when i look up
there at his beautiful wooden box on the alter. He was in my arms as he crossed over.
I simply could not part from him and had him cremated/saved. Dam it was hard.
I was the only person he listened to. He went with me everywhere in the car after that.

marble falls

(73,592 posts)
29. Our is in a box under the bed and my pillow. Bradley was such a good boy. I think about him everyday ...
Wed Jun 10, 2026, 02:18 PM
Jun 10

... it'll be eleven years this month.

Tanuki

(16,575 posts)
13. Praying for healing for you and your family,
Wed Jun 10, 2026, 01:25 PM
Jun 10

the human and furry alike. Please God, let Lucky Charms' beloved puppy dog return home to love and be loved.
🙏🏻💕🐶

Coolgoober

(442 posts)
14. Hang in there Lucky
Wed Jun 10, 2026, 01:27 PM
Jun 10

Think of all the joy that pup has brought for you and your wife. Dog lovers are better people

Prairie_Seagull

(4,902 posts)
15. Lucky, you know the inevitable is coming.
Wed Jun 10, 2026, 01:31 PM
Jun 10

My hope for you is that this will give you the time you need with him/her.

No one can tell you how to cope. I would say to take special care of yourself during this hard time.

Your dog would want that for you.

twodogsbarking

(19,876 posts)
16. All you can do is your best when they are alive and put them to rest when it is time.
Wed Jun 10, 2026, 01:33 PM
Jun 10

It is so sad. Thoughts with you.

generalbetrayus

(2,072 posts)
20. I'm hoping for the best, LuckyCharms. In my mind, the only downside to dogs is that they have a tendency
Wed Jun 10, 2026, 01:43 PM
Jun 10

to die before you do.

My dad took my childhood dog, Jackie, to be put to sleep when I was in the 10th grade. He told my mom he cried when Jackie was put down. I never saw my dad cry myself. I never knew until then how much he loved that dog.

MiHale

(13,289 posts)
22. Talking to my 14 yo Havanese...with leg problems...
Wed Jun 10, 2026, 01:55 PM
Jun 10

Roscoe sends his best wishes…I’ll add mine too.🤞

some_of_us_are_sane

(3,851 posts)
24. I understand completely, Lucky....
Wed Jun 10, 2026, 02:09 PM
Jun 10
There is no grief as pure as the grief over a pet's passing. It's uncomplicated by nuance and strikes like an arrow.

Hugs from here.

SupportSanity

(1,606 posts)
25. There is a special place in our hearts that only animals know.
Wed Jun 10, 2026, 02:12 PM
Jun 10

And the death of an animal lets others see that special place if only for a brief moment.

TBF

(37,672 posts)
27. I'm so sorry - have been through that
Wed Jun 10, 2026, 02:14 PM
Jun 10

we've had several rescues through the years. Prayers for strength.

marble falls

(73,592 posts)
28. I get what you are going through: if anything happens to our cat, I admit it: I will be in deepest mourning. ...
Wed Jun 10, 2026, 02:15 PM
Jun 10

... 15 years is not enough - I am praying for more for you pup with good health.

StarryNite

(12,197 posts)
30. I'm so sorry you're going through this.
Wed Jun 10, 2026, 02:20 PM
Jun 10

I'll be thinking of him and hoping for the best. Fifteen years of love is a beautiful gift, and it's clear how much he means to your family.

bamagal62

(4,661 posts)
31. Sending lots of love.
Wed Jun 10, 2026, 03:13 PM
Jun 10

Hopefully, it’s not too serious. 🙏🏻❤️❤️please let us know when you find out what is wrong.

Diamond_Dog

(41,535 posts)
32. I hope he will be all right, Lucky. Sending health karma your way.
Wed Jun 10, 2026, 03:41 PM
Jun 10

It’s so hard to see them struggling with a health issue. I remember when one of our dogs had seizures in her old age. Just about tore me apart. I know how you are feeling. Please keep us updated. ❤️

LuckyCharms

(23,378 posts)
34. HE'S HOME NOW.
Wed Jun 10, 2026, 03:53 PM
Jun 10

Thank you for all of the support.

He got suddenly depressed and glassy-eyed. then his back legs gave out and he collapsed. I put him on the bed under the ceiling fan and laid there with him while waiting to leave for the vet appointment. He looked pretty bad, I didn't think we'd be bringing him home.

He perked up a bit by the time we got to the vet. The doc gave him a good physical. It's orthopedic rather than neurologic. She doesn't think that his bladder mass has metastasized out of the bladder. His reflexes were good.

He's been on Carprofin since diagnosed with the bladder mass, and today she also put him on Methocarbamol and Gabapentin. She thinks maybe the sudden depression was due to the heat, and the collapse may have been an acute issue like a pinched nerve that resolved.

I appreciate all you people here. Thank you.

Niagara

(12,424 posts)
41. Thank goodness
Wed Jun 10, 2026, 05:11 PM
Jun 10

I messed up my well wishes upthread and I didn't even realize it. Thankfully we have edit availabe.




some_of_us_are_sane

(3,851 posts)
47. Hooray!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Wed Jun 10, 2026, 09:23 PM
Jun 10
Our pets are precious and we suffer with them. (We also hoot and HOLLER WITH HAPPINESS when they are better again! GREAT NEWS!)

Fla Dem

(27,864 posts)
46. Sending positive thoughts your way for the recovery of your beloved dog.
Wed Jun 10, 2026, 08:56 PM
Jun 10

You, your wife and you wonderful dog has everyone sending hugs.

Totally Tunsie

(12,235 posts)
48. Whew! Thank heavens, Lucky.
Thu Jun 11, 2026, 02:26 AM
Jun 11

That is the most difficult situation to face with pet ownership. How nice to hear you still have precious time with your fur-boy. Appreciate every day.

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