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What is the nicest compliment paid to you (Original Post) malaise Jun 16 OP
Can't remember exactly who it was, but when I was working for the newspaper Walleye Jun 16 #1
You're my favorite substitute teacher! kimbutgar Jun 16 #2
kimbutgar....... Upthevibe Jun 16 #15
Recently? "I knew when I first saw you and you started to speak that you weren't a Trump supporter" hlthe2b Jun 16 #3
Nice! SheltieLover Jun 16 #5
A Great Compliment malaise Jun 16 #6
I enjoyed your book so much... The Blue Flower Jun 16 #4
Wow! malaise Jun 16 #10
A former student dedicated a book to me. lapucelle Jun 16 #7
lapucelle..... Upthevibe Jun 16 #16
It was unexpected and absolutely wonderful. lapucelle Jun 16 #21
"At least True Dough Jun 16 #8
I love this forum! Is there anything more powerful than a compliment. legallyblondeNYC Jun 16 #9
Five little girls NJCher Jun 16 #11
NJCher Upthevibe Jun 16 #17
"He was very thorough" dickthegrouch Jun 16 #12
My husband of nearly 45 years dlilafae Jun 16 #13
Young guy I worked with said "You always look like you're up to something." 2MuchNoise Jun 16 #14
This is silly, but it still makes me smile Grim Chieftain Jun 16 #18
So sweet malaise Jun 16 #19
I was complimented, in a backhanded sort of way LogDog75 Jun 16 #20
A lady I worked with for years... Tikki Jun 16 #22
I had a professor once say oberle Jun 17 #32
From a married guy when I was a young secretary... some_of_us_are_sane Jun 16 #23
Lovely compliment malaise Jun 17 #24
A clerk at the grocery store Marthe48 Jun 17 #25
Wonderful malaise Jun 17 #28
When my son was young, I was a Scout Leader PJMcK Jun 17 #26
How about you, malaise? PJMcK Jun 17 #27
A former student called me malaise Jun 17 #29
That's a wonderful story! PJMcK Jun 17 #34
In 2021 and 2022 I had purple hair - JustKay Jun 17 #30
Too cute malaise Jun 17 #31
"You're pretty!" sprinkleeninow Jun 17 #33
The kid (maybe mid-20s) who was running sound at a club I played at... LudwigPastorius Jun 18 #35
Bwaaaaaaaaaaah! malaise Jun 18 #39
This message was self-deleted by its author Skittles Jun 18 #36
This message was self-deleted by its author Skittles Jun 18 #37
My Greek M-I-L once told me bif Jun 18 #38
That is a serious compliment malaise Jun 18 #40

Walleye

(45,839 posts)
1. Can't remember exactly who it was, but when I was working for the newspaper
Tue Jun 16, 2026, 10:48 AM
Jun 16

A cute young guy recognized my name and said he had been following my photography for years. I didn’t think anybody even looked long enough to read the photo credit

hlthe2b

(115,204 posts)
3. Recently? "I knew when I first saw you and you started to speak that you weren't a Trump supporter"
Tue Jun 16, 2026, 10:59 AM
Jun 16

LOL

Early on? Not sure.

The Blue Flower

(6,660 posts)
4. I enjoyed your book so much...
Tue Jun 16, 2026, 11:01 AM
Jun 16

...I slowed down reading it at the end to make it last.

The title is "Profit & Loss." Self-published on amazon. A story about homelessness.

legallyblondeNYC

(235 posts)
9. I love this forum! Is there anything more powerful than a compliment.
Tue Jun 16, 2026, 11:31 AM
Jun 16

The more we compliment each other, the more we can change the world.

NJCher

(43,820 posts)
11. Five little girls
Tue Jun 16, 2026, 12:04 PM
Jun 16

Were sort of hanging around outside the school garden gate, and when I left to go to my car, they shyly came up to me and their "spokesperson" said, "We wanted to tell you you're pretty."

dickthegrouch

(4,746 posts)
12. "He was very thorough"
Tue Jun 16, 2026, 12:14 PM
Jun 16

Said to my boss about a consultation job I had performed for that client.

My boss said it was "The worst thing said about me all year"

dlilafae

(512 posts)
13. My husband of nearly 45 years
Tue Jun 16, 2026, 12:26 PM
Jun 16

told my M-i-L that I deserve my new car. To which, she had not ont thing to add. 😊

2MuchNoise

(964 posts)
14. Young guy I worked with said "You always look like you're up to something."
Tue Jun 16, 2026, 12:35 PM
Jun 16

I don't think it was meant as a compliment, but I took it as one.

Grim Chieftain

(2,327 posts)
18. This is silly, but it still makes me smile
Tue Jun 16, 2026, 01:37 PM
Jun 16

Many years ago, when I was starting out as an elementary school teacher, we had to do the dreaded lunchroom duty. There was a strict no talking policy to expedite the time children spent having lunch. One little boy, with big eyes, held up his hand and said "Miss H-------, are you a princess?" I smiled and said "Yes, yes I am". I'll never forget the looks on the children's faces.

LogDog75

(1,471 posts)
20. I was complimented, in a backhanded sort of way
Tue Jun 16, 2026, 02:03 PM
Jun 16

I had been stationed in South Korea for about three months and being the SNCO of the section, I streamlined how we supported everyone. I had to brief a new independent duty medical technician (IDMT) from across base on how we would support him and the procedures/paperwork to request medical supplies. He was accompanied by IDMT he was replacing and after the briefing, the old IDMT said he wished I had arrived about six months ago because the only reason he didn't request an extension to his assignment was because of how hard it was for him to get support from us.

Tikki

(15,293 posts)
22. A lady I worked with for years...
Tue Jun 16, 2026, 06:11 PM
Jun 16

“If I were to come back as a dog.. I would want to be your family dog.”
WOW..that was a compliment for sure.

Tikki

oberle

(473 posts)
32. I had a professor once say
Wed Jun 17, 2026, 06:36 PM
Jun 17

he'd like to come back as one of my cats. I loved that -- I had 9 at the time.

some_of_us_are_sane

(3,850 posts)
23. From a married guy when I was a young secretary...
Tue Jun 16, 2026, 09:50 PM
Jun 16
bopping around in mini-skirts..."Young lady, you're not beautiful...........but you're lovely. And that will last much much longer."

I was kind of miffed until I thought about it.... and fell in love with the sound of that.

PJMcK

(25,228 posts)
26. When my son was young, I was a Scout Leader
Wed Jun 17, 2026, 05:22 PM
Jun 17

Several of the Scouts said similar things to me along the lines of, “I wish my parents would listen to me like you do.”

They were compliments that broke my heart.

PJMcK

(25,228 posts)
27. How about you, malaise?
Wed Jun 17, 2026, 05:24 PM
Jun 17

I suspect you’ve impacted many lives.

Can you share what inspired your OP?

Thanks, in advance.

malaise

(299,650 posts)
29. A former student called me
Wed Jun 17, 2026, 05:40 PM
Jun 17

Well over a decade ago, I told him I thought he’d be a good person to take over one of my courses.
I told him to come and help himself to any of the text books and journals and come up with his own ideas for the way forward.

He called to tell me that he was just promoted at a university in Canada and wanted to thank me. Then he paid me the compliment - he said you told me to use my imagination and come up with my own course outline and plans. You said this will now be your course not mine.
I laughed and said if we don’t trust the young ones to be able to do what we were allowed to do, then we were really bad lecturers/teachers.

PJMcK

(25,228 posts)
34. That's a wonderful story!
Wed Jun 17, 2026, 08:09 PM
Jun 17

Thanks for telling it.

I had a strong feeling you are an educator.

JustKay

(214 posts)
30. In 2021 and 2022 I had purple hair -
Wed Jun 17, 2026, 06:02 PM
Jun 17

Really, dark purple hair, and a little girl (maybe five or six) walked past me and said, "I love your princess hair!" Made my day and still makes me smile all these years later. I've since gone back to blond, so I don't have princess hair anymore.

LudwigPastorius

(15,272 posts)
35. The kid (maybe mid-20s) who was running sound at a club I played at...
Thu Jun 18, 2026, 12:49 AM
Jun 18

said to the band after our set, "That was the greatest thing I've ever heard in my life!". (This was a band that could best be described as Ornette Coleman meets The Allman Brothers.)

We just silently looked at each other after he said that, and the guitarist said to him, "Don't get out much, hunh?".

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