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Related: About this forumI need to say this
Last Wednesday, a very dear close friend of mine died. He was 77 years old. When I couldn't reach him for our Thursday call, Something was wrong. I tried calling him again on Friday, but the call went to voice mail. So I called his brother. I couldn't reach him but left a message. He called Saturday with the bad news.
Les and I have been friends for many years. He lived right across the street from us until his move to Florida several years ago. The week after dad died in 2010, he and I went for a walk after work. It was in the 90s and a typical humid Maryland June day. We walked up three blocks and turned right to walk down the street. We made it maybe 100 feet up the street when I couldn't walk anymore. I was stuck. I was talking gibberish and he sat me down on the curb and ran home to get his car to drive me back home. He got back to me, gave me a couple of aspirin, and took me home. My wife immediately called for an ambulance. The rest is history. I had a stoke the size of a golf ball.
I was lucky that day in more than one way. I lived thru this and had little impairment from the stroke. Les did what he needed to do to help me get home to get help.
He was my hero. Without him being there at that time, I might not be here today. Sounds dramatic, I know, but it's true. When he moved to Florida, we talked on the phone every week for an hour or so. We solved all the world's problems and felt satisfied to find out what else needed to be solved during the week for our next conversation.
I will miss him as he was a very dear friend. I will never forget him.
RIP, Les.
marble falls
(62,041 posts)lark
(24,147 posts)So glad he was around to help you when you needed it.
Rorey
(8,513 posts)Thank you for sharing this.
Trueblue Texan
(2,919 posts)Blessed you are to have such a close friendship. I know you will miss him. Peace and healing to you.
OLDMDDEM
(2,092 posts)mountain grammy
(27,270 posts)Im so sorry for your loss.
ShazamIam
(2,701 posts)OLDMDDEM
(2,092 posts)woodsprite
(12,194 posts)So many people go through their entire lives without having such a friendship.
OLDMDDEM
(2,092 posts)He was a very special person.
murielm99
(31,428 posts)70sEraVet
(4,140 posts)A true friend is like a good dog; we're only allowed one or two in a lifetime.
secondwind
(16,903 posts)OLDMDDEM
(2,092 posts)OLDMDDEM
(2,092 posts)I was very lucky.
snowybirdie
(5,623 posts)May his memory be a blessing.
OLDMDDEM
(2,092 posts)It is and always will be.
sinkingfeeling
(52,979 posts)OLDMDDEM
(2,092 posts)3Hotdogs
(13,386 posts)Len did not do what he needed to do. He should have IMMEDIATELY called 911.
And I'm sorry for your loss. I'm sure he was a good man.
OLDMDDEM
(2,092 posts)Neither of us had a phone with us. Lesson Learned.
ybbor
(1,604 posts)I just had a cousin pass who was like a brother.
Stay strong!
I'm sorry for your loss. I will stay strong.
SheilaAnn
(10,132 posts)OLDMDDEM
(2,092 posts)They certainly are. We lost a brilliant mind when he passed.
sarge43
(29,153 posts)You are so fortunate having such a good man as a friend. May he rest in peace.
OLDMDDEM
(2,092 posts)I agree with you.
Ohioboy
(3,459 posts)OLDMDDEM
(2,092 posts)MLAA
(18,591 posts)❤️❤️Les❤️❤️
beemerphill
(511 posts)Les is the kind of person that we all want as friend. You are fortunate to have had him in your life for so long.
OLDMDDEM
(2,092 posts)I agree. He was a special person.
niyad
(119,833 posts)joy.
I know it will. He was a very special type of person.
Heartstrings
(7,349 posts)OLDMDDEM
(2,092 posts)yardwork
(64,303 posts)OLDMDDEM
(2,092 posts)NoMoreRepugs
(10,504 posts)OLDMDDEM
(2,092 posts)Like I said, I will never forget him.
femmedem
(8,444 posts)I don't know you or him but your tribute made me tear up. My heart aches for you.
And thank you for sharing this memory. May it inspire all of us to be as good and caring as Les, and as you.
OLDMDDEM
(2,092 posts)It's been a difficult past few days. I sincerely appreciate your comments.
marieo1
(1,402 posts)I lost a very dear friend, too. I will never forget the good times we had together. We went to Mardi Gras, MN State Fair, Renaissance Festival and we talked every week or so. She moved near the cities to be near her son and eventually she passed away. I miss the good conversations and life experiences we shared. RIP, dear Betty.
Granny M
(1,395 posts)So hard to lose a treasured friend. My thoughts are with you.
OLDMDDEM
(2,092 posts)I appreciate that. Thank you.
momta
(4,106 posts)I know how how a loss like that leaves a hole in your heart. Take care.
A big hole. My best male friend.
virgdem
(2,205 posts)May he rest in peace.
OLDMDDEM
(2,092 posts)Joinfortmill
(16,368 posts)OLDMDDEM
(2,092 posts)He was a great guy.
lunatica
(53,410 posts)High caliber friends like him are hard to come by. Your story made me cry!
OLDMDDEM
(2,092 posts)It made me cry too.
BadGimp
(4,061 posts)denbot
(9,912 posts)OLDMDDEM
(2,092 posts)LiberalLoner
(10,104 posts)japple
(10,315 posts)has left the earthly plane. You were both lucky to have had each other.
PatrickforB
(15,109 posts)May Les rest in peace, surrounded by the light of the Divine.
dchill
(40,448 posts)...but it's always hell to lose a friend.