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LiberalLoner

(11,454 posts)
Thu Jun 19, 2025, 08:43 PM Jun 19

I had the most wonderful day today. It reminded me, life can still be good even in the middle of

Our nation falling apart, atrocities all around us, looming war. We can still somehow find little bits of happiness.

My husband took me to the National Gallery of Art. And I got to see beautiful paintings. Then we had a nice lunch, followed by custard, and naps in our respective recliners while listening to an audible book from the number one ladies detective agency series.

I was grateful for every single moment of it, and thought, how wonderful my life is, away from my family of origin and away from any toxic people in general.

I look at Trump and see my father. And my older sister and brother turned cruel and sociopathic, too.

Every day, I think at least one time, I am so glad I escaped my family of origin.

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I had the most wonderful day today. It reminded me, life can still be good even in the middle of (Original Post) LiberalLoner Jun 19 OP
Sounds like a great day...I'm a liberal loner here in red KS, but I did get some new conga drums so having fun with them wcmagumba Jun 19 #1
I am smiling at the thought of you enjoying your new conga drums, I hope they LiberalLoner Jun 20 #10
Thank you for the link - that was fantastic, mesmerizing. erronis Jun 20 #20
😍💙💙💙 LiberalLoner Jun 20 #21
Glad you have overcome some hard problems. Trmp, and your father/siblings. You are a shining star! erronis Jun 19 #2
Thank you so very much! 💙💙💙. I will try to keep hold of this happiness and peace, so that LiberalLoner Jun 20 #11
Hold on to that! stillcool Jun 19 #3
Thank you so so much! 💙💙💙. What a good reminder for all of is, perhaps everyone struggles to LiberalLoner Jun 20 #12
... SheltieLover Jun 19 #4
💙💙💙🌹🌹🌹🤗🤗🤗 LiberalLoner Jun 20 #13
... SheltieLover Jun 20 #15
What a glorious day! Husband planned a perfect day for you both. MLAA Jun 19 #5
Thank you so much! 💙💙💙. Yes, I am so grateful to him, especially as I am in a wheelchair for things LiberalLoner Jun 20 #14
Beautiful Clouds Passing Jun 19 #6
Thank you so much! 💙💙💙. Here is a photo I took of a fountain I love there. LiberalLoner Jun 20 #16
Happy for you. Absolutely a great day in Mid-Maine. Overcast, but comfortable, late PM rain watered the garden, OAITW r.2.0 Jun 19 #7
Thank you so much! 💙💙💙 and I am happy for you, enjoying a beautiful Maine summer day! How peaceful! 😍 LiberalLoner Jun 20 #17
I'm so thrilled to hear about your wonderful day LiberalLoner JMCKUSICK Jun 19 #8
Thank you so much, and thank you for being so kind to me. 💙💙💙. I did take a photo of a fountain I love, LiberalLoner Jun 20 #18
So glad you had a lovely day. crosinski Jun 20 #9
Thank you so much! 💙💙💙. I do think the best days always include an afternoon nap! Do you remember, LiberalLoner Jun 20 #19
Yes, I do remember those naps! crosinski Jun 20 #22
😍👏👏👏 LiberalLoner Jun 20 #23
I am glad you found some joy in your day! OldBaldy1701E Jun 22 #24
Thank you so much! 💙💙💙. I wish I could have had everyone here along with me at the museum! LiberalLoner Jun 23 #25
Amazing, I love it. purple_haze Jun 23 #26
That sounds like such a delightful day, and you sound like a delightful person! Thank you LiberalLoner Jun 23 #27

wcmagumba

(4,197 posts)
1. Sounds like a great day...I'm a liberal loner here in red KS, but I did get some new conga drums so having fun with them
Thu Jun 19, 2025, 08:47 PM
Jun 19

LiberalLoner

(11,454 posts)
10. I am smiling at the thought of you enjoying your new conga drums, I hope they
Fri Jun 20, 2025, 09:47 AM
Jun 20

Will always be a joy to you and the music you create will be a joy to others, as well!

Have you seen this video, FOLI rhythm is movement, set in Africa? It is easy to find, you need not click on the link, I provide a link just to be polite.

?feature=shared

erronis

(20,396 posts)
2. Glad you have overcome some hard problems. Trmp, and your father/siblings. You are a shining star!
Thu Jun 19, 2025, 08:50 PM
Jun 19

And don't let anyone put out your glow. Enjoy what you can.

Life can deal us with lemons, etc....

LiberalLoner

(11,454 posts)
11. Thank you so very much! 💙💙💙. I will try to keep hold of this happiness and peace, so that
Fri Jun 20, 2025, 09:48 AM
Jun 20

I may give it to others.

stillcool

(34,366 posts)
3. Hold on to that!
Thu Jun 19, 2025, 09:00 PM
Jun 19

So important to remember that life is good if you stay in the now. So hard to do, and yet so simple.

LiberalLoner

(11,454 posts)
12. Thank you so so much! 💙💙💙. What a good reminder for all of is, perhaps everyone struggles to
Fri Jun 20, 2025, 09:49 AM
Jun 20

Be here now!

MLAA

(19,330 posts)
5. What a glorious day! Husband planned a perfect day for you both.
Thu Jun 19, 2025, 09:27 PM
Jun 19

I’m really glad you escaped your family of origin and created your own family and friends of choice.

LiberalLoner

(11,454 posts)
14. Thank you so much! 💙💙💙. Yes, I am so grateful to him, especially as I am in a wheelchair for things
Fri Jun 20, 2025, 09:51 AM
Jun 20

Like museums, etc. I can walk and stand but not for very long or far. MS.

He has always been so wonderful to me. I am lucky.

My birthday is this summer, and I always ask for things like this as part of my birthday season celebration!

LiberalLoner

(11,454 posts)
16. Thank you so much! 💙💙💙. Here is a photo I took of a fountain I love there.
Fri Jun 20, 2025, 10:04 AM
Jun 20

The water was not yet running, perhaps too early in the morning.

[url=https://postimg.cc/gnXJZBsF][img][/img][/url]

OAITW r.2.0

(30,438 posts)
7. Happy for you. Absolutely a great day in Mid-Maine. Overcast, but comfortable, late PM rain watered the garden,
Thu Jun 19, 2025, 11:03 PM
Jun 19

perfectly. A great summer here, so far.

LiberalLoner

(11,454 posts)
17. Thank you so much! 💙💙💙 and I am happy for you, enjoying a beautiful Maine summer day! How peaceful! 😍
Fri Jun 20, 2025, 10:05 AM
Jun 20

JMCKUSICK

(2,898 posts)
8. I'm so thrilled to hear about your wonderful day LiberalLoner
Thu Jun 19, 2025, 11:46 PM
Jun 19

My favorite part is an assumption I'm happy to make,
You could write this post every day in some capacity and that makes you such an amazing part of our days.
Thank you!

LiberalLoner

(11,454 posts)
18. Thank you so much, and thank you for being so kind to me. 💙💙💙. I did take a photo of a fountain I love,
Fri Jun 20, 2025, 10:06 AM
Jun 20

That I hope people might enjoy seeing.

[url=https://postimg.cc/gnXJZBsF][img][/img][/url]

LiberalLoner

(11,454 posts)
19. Thank you so much! 💙💙💙. I do think the best days always include an afternoon nap! Do you remember,
Fri Jun 20, 2025, 10:08 AM
Jun 20

When we were all in kindergarten (I am assuming this was a universal experience?) when we all had mats on which to take a short midday nap?

Such naps should be a normal part of life, I think.

LiberalLoner

(11,454 posts)
25. Thank you so much! 💙💙💙. I wish I could have had everyone here along with me at the museum!
Mon Jun 23, 2025, 09:49 AM
Jun 23

purple_haze

(259 posts)
26. Amazing, I love it.
Mon Jun 23, 2025, 10:39 AM
Jun 23

Yesterday I spent the day with my better half. My favorite thing in the world to do.

I made us breakfast and coffee just like every other morning, and then we hiked, took care of all the trees in the yard, ran a bunch of errands, spoke to a bunch of perfect strangers at the grocery store, made tons of food, swam in the pool, laid in the sun, and spent very little time online.

An amazing day that refreshes my mind every time.

LiberalLoner

(11,454 posts)
27. That sounds like such a delightful day, and you sound like a delightful person! Thank you
Mon Jun 23, 2025, 02:08 PM
Jun 23

For sharing this!

💙💙💙

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