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NJCher

(37,840 posts)
Sun Jul 24, 2022, 12:37 PM Jul 2022

My Neighbor Keeps Throwing Out Expensive Plants

I rescue them late at night when I take out my trash. I live at the end of a private road and have to take my trash/recycling down to the city street for collection. It's enough of a distance that I drive it. I often procrastinate and do this late at night.

A couple weeks ago this neighbor threw out this Southern Magnolia which cost somebody $63 to give.

https://www.seedsoflife.com/southern-magnolia-memorial-tree

It was in perfect condition, just like you see in the photo at the link, still in its burlap bag and the white ribbon neatly attached.

At first I was a little angry with them for just discarding this plant, however, I subsequently realized that this property lot doesn't have the sunlight or space to grow it. That's probably why it ended up on top of their trash can.

But I have the sunlight and the space, so here it is in my collection of plants:



For a while I will keep it in a large pot before I put it in its permanent spot. Its chosen spot is a little inconvenient to get to, plus I just like to "baby" my plants and build a relationship with them. I'll have it in the ground by early fall and I will protect it so the deer don't destroy it.

Last Thursday at around 1 a.m., I again procrastinated and headed to take down the recycling/trash. As I passed my neighbor's house, I saw yet another plant thrown out. This one is an orchid!!



Now you might be able to get an orchid at the grocery store for $20-25 or so, but this is a florist orchid. Those go for around $60-130. Why was it thrown out? Well, you can see that the bloom is spent. "Oh boo hoo, into the trash you go. Buh bye."

So I gave this little baby a home, too. I don't even care if it blooms again. I just love its thick, glossy leaves.

Last summer this couple threw out two large New Guinea impatiens. They were in wood containers; the containers alone are $25. These plants were thrown out because they were wilted. Yes, they had the temerity to need water, off they went, kicked to the curb. I found them late at night, put them in the back of my station wagon, watered them, and then next morning came out to two beautiful plants. Not long after: blooms, beautiful magenta blooms. I enjoyed those plants for the rest of the season.


Not my photo, but looked like this.

So no point to this other than to say keep your eyes out! Free plants, and nice ones, too!




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My Neighbor Keeps Throwing Out Expensive Plants (Original Post) NJCher Jul 2022 OP
This reminds me of : LakeArenal Jul 2022 #1
One mans trash . . . . I would be checking that spot daily Arkansas Granny Jul 2022 #2
+11 Higherarky Jul 2022 #6
Good for you, one person's trash is another person's treasures! We had over 550 house plants at SWBTATTReg Jul 2022 #3
So glad you're saving them! I wonder why her generous friends keep spooky3 Jul 2022 #4
My "new" neighbor basically stole my grief tree! CountAllVotes Jul 2022 #5
You're nicer than I am ... Higherarky Jul 2022 #8
Does she keep it inside her house? halfulglas Jul 2022 #10
I've decided I don't want anything to do with her CountAllVotes Jul 2022 #15
hem. AllaN01Bear Jul 2022 #17
Gross isn't she? CountAllVotes Jul 2022 #22
si. AllaN01Bear Jul 2022 #27
Wow! Bayard Jul 2022 #7
What a lovely post! nuxvomica Jul 2022 #9
Yes! I must admit I'm a bit jealous! Quakerfriend Jul 2022 #13
Niiiiiiice Higherarky Jul 2022 #21
Yay for you not fooled Jul 2022 #11
If I were you, late at night would be the only time I take out the trash. appleannie1 Jul 2022 #12
Friend, you happily benefit from someone without a green thumb. Beautiful. txwhitedove Jul 2022 #14
plant rescues like animal rescuers . AllaN01Bear Jul 2022 #16
Maybe she's getting the plants as gifts, and she has no interest in keeping them? FakeNoose Jul 2022 #18
I have no green thumb, slightlv Jul 2022 #19
I've had great luck re-blooming orchids. I used to give my late mother orchids sometimes Tanuki Jul 2022 #20
Next spring, when the days get a bit longer Warpy Jul 2022 #23
In The Mode Of An Olde TeeVee Western wyn borkins Jul 2022 #24
Just lovely. Thank you for sharing. And the plants are in their correct home. niyad Jul 2022 #25
"... they had the temerity to need water" JudyM Jul 2022 #26
"put them in the back of my station wagon" BumRushDaShow Jul 2022 #28
Everyone trashes the orchids. They dont know that they bloom again Demovictory9 Jul 2022 #29
Nice! I don't throw away plants, but I put them by the curb. CaptainTruth Jul 2022 #30
My parents had Rebl2 Jul 2022 #34
Before almost everybody stopped using open trash cans and switched to plastic garbage bags halfulglas Jul 2022 #31
Suspect all those sturdy, drawstring bags, tons of them, will be publicized as empedocles Jul 2022 #33
Ye olden paper grocery bags, dropped into a trash can seemed better. empedocles Jul 2022 #35
Makes me Rebl2 Jul 2022 #32
This is not about plants per se but... llmart Jul 2022 #36
That's a phalenopsis orchid wryter2000 Jul 2022 #37
Very cool. jaxexpat Jul 2022 #38
Wow! Amazing! vanlassie Jul 2022 #42
I hate it when people give me plants, Susan Calvin Jul 2022 #39
I have been a trash picker all my life. The Jungle 1 Jul 2022 #40
Hey! Those are MY PLANTS !! TeamProg Jul 2022 #41

LakeArenal

(29,783 posts)
1. This reminds me of :
Sun Jul 24, 2022, 12:42 PM
Jul 2022

Spent decades renting apartments to affluent college students.

When they moved out invariably there would be brand new vacuum cleaners. Left or thrown in dumpster.

Why? Because the bags were full and didn’t suck anymore. We never bought a vacuum in thirty years.

SWBTATTReg

(24,082 posts)
3. Good for you, one person's trash is another person's treasures! We had over 550 house plants at
Sun Jul 24, 2022, 12:55 PM
Jul 2022

one time, and we tried to give them away. Not one taker. Thus, over the years, as they died off, we finally got rid of those plants that died off. Looks like you are doing pretty good w/ the green thumb!!

CountAllVotes

(21,058 posts)
5. My "new" neighbor basically stole my grief tree!
Sun Jul 24, 2022, 01:11 PM
Jul 2022

She spotted it in front of my front door and noticed it needed some "attention". She said it was a valuable plant and decided to "rescue it".

I never got it back. She kept it for her greedy self!

It was a gift given to me by my late husband's niece after he died.

I really do not appreciate what she did as it was never returned!

Some "neighbor".

& recommend !!!!!


halfulglas

(1,654 posts)
10. Does she keep it inside her house?
Sun Jul 24, 2022, 01:25 PM
Jul 2022

If not, you should "raid" her yard at night or when she is away and repatriate your tree. The nerve!!

CountAllVotes

(21,058 posts)
15. I've decided I don't want anything to do with her
Sun Jul 24, 2022, 02:02 PM
Jul 2022

She accused me of animal cruelty because my three cats are kept indoors!

I she is an idiot!

And yes, what nerve!



CountAllVotes

(21,058 posts)
22. Gross isn't she?
Sun Jul 24, 2022, 02:24 PM
Jul 2022

I don't like the woman needless to say.

She's a taker.

She takes and takes and takes.

She moved here about a year ago and has "given up" on finding a job. There are jobs all over the place here!

Best to stay far away from people of this ilk!

Bayard

(24,145 posts)
7. Wow!
Sun Jul 24, 2022, 01:20 PM
Jul 2022

That's some great garbage finds!

I have a number of house plants. They make a place more cozy.

Quakerfriend

(5,655 posts)
13. Yes! I must admit I'm a bit jealous!
Sun Jul 24, 2022, 01:52 PM
Jul 2022


My husband and I just put a free standing mid-century modern fireplace out by the street. It had never been used. We had replaced it with a wood burning stove several years back. It was black with bright yellow porcelain paint on the exterior. I know these things go for quite a bit but, I convinced my husband to put it on the curb & let someone get a great find. Within the hour two guys came by and picked it up. They seemed so thrilled to have it! - Made our day!

appleannie1

(5,203 posts)
12. If I were you, late at night would be the only time I take out the trash.
Sun Jul 24, 2022, 01:46 PM
Jul 2022

I love all my plants and tend to buy only the reduced ones in stores that are half dead. They are more appreciative of the love I give them and reward me for it. Strangely enough, I never over baby any of them.

FakeNoose

(35,641 posts)
18. Maybe she's getting the plants as gifts, and she has no interest in keeping them?
Sun Jul 24, 2022, 02:17 PM
Jul 2022

I don't know, it's hard to believe someone would buy these plants and then throw them out.
Maybe she works at a funeral home? But good on you for rescuing these beautiful plants!

slightlv

(4,318 posts)
19. I have no green thumb,
Sun Jul 24, 2022, 02:18 PM
Jul 2022

but even *I* wouldn't be able to pass up those plants! Of course, I'd feel guilty as each one died from my loving, but black thumb. Hopefully, before that, I'd have found friends more able than I to bring them back to life to whom to gift them. People, in fact, just like you!

Tanuki

(15,307 posts)
20. I've had great luck re-blooming orchids. I used to give my late mother orchids sometimes
Sun Jul 24, 2022, 02:22 PM
Jul 2022

on special occasions. After they stopped blooming, I'd take them back to my place and let them rest awhile, then step up the indirect sunshine and give them some liquid orchid fertilizer. If and when they would re-bloom, back to mom's so she could enjoy them all over again. Good luck with your rescues! That magnolia will be spectacular someday!

🌸🌷🌼🌱🌷🌻🍀🌺

Warpy

(113,130 posts)
23. Next spring, when the days get a bit longer
Sun Jul 24, 2022, 02:32 PM
Jul 2022

and the orchid has a home in good light, put a plastic bag over the top after you've watered it, keeping the humidity at greenhouse levels. You might be rewarded with a bloom.

Your neighbor is a botanical Philistine.

wyn borkins

(1,109 posts)
24. In The Mode Of An Olde TeeVee Western
Sun Jul 24, 2022, 02:36 PM
Jul 2022

Need Green Thumb - NJCher Will Care

(Links to 'Paladin' did not 'care' to work)

BumRushDaShow

(142,119 posts)
28. "put them in the back of my station wagon"
Sun Jul 24, 2022, 03:25 PM
Jul 2022

As a kid, I grew up in a family with 2 successive station wagons in the '60s, and my mom always kept a shovel and bucket in the back for surprise plant hauls! One such incident was an "estate sale" where people were also given the opportunity to "take" (dig up) what they wanted so I think she dug up some daylilies, hosta, and plenty of pachysandra!

CaptainTruth

(7,207 posts)
30. Nice! I don't throw away plants, but I put them by the curb.
Sun Jul 24, 2022, 03:43 PM
Jul 2022

I put aloe vera in the foreground of our flower beds with snake plant as a backdrop. They both spread to take over everything so when I thin them out I put the plants by the curb & neighbors always pick them all up. By now my plants must be in at least 40-50 flower beds around the neighborhood, much better than throwing them away!

Rebl2

(14,669 posts)
34. My parents had
Mon Jul 25, 2022, 09:58 AM
Jul 2022

a neighbor that for years would thin out her hostas (don’t think thin out is correct term) and she would sell them late spring, early summer. She would put a sign at the top of the street that is a busy road that said plants for sale and she would have quite a bit of traffic. She did sell more than hostas, but Mom and I were only interested in them.

halfulglas

(1,654 posts)
31. Before almost everybody stopped using open trash cans and switched to plastic garbage bags
Sun Jul 24, 2022, 08:17 PM
Jul 2022

I used to walk up one side of my street and back the other on the evening before trash pick up, especially in the weeks after holidays and pick up the thrown away plants in pots and bouquets and if I couldn't revive them, empty the flower pots into my backyard compost bin. It's much harder now that almost closes their plastic bags and only occasionally will put a plant beside the bag because it won't fit in.

empedocles

(15,751 posts)
33. Suspect all those sturdy, drawstring bags, tons of them, will be publicized as
Mon Jul 25, 2022, 09:58 AM
Jul 2022

bad for the environment.

llmart

(16,331 posts)
36. This is not about plants per se but...
Mon Jul 25, 2022, 11:24 AM
Jul 2022

here's a tip for people who like to rescue thrown out items. I worked at a university and my office was across from the student dorms. At the end of each year they had a few designated "move out" days for students. You would not believe the kind of stuff that the students would put out next to the dumpsters - everything from futons to plants to chairs to desks - because they didn't want to be bothered dealing with them. I was always just gobsmacked at how they thought nothing of throwing out microwaves, toasters, etc. I don't know if anyone ever thought to rescue some of it, but I bet they did.

wryter2000

(47,418 posts)
37. That's a phalenopsis orchid
Mon Jul 25, 2022, 11:31 AM
Jul 2022

It's an easy orchid to grow and bloom. It looks as if it could benefit from being repotted. Your local orchid society can give you advice.

On edit: dumb spell checker

jaxexpat

(7,772 posts)
38. Very cool.
Mon Jul 25, 2022, 11:48 AM
Jul 2022

I built an addition onto my home. It connected an unfinished out building to the main house. I didn't put a floor in this connection bldg. But instead build a wooden elevated walkway from the house to what became my new master suite. To build this I had to remove a large maple. I planted tropical plants in my connector room. I didn't know what was going on when so many of them died shortly after planting until I noticed little immature insects were attached to the roots. It turned out that the maple had been host to thousands of 17 year locusts, the cicadas of noise came. When they had all died off the plants finally took off. Had to trim the path to the bedroom with a machete about every six months. Monsteras and fiddle leaf figs, euphorbia and a lemon tree. I counted 100+ plants the cicada pupae left us. They'd killed that many more. It was an adventure.

Susan Calvin

(2,096 posts)
39. I hate it when people give me plants,
Mon Jul 25, 2022, 12:19 PM
Jul 2022

And never give plants to anybody else. It's like giving somebody a puppy, unasked.

I've only got four house plants, none of them wanted. One time I was given a small Christmas tree, the kind you plant after Christmas, and I did have to find a new home for that.

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