Bereavement
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(4,376 posts)Hugs to you and your family.
SoCalDavidS
(10,599 posts)brer cat
(27,195 posts)Take the time you need, and be good to yourself.
madaboutharry
(42,018 posts)May your brothers memory be a blessing.
littlemissmartypants
(30,721 posts)I hope you find comfort in the happy memories he left behind. Stay strong.
❤
redwitch
(15,200 posts)XanaDUer2
(15,769 posts)Ocelot II
(128,029 posts)lamp_shade
(15,307 posts)Maraya1969
(23,369 posts)JohnSJ
(98,883 posts)applegrove
(129,060 posts)LakeArenal
(29,949 posts)Atticus
(15,124 posts)UpInArms
(53,608 posts)And your heartache
GPV
(73,348 posts)lucca18
(1,428 posts)polmaven
(9,463 posts)and your entire family.
TygrBright
(21,242 posts)wendyb-NC
(4,512 posts)That's such a sad loss. My heart goes out to you and the circle of loved ones who grieve with you. My sincere condolences to you, Muriel.
Lonestarblue
(13,060 posts)Wishing peace for you and your family.
Omaha Steve
(107,576 posts)Dreampuff
(778 posts)Karadeniz
(24,668 posts)In crowds.
ancianita
(42,434 posts)KT2000
(21,784 posts)Don't know what i would do if I lost my brother so I am so sorry for your loss.
jmbar2
(7,412 posts)Your DU family will be here for you. Please take care of yourself.
pazzyanne
(6,730 posts)My heart goes out to you, and prayers are in the wind on thier way to you. Take care of you.
ybbor
(1,684 posts)barbtries
(30,921 posts)take all the time you need. If you want to share about him and your loss, there is a Bereavement topic in "support groups" - in case you didn't already know.
Gore1FL
(22,678 posts)Moebym
(1,033 posts)yardwork
(68,434 posts)Murphyb849
(612 posts)rebe303
(146 posts)Sorry for your loss.
rebe303
(146 posts)Sorry for your loss.
snowybirdie
(6,433 posts)We lost my sister last week. It hurts, I know. Peace!
Fla Dem
(27,252 posts)Paper Roses
(7,584 posts)They say things will get better. My thoughts: No they don't. Keep your good memories in your heart and remember the good times.
beveeheart
(1,507 posts)NNadir
(36,835 posts)irisblue
(36,416 posts)Piasladic
(1,171 posts)I am very sorry for your loss.
gademocrat7
(11,708 posts)on the loss of your brother. Take care.
louslobbs
(3,416 posts)Please take care of yourself ❤️
3catwoman3
(28,034 posts)...at 23 back in 1978 was that she found it comforting rather than distressing when people shared memories of him. It helped her some to know that he was not forgotten.
A hug from afar.
pnwmom
(110,142 posts)babylonsister
(172,443 posts)kairos12
(13,415 posts)MuseRider
(35,009 posts)Condolences to you. May your memories give you comfort, if not now then later. Get through this as best as you can then sort it out as you go along, just be easy on yourself and do what you can only when you can. Many warm hugs.
davsand
(13,438 posts)Deepest sympathies to you and your family in this time.
Laura
zeusdogmom
(1,111 posts)Brothers are special people.
peggysue2
(12,272 posts)Losing a sibling is very rough.
niyad
(128,154 posts)light. Here if you need us.
catbyte
(38,167 posts)c-rational
(3,104 posts)CaptainTruth
(7,970 posts)sinkingfeeling
(56,698 posts)turbinetree
(26,716 posts)DFW
(59,251 posts)I'm sorry the real world hit you with such a cruel reason for a leave of absence.
mzmolly
(52,495 posts)to you and your loved ones.
Pepsidog
(6,348 posts)nolabear
(43,836 posts)Hekate
(100,021 posts)rustysgurl
(1,086 posts)Please take the time to care for yourself during this difficult time.
mahina
(20,113 posts)Wishing you comfort. So sorry to read this.
lillypaddle
(9,606 posts)and that of your family. Take care of yourself.
ProudMNDemocrat
(20,368 posts)orleans
(36,508 posts)NurseJackie
(42,862 posts)FakeNoose
(39,214 posts)
May he rest in peace. May you find contentment in grieving with your loved ones.
SammyWinstonJack
(44,306 posts)Dave in VA
(2,238 posts)Hiawatha Pete
(2,060 posts)orangecrush
(27,207 posts)And hope to see you again when you are ready.
Sorry for your loss.
Moostache
(10,877 posts)These have been trying times for everyone and the loss of a loved one is a trauma all its own. May your grief be shortened by good memories long.
The Polack MSgt
(13,675 posts)eilen
(4,955 posts)My brother was the closest person who knew me the best, the longest of anyone that was alive-- which means I am the only one who carries the earliest memories of his life. He was my fellow traveler, the one who survived the 1970s and 1980s with me. We have a younger sister but she had a very different experience than we did. I love my sister, don't get me wrong but me and my brother... we were there before her. So him exiting without warning was very traumatic. I still am not over it. It helps in a way that he lived in a different state and I can imagine him still there but the not communicating is what makes me very sad still, years later. I help out his grandchild and that helps a little. So I get you.
SheltieLover
(74,774 posts)bdamomma
(69,090 posts)you and your family
Progressive Jones
(6,011 posts)sdfernando
(5,957 posts)Take all the time you need to grieve in time thoughts of your brother will bring a smile.
Alliepoo
(2,747 posts)Please accept my condolences. Its a very hard thing to lose your brother. Wishing you and your family peace.
BlueMTexpat
(15,638 posts)to you and your family!
MustLoveBeagles
(13,724 posts)Leith
(7,864 posts)cate94
(3,020 posts)susanr516
(1,495 posts)My condolences to his family and friends.
oasis
(53,107 posts)momta
(4,188 posts)betsuni
(28,516 posts)lunatica
(53,410 posts)Losing a sibling is one of the hardest ones! Its just not supposed to happen!
majdrfrtim
(340 posts)Every new grief has the ability to reawaken any/every old grief.
Grief is not a mental illness even though it sure as hell can *feel* like one (probably for the above reason).
Blessings upon you and your family.
LetMyPeopleVote
(171,997 posts)LastLiberal in PalmSprings
(13,278 posts)Laurelin
(746 posts)Take care of yourself.
Granny M
(1,398 posts)So sorry for your loss, Murielm
malaise
(290,614 posts)PCIntern
(27,750 posts)May his memory always be for a blessing.
George II
(67,782 posts)MiHale
(12,313 posts)True Blue American
(18,579 posts)Our thoughts are with you in your loss.
seta1950
(961 posts)sheshe2
(94,648 posts)Mr. Scorpio
(73,760 posts)mountain grammy
(28,381 posts)My heart goes out to you.
pandr32
(13,586 posts)We are here whenever you feel like some DU love.
wryter2000
(47,940 posts)I love my brother dearly. I can only imagine how you're feeling.
area51
(12,503 posts)Jilly_in_VA
(13,391 posts)Losing a sib has to be hard. Hugs and prayers.
Cha
(315,377 posts)it is.
onecaliberal
(36,594 posts)Unknown Beatle
(2,691 posts)All I can say is I'm so sorry.
No Vested Interest
(5,270 posts)Dark n Stormy Knight
(10,472 posts)May you find strength, healing, and eventually a return of joy.