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OldBaldy1701E

(6,326 posts)
Fri Jul 15, 2022, 03:32 PM Jul 2022

It never rains, but it pours.

So, I was riding my bike yesterday morning when a lady pulled out in front of me and I hit her. I am okay for the most part, but there is going to be bills for all that medical treatment as well as repairing her car. I have nothing. So, even though I loathe asking for charity, it seems I have little choice in this matter. No, I am not sure who is actually falls under the 'blame' umbrella, and we are trying to get some legal help on this matter. Of course, yet again, being un-wealthy means I am in that second tier as far as getting real justice and/or assistance. This is what I get for trying to stay healthy. And people wonder why I am a cynic.

I know nothing about GoFundMe or any of that, so I will have to post the link once I figure it out. Thanks for reading this.

Oh, I forgot to say that I am really struggling to sit and type now, so please be patient.

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It never rains, but it pours. (Original Post) OldBaldy1701E Jul 2022 OP
If she pulled out in front of you, that should be her fault FoxNewsSucks Jul 2022 #1
It will be difficult to prove that, as she has a 'witness' who already says that I was at fault. OldBaldy1701E Jul 2022 #2
It is often obvious from the location of damage FoxNewsSucks Jul 2022 #3
And you also told her it was your fault? BlackSkimmer Jul 2022 #9
Yep. I was in shock and being too nice as usual. (n/t) OldBaldy1701E Jul 2022 #10
Definitely, say nothing. Call a couple of lawyers. Tetrachloride Jul 2022 #4
Too late. OldBaldy1701E Jul 2022 #5
there will be good lawyers. call your friends now Tetrachloride Jul 2022 #6
UPDATE: OldBaldy1701E Jul 2022 #7
This message was self-deleted by its author BlackSkimmer Jul 2022 #8

OldBaldy1701E

(6,326 posts)
2. It will be difficult to prove that, as she has a 'witness' who already says that I was at fault.
Fri Jul 15, 2022, 03:36 PM
Jul 2022

I don't know what to do, to be honest. This kind thing makes my stomach turn.

FoxNewsSucks

(10,775 posts)
3. It is often obvious from the location of damage
Fri Jul 15, 2022, 03:38 PM
Jul 2022

what position the vehicles were in. I'd call the cops if you haven't already. Your homeowners/renters insurance might be liable to provide coverage if you are at fault, and will provide a defense if not.

Tetrachloride

(8,445 posts)
4. Definitely, say nothing. Call a couple of lawyers.
Fri Jul 15, 2022, 03:42 PM
Jul 2022

They may ask you to type up a couple of paragraphs.


Therefore, type everything as best you can. Draw a picture or 2.

Ask a friend to help you call the lawyer.

OldBaldy1701E

(6,326 posts)
5. Too late.
Sat Jul 16, 2022, 06:51 AM
Jul 2022

I was in shock and kept repeating that it was my fault. To be honest, I am not sure who would be 'at fault'.
i was riding on the sidewalk, which is legal (and usually safer). The vehicle pulled in front of me, but I was going at a decent clip and could not stop in time. We have been calling lawyers. No reply. I guess a case with little chance to make millions is not worth the trouble. Ahh, nevermind. I should just accept that this will ruin us. Regardless of who is at fault, I will lose.

OldBaldy1701E

(6,326 posts)
7. UPDATE:
Mon Jul 18, 2022, 01:48 PM
Jul 2022

So, it turns out that this state considers bicycles the same as cars when it comes to accident claims, so we made a claim to our insurance this morning. We also managed to get an appointment with an attorney who specializes in bicycle law. So, we will see. Now, I am just hurting a lot. This is going to affect me for a while and that is going to screw up a few plans. Figures.

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