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181. No, it's not projection

Fri Jan 17, 2025, 05:13 PM

Jan 2025

By me or anyone else here confronting you about it. You asked a shitty question that had nothing to do with the grief being expressed about somebody dying. I'm sure you know what grief means.

You ought to feel badly about it. It's your issue you think it's no big deal.

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My girlfriend's husband died tonight from Covid [View all] samplegirl Jan 2025 OP

Was he vaccinated? DURHAM D Jan 2025 #1

One of my neighbors was extremely sick from Covid pneumonia. Irish_Dem Jan 2025 #6

I recently tested positive for covid. DURHAM D Jan 2025 #8

I had nine vaxes so far, got covid in Nov. Irish_Dem Jan 2025 #9

Hope your cholesterol gets right. nt DURHAM D Jan 2025 #10

Tnx. Irish_Dem Jan 2025 #117

Gracious! I hope your cholesterol goes down. LoisB Jan 2025 #13

Same here. Ms. Toad Jan 2025 #24

Look into Novavax for your next shot IbogaProject Jan 2025 #52

I'm not fond of the risk profile. Ms. Toad Jan 2025 #57

Ohhh, boy. : ( Good luck! electric_blue68 Jan 2025 #70

Just relaying my expierience IbogaProject Jan 2025 #138

After the first one or two, I had no soreness. Ms. Toad Jan 2025 #161

My work manager has that very same spike since her COVID bout. John1956PA Jan 2025 #26

When did she have covid? Is she taking a statin? Irish_Dem Jan 2025 #120

Glad to hear bdamomma Jan 2025 #30

Yes I have all of the vaxes. Irish_Dem Jan 2025 #119

Good luck! In case something my doc taught me last month might help, here are two studies on almonds and cholesterol. mahina Jan 2025 #53

And organic food ananda Jan 2025 #112

Thank you! Irish_Dem Jan 2025 #118

Good samplegirl Jan 2025 #65

Dang! Good luck on getting normal numbers again! electric_blue68 Jan 2025 #68

It is up to the meds, I already have a strict diet and exercise every day. Irish_Dem Jan 2025 #116

Just a note... lonely bird Jan 2025 #164

Interesting, I did not know that. Irish_Dem Jan 2025 #170

Yeah lonely bird Jan 2025 #183

I am at 8 vaccinations LetMyPeopleVote Jan 2025 #72

Same here Sundance1220 Jan 2025 #113

Were we told in the stacks Jan 2025 #155

It was my understanding that they hope that some day it will be like the flu shot LetMyPeopleVote Jan 2025 #156

The flu shot is like this. in the stacks Jan 2025 #157

Right. They came out with a newer, reformulated booster a few months ago due to the new strains. Keep up I guess? Evolve Dammit Jan 2025 #194

I was miserably sick and am vaccinated AkFemDem Jan 2025 #130

Some are saying those who were vaccinated are now getting sick and dying. Is that true? Anyone else heard this? Jit423 Jan 2025 #61

The vaxes saved one of my friends. Irish_Dem Jan 2025 #115

This message was self-deleted by its author AkFemDem Jan 2025 #131

Not much info because it is a reich-wing myth promulgated by self-styled "purebloods" Bernardo de La Paz Jan 2025 #132

It's the same stupid mindset as religious zealots mdbl Jan 2025 #154

There are a small number who have a bad reaction to any shot. More than 8 billion doses have been given worldwide. mahina Jan 2025 #133

Thanks for this thorough and scientific response nt MadameButterfly Jan 2025 #180

Vaccinated people have always gotten sick and died. Mariana Jan 2025 #160

Yes, the vaccine lowers your chances of severe disease and death significanrtly but is not bulletproof protection LymphocyteLover Jan 2025 #176

This message was self-deleted by its author samplegirl Jan 2025 #15

I'm so sorry. I cannot imagine. AllyCat Jan 2025 #23

Unfortunately, covid vaccines lose much of their effectiveness against infection after 6 months. SunSeeker Jan 2025 #46

My wife and I caught COVID b4 Christmas. I was due to be vaccinated, she had been vaccinated at Costco in Oct. C Moon Jan 2025 #49

I'm so sorry. Scrivener7 Jan 2025 #2

omg that's horrible... so very sorry... FirstLight Jan 2025 #3

66 samplegirl Jan 2025 #16

Oh, gosh. Much to young to die that way Iris Jan 2025 #48

A friend of mine was just diagnosed with cancer. Ms. Toad Jan 2025 #28

I'm sorry about your dad stollen Jan 2025 #59

I'm sorry for your loss... rasputin1952 Jan 2025 #66

Yeah, My sister picked the place, and it was because of her own greed, IMO FirstLight Jan 2025 #86

So sorry to hear that. Awful. Some places are worse than just dying at home. If only "house calls" were still a thing. Evolve Dammit Jan 2025 #195

What sad news! I am so sorry for your friend and her family. Diamond_Dog Jan 2025 #4

I called her as I did to check on her samplegirl Jan 2025 #17

I'm so damn sorry... Hekate Jan 2025 #5

The damage Trump did and will do is incalculable. Irish_Dem Jan 2025 #7

It's nonstop samplegirl Jan 2025 #19

Everything Trump touches turns to shit stollen Jan 2025 #60

Can you do some artwork for your friend? Irish_Dem Jan 2025 #114

What a beautiful thing to suggest. Her artwork is indeed imbued with love, niyad Jan 2025 #134

Yes I can feel all you describe when I look at her work. Irish_Dem Jan 2025 #147

I am so sorry, samplegirl. Please convey my sympathies to your friend. I agree with you on LoisB Jan 2025 #11

Ty samplegirl Jan 2025 #20

Understandably. n/t rasputin1952 Jan 2025 #50

I understand. LoisB Jan 2025 #62

So sorry sample girl, gab13by13 Jan 2025 #12

I just got a Covid booster and a flu shot yesterday. CentralMass Jan 2025 #18

I am so sorry to hear this. yellow dahlia Jan 2025 #14

Even more horrible when you had to listen to your neighbor, tell you, he lost his friend samplegirl Jan 2025 #21

It's not trump's incompetence; it's his malevolence. LuvLoogie Jan 2025 #27

He is extraordinarily competent Cirsium Jan 2025 #175

I'm very sorry. My brother died of covid at the end of November. rsdsharp Jan 2025 #22

I'm so sorry for your loss. Tragic illness that AllyCat Jan 2025 #25

Medical facilities have almost completely stopped using transmission reduction protocols. Ms. Toad Jan 2025 #32

Your girlfriend's husband? SocialDemocrat61 Jan 2025 #29

Girlfriend, like: "friend who is a girl" ColinC Jan 2025 #31

The term usually refers to SocialDemocrat61 Jan 2025 #79

It has been used both ways, especially by those of a specific generation ColinC Jan 2025 #122

Ok SocialDemocrat61 Jan 2025 #123

We all knew what SG meant. And the fact the girlfriend has a husband gives it more context. Irish_Dem Jan 2025 #150

I honestly was slow on the uptake ColinC Jan 2025 #200

Some women refer to their female friends as girlfriends JI7 Jan 2025 #33

Ok SocialDemocrat61 Jan 2025 #84

Merriam webster: girlfriend: 1: A woman who is a friend. niyad Jan 2025 #90

Never heard of it. SocialDemocrat61 Jan 2025 #99

What part of "samplegirl" don't you understand? soldierant Jan 2025 #37

So? SocialDemocrat61 Jan 2025 #74

Please delete your appallingly insensitive post, and apologize. niyad Jan 2025 #78

You're free to report it SocialDemocrat61 Jan 2025 #80

Really? Most of the rest of us understood it perfectly. niyad Jan 2025 #87

Most is not all SocialDemocrat61 Jan 2025 #88

Continuing to defend the indefensible is not helping you. niyad Jan 2025 #89

With whom? SocialDemocrat61 Jan 2025 #98

English is your first language? The post seemed clear to everyone else. Judi Lynn Jan 2025 #107

Thanks for the advice SocialDemocrat61 Jan 2025 #128

I admit that I thought the same thing at first. Cowpunk Jan 2025 #158

That is just bizarre to me. niyad Jan 2025 #159

Same here, first thought was that his gf's ex died. Pompoy Jan 2025 #166

Which I reported JonAndKatePlusABird Jan 2025 #109

Well good for you SocialDemocrat61 Jan 2025 #127

Because women have been traditionally judged and associated with their husbands and boyfrineds obamanut2012 Jan 2025 #187

I would call it a cultural thing opposed to a language thing. defacto7 Jan 2025 #191

Ignore them. If the post said "My friend's husband...", itwould have been much clearer. Wonder Why Jan 2025 #135

Yes it would have SocialDemocrat61 Jan 2025 #139

Yes the comment was in very bad taste and poor judgment. Irish_Dem Jan 2025 #152

What in the heck obamanut2012 Jan 2025 #42

Maybe SocialDemocrat61 Jan 2025 #77

Merriam webster: girlfriend: 1 (as in FIRST definition) A WOMAN WHO IS A FRIEND. niyad Jan 2025 #91

Never heard someone use SocialDemocrat61 Jan 2025 #101

Keep trying. We need the laughs. niyad Jan 2025 #103

Ok. I once shot an elephant in my pajamas SocialDemocrat61 Jan 2025 #104

Groucho Marx. niyad Jan 2025 #106

Lol. Pompoy Jan 2025 #168

Guess what, I have JonAndKatePlusABird Jan 2025 #110

Yes SocialDemocrat61 Jan 2025 #126

Perhaps you are young? TBF Jan 2025 #165

Thank you SocialDemocrat61 Jan 2025 #167

That was not funny, it was mean FullySupportDems Jan 2025 #43

It is not funny. There are a couple of comments that are insensitive and childish while our friend, Deuxcents Jan 2025 #54

It sure would be cool if some apologies happened FullySupportDems Jan 2025 #56

Considering the defensiveness and justifying of said posts, please niyad Jan 2025 #97

Sadly, you are right FullySupportDems Jan 2025 #190

Not meant to be funny SocialDemocrat61 Jan 2025 #81

Keep defending the indefensible. You are not helping yourself. niyad Jan 2025 #93

I don't really care SocialDemocrat61 Jan 2025 #102

If that were true, you would not keep defending your posts. niyad Jan 2025 #105

You care so little that you posted to tell us how little you care JonAndKatePlusABird Jan 2025 #111

No SocialDemocrat61 Jan 2025 #125

I'm kind of curious as to why you don't care FullySupportDems Jan 2025 #140

No I was confused about the usage SocialDemocrat61 Jan 2025 #142

You didn't answer my question FullySupportDems Jan 2025 #169

I asked a question SocialDemocrat61 Jan 2025 #177

No, it's not projection FullySupportDems Jan 2025 #181

Yes it is SocialDemocrat61 Jan 2025 #184

You asked if her friend was cheating on her dying husband FullySupportDems Jan 2025 #185

Your opinion and issue SocialDemocrat61 Jan 2025 #186

Yes I'm aware u don't care FullySupportDems Jan 2025 #188

Bye. Have a nice day SocialDemocrat61 Jan 2025 #189

I am embarrassed for you tbh obamanut2012 Jan 2025 #145

Good for you SocialDemocrat61 Jan 2025 #149

Really? n/t rasputin1952 Jan 2025 #47

Your post is simply beyond the pale. Please delete, and apologize. niyad Jan 2025 #75

Sorry SocialDemocrat61 Jan 2025 #82

No, it is not. niyad Jan 2025 #83

It is to me SocialDemocrat61 Jan 2025 #85

I'm laughing... PCIntern Jan 2025 #121

I know SocialDemocrat61 Jan 2025 #124

Back in the day, women called their female friends "girlfriends." Irish_Dem Jan 2025 #148

Thank you SocialDemocrat61 Jan 2025 #151

Good grief MustLoveBeagles Jan 2025 #173

As has been explained SocialDemocrat61 Jan 2025 #178

What an Odd Initial Response to Someone Grieving. alcuno Jan 2025 #198

Well I'm an odd person SocialDemocrat61 Jan 2025 #201

Gawd how awful. yorkster Jan 2025 #34

Girlfriend's husband? Would I be presumptive to ask a question. NotHardly Jan 2025 #35

What the hell is wrong with you? orangecrush Jan 2025 #51

A smiley face? A smiley face, in your incredibly boorish, rude post? niyad Jan 2025 #94

Girlfriend meaning friend MustLoveBeagles Jan 2025 #172

So sorry, samplegirl , May his memories of him be a blessing to his wife and you. debm55 Jan 2025 #36

My sympathy bdamomma Jan 2025 #38

Deepest condolences to you & your friend. SheltieLover Jan 2025 #39

My brother checked out during the orange bastard's first tour LilElf70 Jan 2025 #40

So sad. Steve was a good guy JohnnyRingo Jan 2025 #41

Keith samplegirl Jan 2025 #67

Oh yeah. I knew that. JohnnyRingo Jan 2025 #69

So sad... rasputin1952 Jan 2025 #44

I'm glad she has a nice friend like you samplegirl FullySupportDems Jan 2025 #45

I lost my wife three years ago, when Covid was just starting... William Gustafson Jan 2025 #55

I am so sorry. Cassidy Jan 2025 #144

it has, but there are days that this whole ordeal comes creeping back... William Gustafson Jan 2025 #204

I'm so sorry Samplegirl JMCKUSICK Jan 2025 #58

Post removed Post removed Jan 2025 #63

Aren't we pleasant. sheshe2 Jan 2025 #64

JFC, you mean there was something worse than some of the appalling posts niyad Jan 2025 #92

Yup. It was bad. sheshe2 Jan 2025 #95

Yikes. Unfortunately, there are still a number of truly disgusting posts niyad Jan 2025 #96

Post removed Post removed Jan 2025 #100

What a POS that creep is mercuryblues Jan 2025 #203

Condolences for her, and her family. A {hug} for you. electric_blue68 Jan 2025 #71

I am sorry for your friend's loss LetMyPeopleVote Jan 2025 #73

My dear SG, holding you and your friend in love and light in this horrific time. niyad Jan 2025 #76

I am so sorry for your friend's loss. sheshe2 Jan 2025 #108

I'm so sorry for your loss.(((hugs))) sueh Jan 2025 #129

I'm so sorry samplegirl radical noodle Jan 2025 #136

I'm so very sorry for your loss Quiet Em Jan 2025 #137

Your girlfriend's husband Clouds Passing Jan 2025 #141

Such a sad and needless loss. pandr32 Jan 2025 #143

Covid was the 4th leading cause of death in the U.S. in 2024. Cassidy Jan 2025 #146

My sympathies. CrispyQ Jan 2025 #153

No it's not Evolve Dammit Jan 2025 #192

So sorry Deep State Witch Jan 2025 #162

I've had Covid 5 times Jarqui Jan 2025 #163

The ones we got from the gov't were expired. I guess they have extended the dating and kits are still good? Evolve Dammit Jan 2025 #193

I've heard they're probably still pretty good after the expiry date Jarqui Jan 2025 #196

Yes. I'm not sure what's going on. Evolve Dammit Jan 2025 #197

After reading all the the responses to this thread, I am even more afraid of what is to come. Katinfl Jan 2025 #171

The Covid Pandemic probably won't return. maxsolomon Jan 2025 #174

I'm so sorry samplegirl Nittersing Jan 2025 #179

So sorry! It's beyond the pale the red idiots voted once again for this menace. Forgetting all about covid PortTack Jan 2025 #182

I'm glad to see that a couple of vile comments were removed. love_katz Jan 2025 #199

Yes, I think it's a little tamer now. People still like to start Snark. samplegirl Jan 2025 #202