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Mossfern

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12. Do you mean the rabbi?
Fri Jul 25, 2025, 08:46 AM
Jul 25

Maybe I took it the wrong way ,but I find it in the same category as "When did you stop beating your wife?"

I know I'm not communicating this well, but when you're doing the right thing and
someone tells you that they are so thrilled (to tears) that you are doing the right thing, when you were doing the right thing all along, it seems kind of patronizing (maybe I'm using the wrong word) or maybe they believed you weren't doing the right thing and they are so pleased that you finally are.

It was the aspect that someone was moved to tears to learn that you were doing the right thing when you were doing it all along. To me, it insinuates that.

It's complex, and maybe I'm the only one who feels that way.
Actually it was because it was posted as something incredibly wonderful that triggered me.

The rabbi's words and sentiment are not something new to me or any other Jewish person.
It's part of our faith and has always been - therefore the quotes from scripture and Talmud did not seem remarkable to me, or worthy of special praise.

No worries, I'm resigned to people not understanding.

As I said, I'm not angry with any specific person, I'm just disappointed that the message was considered as remarkable.

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Very, very moving BuddhaGirl Jul 24 #1
Eloquent and needed... hlthe2b Jul 24 #2
Indeed. Bread and Circuses Jul 24 #3
This is not unique Mossfern Jul 24 #4
Blessings upon her! She looks so young... electric_blue68 Jul 24 #5
I read this on my phone in the doctor's waiting room and started crying vanessa_ca Jul 24 #6
I stand with you. I, too am moved by this call for service. Bread and Circuses Jul 25 #7
Are you assuming that the majority of Jewish people are indifferent? Mossfern Jul 25 #8
I'm not sure H2O Man Jul 25 #9
It was the quote she used ""Indifference to evil is worse than evil itself ..." Mossfern Jul 25 #10
What people do H2O Man Jul 25 #11
Do you mean the rabbi? Mossfern Jul 25 #12
Okay. H2O Man Jul 25 #14
It does look interesting and will read their articles Mossfern Jul 25 #15
Sorry, you did take it the wrong way SocialDemocrat61 Jul 25 #16
I accused her of nothing Mossfern Jul 25 #17
Yes you did SocialDemocrat61 Jul 25 #18
Actually, you did. But I don't care. vanessa_ca Jul 25 #19
Thanks. But no apology needed. Mossfern did take it wrong vanessa_ca Jul 25 #21
You're welcome SocialDemocrat61 Jul 25 #22
I think it could be for multiple reasons EdmondDantes_ Jul 25 #20
. WhiskeyGrinder Jul 25 #13
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