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Ms. Toad

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63. My first reaction, as well, based on his comment that she said something about not liking how he was sitting.
Mon Sep 22, 2025, 01:07 PM
13 hrs ago

It doesn't justify arrest. But, I've been the victim of ordinary manspreading - being forced to squeeze into an already too-small space on a plane or train because a man (it always is) refuses to pull his legs out of my space.

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OMG ALBliberal 17 hrs ago #1
Slouching while Black will get you arrested. Irish_Dem 17 hrs ago #2
Or "manspreading" ? dflprincess 15 hrs ago #30
Oh I didn't think about that. Irish_Dem 15 hrs ago #37
sprawling, deliberately invading and encroaching other's space (especially in spaces such as this) stopdiggin 14 hrs ago #45
The article suggested she wasn't sitting next to him IbogaProject 14 hrs ago #51
I agree. We (I) got off on a little tangent stopdiggin 14 hrs ago #56
He seems to have been on the seat in front of her. LisaM 14 hrs ago #58
From what I have read Still Waters 10 hrs ago #91
Maybe he was blocking the aisle? LisaM 9 hrs ago #95
I have not seen it. But I don't use public transportation. Irish_Dem 13 hrs ago #67
Noting about sexual preoccupation - Ms. Toad 13 hrs ago #65
Yes I was just tutored regarding this male aggressive practice. Irish_Dem 13 hrs ago #68
The worst was on a plane, Ms. Toad 12 hrs ago #76
I have heard about this as a ploy. The man pretends to fall asleep Irish_Dem 12 hrs ago #79
He was actually asleep or passed out. Ms. Toad 11 hrs ago #84
Sounds like more than just booze. Irish_Dem 11 hrs ago #85
I wouldn't be surprised. Ms. Toad 10 hrs ago #89
The FAs have seen it all I guess and it is common place and boring to them. Irish_Dem 10 hrs ago #90
I don't remember exactly why I didn't make a big loud fuss - Ms. Toad 9 hrs ago #99
Oh yes I see. Irish_Dem 9 hrs ago #101
My first reaction, as well, based on his comment that she said something about not liking how he was sitting. Ms. Toad 13 hrs ago #63
Who said that? MorbidButterflyTat 11 hrs ago #81
Jim Crow................... Lovie777 17 hrs ago #3
I hope there is a lawsuit filed by O'Keefe against these thugs, which would include the MTA, and the bigoted lostincalifornia 17 hrs ago #4
As soon as I saw the "MTA" identifier I was aw, crap another racist indident in my area. electric_blue68 2 hrs ago #114
What does MTA stand for? Where did the train ride start? raging moderate 17 hrs ago #5
appears to be the Metro-North Railroad bigtree 16 hrs ago #7
Thank you. raging moderate 16 hrs ago #11
Metropolitan Transit Authority BronxBoy 16 hrs ago #18
Metropolitan Transportation Authority Celerity 15 hrs ago #25
I live for the day when it's the bigot who gets tossed off Warpy 4 hrs ago #112
Stupid cops. Plus arrogant cops: you did not obey our authoriteh, so we arrested you. . . . .nt Bernardo de La Paz 16 hrs ago #6
Hope he files a lawsuit ASAP. dalton99a 16 hrs ago #8
I hope he sues everyone involved Johonny 16 hrs ago #9
How he was "sitting"? harumph 16 hrs ago #10
He was facing her?? In short fuzzy video, seats are high so she couldn't see his lap. txwhitedove 16 hrs ago #14
The elderly woman, the conductor, others should have Ilsa 16 hrs ago #12
SMDH. n/t iluvtennis 16 hrs ago #13
Sometimes people find it hard to understand why white women align themselves with white supremacy and/or patriarchy. WhiskeyGrinder 16 hrs ago #15
It also explains why a few minorities also align with those they perceive to have power. yardwork 16 hrs ago #16
BINGO! (n/t) OldBaldy1701E 16 hrs ago #17
"Stop resisting!" IronLionZion 16 hrs ago #19
This got me. Wow. underpants 15 hrs ago #36
I am so ashamed of white people doing racist shit. Sue the pants off them. It's the only way to get through to them. jmbar2 16 hrs ago #20
She saw a black person and just didn't want him there in her sight/presence. Lars39 16 hrs ago #21
OMG Beringia 15 hrs ago #22
Post removed Post removed 15 hrs ago #23
Let's not use gendered slurs obamanut2012 15 hrs ago #27
Thank you. niyad 14 hrs ago #54
Appalling and disgusting wolfie001 15 hrs ago #24
I agree wih everything but the term you used, hag. In current use, niyad 15 hrs ago #31
Maybe DU can post a syllabus of offensive terms wolfie001 15 hrs ago #41
A syllabus of offensive terms, what a great idea! Abolishinist 7 hrs ago #107
lol! wolfie001 7 hrs ago #108
Sue them. Sue every fucking one of them Joinfortmill 15 hrs ago #26
That is so damn disturbing. chowder66 15 hrs ago #28
Video on youtube BlueWaveNeverEnd 15 hrs ago #29
That woman probably has dementia. Hope22 15 hrs ago #39
Why would you make that assumption? WhiskeyGrinder 12 hrs ago #75
The look in her eyes... Hope22 11 hrs ago #83
That's quite a lot to draw out of a split second of footage. And either one doesn't explain away racism, or the fact WhiskeyGrinder 10 hrs ago #86
That's a lot of defending a white woman who got a black man thrown off a train...for no reason. Hope22 9 hrs ago #98
You think I'm defending her? I'm saying she did what she did because she's a racist old white woman. WhiskeyGrinder 9 hrs ago #100
Okay, now I'm gonna sound like a Karen (and I hate that term!!!), but hear me out, please hamsterjill 15 hrs ago #32
We also hate the term "Karen"... Number9Dream 10 hrs ago #94
Agreed, but note that I was referring to the OP. hamsterjill 9 hrs ago #97
This isn't something from history? This just happened??? niyad 15 hrs ago #33
Sue the living shit out of everyone AverageOldGuy 15 hrs ago #34
They didn't even communicate with the woman so they probably don't have her name. live love laugh 13 hrs ago #66
He should sue the MTA for racial harassment...riding a train while black. patphil 15 hrs ago #35
Too bad no Karen photos.. Hope22 15 hrs ago #38
It is on the cops as well exboyfil 15 hrs ago #43
Agree.... Hope22 14 hrs ago #48
Yes the rep would have to trespass him exboyfil 14 hrs ago #50
I have witnessed a train employee tell officers to all but piss off. Hope22 10 hrs ago #88
I'd love to know specifically WHAT Police Dept. was involved Totally Tunsie 15 hrs ago #40
The other white woman (police officer) vanlassie 14 hrs ago #53
With apologies, vanlassie, I'm not understanding your reply Totally Tunsie 13 hrs ago #64
I can't recall but I imagine I made a mistake. Sorry. vanlassie 12 hrs ago #78
Relax and enjoy your evening. Totally Tunsie 6 hrs ago #109
You too. vanlassie 3 hrs ago #113
Should be sent it to Audit the Audit, Lackluster, and The Civil Rights Attorney exboyfil 15 hrs ago #42
RAS? niyad 14 hrs ago #55
Reasonable Articulable Suspicion exboyfil 13 hrs ago #61
Thank you. That is not exactly a common acronym. niyad 8 hrs ago #103
As I've ranted on Threads JustAnotherGen 15 hrs ago #44
Posture? Lulu KC 14 hrs ago #46
I would like to see a pic of how he's sitting Bayard 8 hrs ago #104
OMG. We have to turn this around, and fast. pandr32 14 hrs ago #47
Sue the pants off of them!!! Coventina 14 hrs ago #49
Either EVERYONE goes out into the streets.. 1WorldHope 14 hrs ago #52
Seems racist to me. Americanme 14 hrs ago #57
What do the police reports say? Sneederbunk 14 hrs ago #59
That woman should be arrested Quanto Magnus 14 hrs ago #60
Sorry Karen, I'm not your Pullman porter anymore. cbabe 13 hrs ago #62
Party like it's 1955 again. Oh wait, it's 2025 and the rotted corpse of Jim Crow has risen from its grave... Hekate 13 hrs ago #69
1953 again. Celerity 13 hrs ago #71
55 to 25 rhymes visually Hekate 10 hrs ago #87
They should need more probable cause to detain someone AdamGG 13 hrs ago #70
He's a writer on a popular show Figarosmom 12 hrs ago #72
My youngest son was a grad student at Yale mnhtnbb 12 hrs ago #73
If the racists of America don't stop what they're doing Buddyzbuddy 12 hrs ago #74
That's insane. Arrested for poor posture?????????????????? Vinca 12 hrs ago #77
I'm so sorry, Alex O'Keefe. ... littlemissmartypants 11 hrs ago #80
So disgusting. highplainsdem 11 hrs ago #82
Someone should tell John Roberts!!! Grins 10 hrs ago #92
"Henry Louis Gates Jr." Act I, Scene 2. NM Grins 10 hrs ago #93
I hope he informed the cops and old Karen Hassler 9 hrs ago #96
That whole thing escalated into 'stupidland' needlessly 70sEraVet 8 hrs ago #102
Maybe O'Keefe should find out who the white lady is and sue her for a couple million. n/t PatrickforB 8 hrs ago #105
WTF?!! (have errands to run, be back later) electric_blue68 8 hrs ago #106
As noted upthread - Prof. Henry Louis Gates, Jr. 16 years ago BumRushDaShow 6 hrs ago #110
His Posture?! His Sitting?!! As before...WTF?!! electric_blue68 5 hrs ago #111
Re-reading and seeing the vid... electric_blue68 2 hrs ago #115
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