Are you autistic? I am.

[Hekate]

36. Thank you for teaching us, hunter. I remember the books that blamed "refrigerator mothers"

That was when I was under-20 y.o. Later, when I had more life-experience, I realized that these mothers were trying as hard as ever they could to present themselves to psychiatrists and educators as calm and rational and intelligent and capable of understanding what was going on — and in so doing, to help their children. “Refrigerators” my ass. The world was run by men with the ability to judge them and their children very harshly indeed.