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Mossfern

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49. My experience is similar to yours

Tue Sep 23, 2025, 10:51 AM

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My mother would often complain "Why can't you be like other children?"
In my senior years, I've been "diagnosed" as neuro-divergent.
Thankfully my husband and children find my weird traits endearing even though frustrating to them at times.
People who don't know me very well are often not so kind.

I tend to be very naive even though I've served in leadership roles.
The stories I'm reading here are very moving.

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Are you autistic? I am. [View all] hunter Monday OP

This was an excellent read and insightful. Thank you. chowder66 Monday #1

KNR and bookmarking. niyad Tuesday #66

Probably. canetoad Monday #2

Recommended. H2O Man Monday #3

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I am, too, and I feel for you EnergizedLib Monday #11

Yes Oneironaut Monday #12

Hunter, thank you for sharing your experience Ilikepurple Monday #13

Thank you for this. yardwork Monday #14

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I have Asperger's - my inability to read ppl led me to Psy. alittlelark Monday #16

I'm an Asp. ChazInAz Tuesday #55

How did you overcome writing "like an ESL student with a head injury?" Sogo Monday #17

I started college as an engineering major and switched to Biology... hunter Monday #22

I suspect I may be on the spectrum. area51 Monday #18

Thank you for every bit of that and sharing it here. Maru Kitteh Monday #19

The kids told me that I am on the spectrum. Grolph_ Monday #20

For what it's worth, I think your writing is excellent. 3Hotdogs Monday #21

Very insightful, hunter... slightlv Monday #23

Covid DID its best, for now. vanlassie Monday #24

Sharing your story and experience has done us all a real service. Thanks ❤️ MLAA Monday #25

Apparently me too. KentuckyWoman Monday #26

Sincerely thank you for this Sympthsical Monday #27

Excellent. Thanks. I'm definitely on several spectrums. Fortunate to have found my way. Need more for Silent Type Monday #28

I am not, but I love someone who is. FM123 Tuesday #29

Thank you posting proud patriot Tuesday #30

You write very well for someone who is 'autistic'. Jack Valentino Tuesday #31

RFK jr is a total dick and a nasty moron. Would be nice to go back a couple of years when I didn't know he existed. Dave Bowman Tuesday #32

In the end, we're all, each, a bag of tricks... BurnDoubt Tuesday #33

Yes. meadowlander Tuesday #34

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I am impressed by your strength Easterncedar Tuesday #40

This description is so helpful Alice Kramden Tuesday #41

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Thank you for sharing meadowlander Ilikepurple Tuesday #71

Excellent post. markodochartaigh Tuesday #35

Thank you for teaching us, hunter. I remember the books that blamed "refrigerator mothers" Hekate Tuesday #36

I gather most of us are, to some extent Oeditpus Rex Tuesday #38

My experience is similar to yours Mossfern Tuesday #49

My mom had it both ways Oeditpus Rex Tuesday #72

Thank you dearly, hunter, for sharing your experiences and perspective. It is laudable and helpful KitFox Tuesday #39

This is a wise and helpful thread Alice Kramden Tuesday #42

Raises hand. nt. druidity33 Tuesday #43

Autism Mr.Bee Tuesday #44

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Yep!...along with most of my family... MiHale Tuesday #46

Thank you for sharing your story, hunter Clouds Passing Tuesday #47

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I put my parents through hell and I was completely oblivious to that. hunter Tuesday #59

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Pretty sure I am. no_hypocrisy Tuesday #52

High functioning autism is in our family, so I'm very familiar with it. I have a cousin whose parents didn't understand Martin68 Tuesday #54

Thank you for sharing your life here. You are a fantastic writer. 1WorldHope Tuesday #56

Thank you for posting--glad autism is being discussed now by people with lived experience. Timeflyer Tuesday #57

This sounds just like my son, but currently he only has a diagnosis of ADHD LT Barclay Tuesday #58

One of my kids is "on the spectrum" and now a successful adult. hunter Tuesday #60

Thanks anyway. LT Barclay Tuesday #70

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probably AllaN01Bear Tuesday #62

My daughter is. Pacifist Patriot Tuesday #63

There are strong upsides to having autistic friends PurgedVoter Tuesday #64

terribly functional so not considered. pansypoo53219 Tuesday #65

found out I was Aspie when I was about 67 or so..Now 77. LiberalArkie Tuesday #67

Thank you for your honesty -- your voice matters youssef5070 Tuesday #68

I think we are all born and live in our own world for as long as possible. Aussie105 Tuesday #69