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12. Jill, I'm kind of the opposite...

Tue Sep 23, 2025, 06:33 PM

Tuesday

The years from 2009 to 2022 were a whirlwind...

My brother died of Covid.

My mother died after I was her caretaker for years.

Estranged from my remaining siblings after my mother's death.

Two beloved dogs passed.

Lost a few friends for reasons I'll never know.

Got flooded, spent months of 14 hour days bringing my home back to normal.

Both in-laws passed and I closed their entire estate and got their house sold in a month.

Remodeled my entire house in 10 months.

And now...nothing.

Feel like I'm aging rapidly without working like my hair is on fire.

I welcome challenges...but there's none left. I've done all of the hard stuff that I wanted to do.

That being said...simple things are stressing me, as they are you, so I understand how you are feeling.

I deal with it with humor, and I listen to music CONSTANTLY. EVERY WAKING MOMENT.

You hang in there, Jill. Everything will be alright.

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