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Jedi Guy

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14. My Dad came very close to committing suicide.
Sat Dec 27, 2025, 05:24 AM
Yesterday

As in, seconds away from pulling the trigger. He was in a very dark place due to a health condition, which ultimately did kill him. My family is very, very religious. So while he did have a moment of clarity and stop, highly religious people commit suicide, too.

I suspect the only thing that stopped him was the thought of what it would do to my Mom. Losing him was awful enough and she'll always bear that wound, as will I. Losing him to suicide would have been infinitely, horrifically worse. I'm very thankful he didn't go through with it.

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So according to Eps, his faith found it OK to rape and molest girls? fierywoman Friday #1
Humans are complected... no surprise here NotHardly Friday #2
Sure, but it's hard to claim his faith is so deep and true that he'd never commit suicide EdmondDantes_ Friday #7
The "sin" of suicide can affect marriage-abilty of Ilsa Friday #12
Yeah... I'm not buying this. yardwork Yesterday #16
Where did that psych observer go to school? soldierant Friday #3
that was just ONE observation (and more likely just a 'statement' taken down as attributed .. ) stopdiggin Friday #9
He didn't kill himself blue blues Friday #4
we know the answer to your question RainCaster Friday #5
Yup. Not surprised. My money is on murder. Joinfortmill Friday #6
I don't think liking or disliking pain is the driving force behind suicide, or the limiting factor. ToxMarz Friday #8
you're correct. and also not the entirety (or even close to it) of this 'assessment' stopdiggin Friday #10
I wouldn't even remotely consider any "faith" based reasoning to figure out whether he killed himself or not Takket Friday #11
A few people I knew who attempted suicide did it because they couldn't handle the pain anymore Kaleva Yesterday #13
My Dad came very close to committing suicide. Jedi Guy Yesterday #14
I've always thought he was knocked off. The missing few minutes of security video is too convenient. Vinca Yesterday #15
Or whatever he couldn't remember because of "sleep apnea" recurred. Igel Yesterday #18
His brother swears he was murdered. Trump Emile Yesterday #17
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