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In reply to the discussion: He shot her in the face [View all]

Cirsium

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53. Thanks
Mon Jan 12, 2026, 12:28 PM
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And that speed is its own kind of confession. A woman is dead, and the machinery is already humming, gears grinding, scripts sliding into place, moving with the well-rehearsed urgency of a system that knows exactly how to shield a man with power while quietly laying the weight of it all back onto the woman he killed. It’s a reflex so old and so deeply trained into our politics you can almost hear it click into gear — close ranks, lock arms, protect the man, and if there’s any blame left over, make sure it lands on her.

We’ve seen it in Donald Trump, in the way he talks about women as if they’re props in his personal pageant, things to be graded, mocked, and publicly humiliated. Piggy. Dog. Stupid. Ugly. He bragged about grabbing women by the pussy and was rewarded with the highest office in the land. That kind of language doesn’t just vanish into the air. It settles into the soil. It seeps into the seams of culture. It teaches people, quietly and relentlessly, what they’re allowed to get away with.

When leaders model contempt for women, when they make cruelty look like confidence and dominance look like strength, it doesn’t stay confined to podiums and cable news. It leaks outward, into parking lots and traffic stops and ordinary moments where someone with a weapon decides a woman has crossed an invisible line simply by not shrinking.

Renee Good tried to live. She tried to speak. She tried to calm a situation that never should’ve existed in the first place. She offered the only things she had left in that moment — her voice, her steadiness, her refusal to let fear be the last word. And for that, she was killed, then blamed, then pressed into a story that made her death easier for powerful people to swallow, as if a woman’s life could be wrapped in official language and made to disappear.

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He shot her in the face [View all] mountain grammy Sunday OP
Has anyone else had their anxiety triple with the murder of Renee Good? vapor2 Sunday #1
How about a hug? Trailrider1951 Sunday #3
Yes. mountain grammy Sunday #8
My anxiety soared when the Orange Hellbeast attacked a sovereign nation and abducted their head of state. ShazzieB Sunday #27
I needed this Joinfortmill Sunday #31
I'm exactly there, SB. Anyone can join, just BYOBlanket. littlemissmartypants Monday #45
That video. mountain grammy Monday #50
I have heard it for many different reasons, was raised with it. MuseRider Sunday #2
Yep mountain grammy Sunday #10
That man is a domestic abuser sboatcar Sunday #4
Sure not the actions of an innocent man. mountain grammy Sunday #5
Me, right before I hit the wall with abdominal staples dehisced Maru Kitteh Sunday #6
You're still here mountain grammy Sunday #7
You too MG. You too. Maru Kitteh Sunday #9
How awful, Maru Kitteh. My heart breaks for you. MIButterfly Sunday #19
Thank you for your kind MuseRider Sunday #39
"We know what we see when we see it." Silver Gaia Monday #43
The real question is xmas74 Sunday #11
Well.. stillspkg Sunday #15
This is why my ex-husband is my ex..... Bayard Sunday #33
I'm so sorry mountain grammy. Scrivener7 Sunday #12
Thank you mountain grammy Sunday #16
That doesn't go away. No matter how long ago. Scrivener7 Sunday #17
It's a common phrase spoken by weak men... LuckyCharms Sunday #13
It is a common phrase popsdenver Monday #54
I hope i say this right Srkdqltr Sunday #14
You just did MuseRider Sunday #40
Say it with me: BurnDoubt Sunday #18
Me, moved on, survived, and surpassed. I saw it again in tRump when he first ran for office, txwhitedove Sunday #20
Hugs to all of us who have had to listen to this verbal hateful abuse. Clouds Passing Sunday #21
the only time I heard YOU FUCKING BITCH Skittles Sunday #22
👍 mountain grammy Sunday #28
Yes, a very long time ago. Joinfortmill Sunday #23
Dead!? We'll be lucky if they don't apotheosize him! nt Wednesdays Sunday #32
Post today from JoJoFromJerz erronis Sunday #24
That's a good read. Highly recommend it underpants Sunday #29
Great piece mountain grammy Sunday #37
Yes. Thank you for sharing this with us. Silver Gaia Monday #44
Thanks Cirsium Monday #53
I've re-read her (JoJo's) piece several times and these paragraphs exemplify her writing. erronis Monday #56
I am very lucky. I have been called that a number of times, as well as niyad Sunday #25
Every time I've been called that... Pacifist Patriot Sunday #26
This may be the reason why this incident resonates with so many Wednesdays Sunday #30
If that asshole murderer doesn't beat his wife, there ain't a cow in Texas. raccoon Sunday #34
This is the first time I've heard this aspect of the murder Bayard Sunday #35
I was putting gas in my car and a truck Zackzzzz Sunday #36
Thank you for this mountain Grammy. democrank Sunday #38
My neighbor calls me that though not to my face. He just tells everyone Raine Sunday #41
So very sad for all those who have been on the receiving end of violent, ugly words. summer_in_TX Monday #42
My first marriage was a short one, not even a year. ... littlemissmartypants Monday #46
She did not hear those words. He needlessly & illegally shot her point blank inches away. But it's telling that he.. themaguffin Monday #47
Here's My Theory DallasNE Monday #48
I made a lot more money - the marriage lasted 2 years TBF Monday #49
The instant I learned what that murderer said Grammy23 Monday #51
I've called all my reps to demand mountain grammy Monday #55
"Men are afraid women will laugh at them. Women are afraid men will kill them." - Margaret Atwood Ocelot II Monday #52
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