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Marie Marie

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66. Haven't been through this but know men who have had experience with both.

Fri Feb 6, 2026, 11:27 PM

8 hrs ago

Both men lived years and years beyond their diagnosis. One died of heart failure at 96 and the other is still alive and kicking. May you outlive us all.

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My friends I have been in this community and love being here. I ask for your prayers and good wishes [View all] gopiscrap 13 hrs ago OP

... 2naSalit 13 hrs ago #1

I am sorry you have to go through this, my friend. HeartsCanHope 13 hrs ago #2

thank you gopiscrap 13 hrs ago #4

Healing vibes on the way to you. SheltieLover 13 hrs ago #3

Sending love and hugs your way, Mike C.❤️ sheshe2 13 hrs ago #5

Sending healing energy Mike. FalloutShelter 13 hrs ago #6

Sending prayers and good wishes your way. brer cat 13 hrs ago #7

Both are usually curable Dave says 13 hrs ago #8

That sounds like very encouraging information for anybody StarryNite 6 hrs ago #70

Sending Healing thoughts and energy to you- best wishes for quick treatment and recovery biophile 13 hrs ago #9

I am so sorry. You stick close by and keep us informed. applegrove 13 hrs ago #10

I had the female equivalent - stage three uterine cancer - three times. Staph 13 hrs ago #11

thank you gopiscrap 13 hrs ago #12

I wish I had more practical help or advice to offer senseandsensibility 13 hrs ago #13

Sending you love and prayers...My husbands uncle had what you describe in his 70's 80's Demsrule86 13 hrs ago #14

🫶🏽 Mike C 🫶🏽 blm 13 hrs ago #15

"" AllaN01Bear 13 hrs ago #16

You have my prayer for a complete recovery from both. My only advice is to LoisB 13 hrs ago #17

No advice, just holding you in my heart, Mike C. n/t TygrBright 13 hrs ago #18

Best wishes and good vibes stage left 12 hrs ago #19

Wow. Hugs to you. LittleGirl 12 hrs ago #20

No comments or advice canetoad 12 hrs ago #21

Wish you wellness Figarosmom 12 hrs ago #22

I'm saddened to hear of your health problems. I am sending hugs and wish you a positive outcome. I don't alwaysinasnit 12 hrs ago #23

Lots of love and healing vibes, dear gopiscrap Grim Chieftain 12 hrs ago #24

Sorry for that news. 70sEraVet 12 hrs ago #25

That sucks really bad jmbar2 12 hrs ago #26

I know someone who has had both LNM 12 hrs ago #27

Damn malaise 12 hrs ago #28

Nurture 🧡 Comfort 🩵 Healing 💚 to you gopiscrap Clouds Passing 12 hrs ago #29

Sucks to read this. OAITW r.2.0 12 hrs ago #30

Hi Mike C.. All the best to you... mountain grammy 12 hrs ago #31

You will win this fight. mr715 12 hrs ago #32

We're here berniesandersmittens 12 hrs ago #33

I'm so sorry, Mike. iemanja 12 hrs ago #34

I don't have any personal experience along those lines, Mike, but calimary 12 hrs ago #35

Bladder twice Nigrum Cattus 11 hrs ago #36

Sending hugs and healing energy. I'm so sorry you got this diagnosis, but cancer treatment is very highplainsdem 11 hrs ago #37

Double whammy for sure. Dear_Prudence 11 hrs ago #38

Half-way through treatment for Gleason Score 8/Stage II prostate cancer Bluejeans 11 hrs ago #39

Caught it early, eh? Tranquil72 11 hrs ago #40

Sending a hug and wishing you all the very best. hamsterjill 11 hrs ago #41

There is hope dawgdan 11 hrs ago #42

Best wishes inbound! ... OldBoss 11 hrs ago #43

Mike prostatectomy 15 years ago radical cystectomy 2 years ago TexLaProgressive 10 hrs ago #44

I had Gleason 8 in 2025 bagimin 10 hrs ago #45

I have Timewas 10 hrs ago #46

I haven't, but my daughter went thru a Joinfortmill 10 hrs ago #47

Dear gopiscrap, My husband had Maliginant Prostrate cancer. He always went to his Urologis a PSI test and a Prostate debm55 10 hrs ago #48

I am so sorry. Keep us posted. Cancer survivor here. DU Cancer Support Group is a great place for questions and venting Solly Mack 10 hrs ago #49

Thinking of you and hoping for the absolute best! chowder66 10 hrs ago #50

Scary, Man.. Permanut 10 hrs ago #51

Cancer x 2. Ms. Toad 9 hrs ago #52

Adding my best wishes for you and the team that is gonna get you back to good health 🌺 Deuxcents 9 hrs ago #53

I hope you are soon healthy again Mike, huge hugs. Celerity 9 hrs ago #54

Stage 3 survivor here....you got this purr-rat beauty 9 hrs ago #55

Wishing you a cancer free outcome. GoodRaisin 9 hrs ago #56

So sad to read this CountAllVotes 9 hrs ago #57

God Speed Mike C JMCKUSICK 9 hrs ago #58

Best wishes for successful treatment! waterwatcher123 9 hrs ago #59

Sorry to hear this news JohnnyLib2 9 hrs ago #60

A gentle hug 🫂 to you and your family. mwmisses4289 9 hrs ago #61

Wishing you all the best!!! CaptainTruth 9 hrs ago #62

Prayers for you Mike - TBF 9 hrs ago #63

My husband has stage four PC with metastases... DET 8 hrs ago #64

Sending you hugs and blessings Wicked Blue 8 hrs ago #65

Haven't been through this but know men who have had experience with both. Marie Marie 8 hrs ago #66

I identify Wifes husband 7 hrs ago #67

My mate had both róisín_dubh 6 hrs ago #68

Advice Roy Rolling 6 hrs ago #69

Here's to the Very Best Help & Support Cha 5 hrs ago #71

I'm a nurse. This is scary as hell I know, but you got this. Maru Kitteh 4 hrs ago #72