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Wonder Why

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25. I don't want to take away any credit from the surgeon. He probed and prodded my leg as well as asking me to
Sat Feb 28, 2026, 09:54 PM
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move in certain ways, each time, explaining why and what he was looking for. It was he that initiated the MRI request.
The problem with the medical system is that the doctor prescribes a treatment or wants a revisit in a specific time frame but has no knowledge that his office is booked for weeks or the MRI facility for months.

He sees the need, makes the decisions but it is the patient that discovers the hard way that what he asked for is not possible to get without his intervention. I praise him for, when I notified his office of the issue, he saw to it that things were speeded up, if not sufficiently. There is no closed loop where his staff can immediately notify him that his request isn't going to be what he intends.

My GP is like him. Both he and she are willing to do something when I notify them of an issue but, unfortunately, too few people can or will make the effort to do so. We accept the system. Like you, we have to say something but it's not as easy as it sounds. We are intimidated by the system, the bureaucracy, our procrastination, or our ability to express our needs. My problem is my memory. I go into the doctor's office with 3 issues but fail to remember them and fail to remember to read them on my cell phone or the note in my pocket. So it waits until the next time.

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Wonder why the universe is aiming these thoughts at me today... buzzycrumbhunger Saturday #1
I'll only suggest that it resonates for a reason. May it be for great reasons. JMCKUSICK Saturday #4
You, too, John! buzzycrumbhunger Saturday #8
I think that post you saw is wonderfully profound, JMCKUSICK Saturday #5
Very nice. Your words will help quite a few, I'd bet. Good on ya and may your health hlthe2b Saturday #2
Thank you Hlthe2b, I hope so on all counts. JMCKUSICK Saturday #3
Very informative and beautifully written post, john. Thank you for posting. debm55 Saturday #6
Thank you Debbie JMCKUSICK Saturday #15
This is good advice, I had two strokes in 2015, blocked vertebral artery, aortic heart valve replaced in 2024 Shellback Squid Saturday #7
And here we are to talk about it. I'm so glad for you Shellback Squid JMCKUSICK Saturday #17
God bless you. You convinced me. I will make an appointment MerryBlooms Saturday #9
Please go to the Emergency room tonight MerryBlooms. JMCKUSICK Saturday #11
I second this, John! SheltieLover Yesterday #41
I hope she went. JMCKUSICK Yesterday #44
I hope so, too! SheltieLover Yesterday #47
MerryBlooms, I just saw this post and hope you have gone to ER and get this checked. Just 3 nights ago, I went to the KitFox Saturday #29
Thank you for those really important words KitFox JMCKUSICK Saturday #31
Update: all good! Thanks for all your good wishes!🥰🥰🥰 MerryBlooms 19 hrs ago #59
Listen to your body - this is among the best advice people should hear. Men especially. Probatim Saturday #10
You are so right to remind us to ask all the questions that arise JMCKUSICK Saturday #14
Happy Anniversary JM ❤️ You have much more to live for 🩵 Clouds Passing Saturday #12
Thank you CloudsPassing, you were amongst the first to help me believe that might be true. JMCKUSICK Saturday #35
I'm coming along slowly. Thanks 😊 Clouds Passing Yesterday #43
A great OP malaise Saturday #13
Thank you Malaise, coming from you it means a lot. JMCKUSICK Saturday #19
You are so right! After my being hit by a car last week and the hospital saying "no fractures", I was still Wonder Why Saturday #16
Wow, and good on you for doing the single most important part. JMCKUSICK Saturday #18
I don't want to take away any credit from the surgeon. He probed and prodded my leg as well as asking me to Wonder Why Saturday #25
Good words markie Saturday #20
Thanks for sharing your important story Markie, JMCKUSICK Saturday #32
Healing vibes on the way to you. SheltieLover Yesterday #42
This part, especially: calimary Saturday #21
Thank you for highlighting what I thought was the most important part of my post Calimary, JMCKUSICK Yesterday #36
Bookmarked MustLoveBeagles Saturday #22
Thank you MustLoveBeagles JMCKUSICK Saturday #33
whenever i go into hospital for afib ,(mostly tacy), the last time i went in for a flutter, i always say thank you to th AllaN01Bear Saturday #23
An attitude of gratitude is a healer all by itself JMCKUSICK Yesterday #50
Thank you for this heart-warming and eloquent piece FakeNoose Saturday #24
Thank you FakeNoose, your words lift me. JMCKUSICK Saturday #30
Glad to be Rec number 100.. Permanut Saturday #26
Thank you Permanut. JMCKUSICK Yesterday #45
Bookmarked. Dear_Prudence Saturday #27
Thank you Dear_Prudence JMCKUSICK Saturday #28
Oh, dear John, thank you for this and all of your KitFox Saturday #34
Thank you so much for saying so KitFox. JMCKUSICK 22 hrs ago #55
Thank you John, for sharing this FemDemERA Yesterday #37
Thank you for the kind words FemDemERA JMCKUSICK Yesterday #40
Don't smoke... returnee Yesterday #38
Right on all counts of course, thank you Returnee JMCKUSICK Yesterday #39
Glad you made it through Chi67 Yesterday #46
How beautiful. Alliepoo Yesterday #48
Lol, never read good books right after cutting onions. JMCKUSICK Yesterday #51
Thank you for your heartfelt and loving post Wild blueberry Yesterday #49
I'm glad you're Faux pas Yesterday #52
Thank you Faux Pas JMCKUSICK Yesterday #53
Great post popsdenver Yesterday #54
Thank you PopsDenver JMCKUSICK 21 hrs ago #57
Thank you and I wish you a good recovery. pandr32 21 hrs ago #56
Thank you and agreed Pandr32 JMCKUSICK 20 hrs ago #58
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