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198. I am so sorry, Maeve

Fri Mar 6, 2026, 03:55 PM

13 hrs ago

I know that the loss you are feeling is immeasurable. I do hope you have a good support system to help out. May memories of your mother wrap around you and bring you comfort, like a warm blanket on a wintry night.

It's been a few days since I read your post. I started to write, went looking for a song, and got lost in my own memories... I evidently minimized this tab and never sent my post until now. So it is a few days later, but the message is heartfelt all the same.

Quote from the song I went looking for...

And even if you lose yourself
And don't know what to do
The memory of love will see you through
- from "Perhaps Love", John Denver

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