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MIButterfly

(2,602 posts)
Wed Mar 11, 2026, 10:05 PM Wednesday

I love DU. [View all]

I was a lurker for many, many years before I became a member.

I love being among like-minded people. I love that there's something for everyone and it's a safe place to express an opinion. I really care about the wonderful people here. I usually check in several times a day.

What I do not like is when a poster is vitriolic toward another poster. I've seen it happen to others before and I didn't like it. I feel like I was viciously attacked in a response to a post I made earlier. I was told I should "CARE ENOUGH TO PAY ATTENTION!" and that there are "too many dunces not paying attention already" and to "WAKE UP!" I don't even know how to respond to that, so I didn't.

I would ask that people consider their words more carefully. I don't like being lectured or made to feel stupid.

Thank you for your attention to this matter.

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I love DU. [View all] MIButterfly Wednesday OP
That alert button is your friend Brother Buzz Wednesday #1
I had no idea what the Alert button was for jmbar2 Thursday #22
I, too, enjoy expressing my thoughts and reading thoughts of others vapor2 Wednesday #2
LOL malaise Wednesday #3
I thought I'd close with a little levity. MIButterfly Wednesday #4
Made me laugh malaise Wednesday #5
Yah it made me smile. Thanks. ancianita Wednesday #10
We haven't lived until *flamed* to pieces! UTUSN Wednesday #6
Unfortunately there are to many posters out there that dehumanize & infantilize other posters for having a different SunImp Wednesday #7
Nice tantrum! leftstreet Wednesday #8
I get ya... Not all is probably intentional. Stress seems to impact members in cycles... hlthe2b Wednesday #9
All forums get flame wars. usonian Wednesday #11
That's a good one! calimary Wednesday #13
It's unfortunate that we have members here that talk down to others Niagara Wednesday #12
❤️ 💐 🪄💫 🦋 littlemissmartypants Wednesday #14
I try to be specific and targeted in my vitriol jfz9580m Wednesday #15
There is a contingent pretending that ridiculing fellow DUers is the path to electoral victory Orrex Wednesday #16
It's like seeing an inconsiderate driver on the road BaronChocula Wednesday #17
I'll sign on to Loving DU, too! ☮️🌺🌻🕯️🕊️💜 Cha Wednesday #18
I'm impressed by the level of civility on DU. markodochartaigh Wednesday #19
While not perfect, it's so much better here than Facebook TBF Thursday #20
Sorry for your unpleasant experience in a place you love, MIButterly. summer_in_TX Thursday #21
I can accept being flamed if it's done with wit. NNadir Thursday #23
Love your poss MIB 🩵 Clouds Passing Thursday #24
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