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MineralMan

(151,495 posts)
46. I think it was for more than that.
Tue Apr 28, 2026, 01:43 PM
Apr 28

Clearly, in my school at least, they were making an effort to introduce the concept of boys and girls treating each other with respect. In 7th and 8th grades, the kids are 12 and 13 years old, mostly. While most of the girls were already in the throes of puberty, most of the boys were not. Still, teaching both how best to behave in social settings seemed important to the school.

Mostly, it worked, I think. I got the point right away. For me, it was clear that those girls who were all taller than I was were going to be an important part of my life soon. I knew that, somehow. So, I really welcomed the idea of learning how to behave and be a nice guy. So, I learned to dance. I learned how to be polite. Even though I wasn't really that interested, I knew that I soon would be. So I listened and learned.

It paid off. I was never at a loss for what to do in social situations where romance was a possibility. I had paid attention and I got along just fine with those girls, once I was taller than they were and wanting to get closer to them.

So, those dancing classes were a good idea, I think.

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Sounds like something a KING would want Emile Apr 28 #1
In the back seat of our chauffeur driven Rolls Royce,... magicarpet Apr 28 #12
Interesting but I am guessing "No" is the answer. efhmc Apr 28 #35
Pedo the felon sure acts like one. Justice matters. Apr 28 #36
The average person has no want for such a thing, matter of fact, I'd say, some disdain. usonian Apr 28 #2
My wife likes ballroom dancing. Intractable Apr 28 #3
Only to the extent EYESORE 9001 Apr 28 #4
Yep, when tight jeans were the fashion in the 70s. multigraincracker Apr 28 #11
It's Trump's bawlroom, not a ballroom LeftInTX Apr 28 #5
;-{) An aerial view of the construction site for President Trump's planned ballroom. Goonch Apr 28 #6
Sure, but I'm old. MineralMan Apr 28 #7
Same here chelsea0011 Apr 28 #20
Yes. A very formal term, really. MineralMan Apr 28 #21
We did too ... oldsoldierfadingfast Apr 28 #39
I think it was for more than that. MineralMan Apr 28 #46
We have a largish room... Happy Hoosier Apr 28 #8
We have an interesting area of historic homes murielm99 Apr 28 #17
"Many people" today call that a FROG: Totally Tunsie Apr 28 #29
Only when... AfternoonJoe Apr 28 #9
My quilting lady friends wondered why trump needs ballroom as he doesn't have any. Srkdqltr Apr 28 #10
!! mwmisses4289 Apr 28 #37
Yes, I'm old enough to have played "clue" karynnj Apr 28 #13
At least once a year. Ms. Toad Apr 28 #22
+1 More times than I can count. onenote Apr 28 #34
Agreed. Ms. Toad Apr 28 #45
Only followed with the word "blitz" n/t gay texan Apr 28 #14
yes DBoon Apr 28 #26
There was a joke: "what does a cheap hotel and tight pants have in common?" CTyankee Apr 28 #15
LOL +1 Emile Apr 28 #18
Only in reference to whether pants are loose enough. Ocelot II Apr 28 #16
Yes obamanut2012 Apr 28 #19
We've finally unearthed his deepest secret: he's always wanted to be voted "Debutante of the Year." Scrivener7 Apr 28 #23
In highschool it was synonymous with Prairie_Seagull Apr 28 #24
So far I haven't seen the word "elitist," which would be inevitable if Democrats said the word ballroom. betsuni Apr 28 #25
Yes I Have, But... ProfessorGAC Apr 28 #27
only once, when discussing the Ballroom Jeans ad eShirl Apr 28 #28
CNN quoted the donald today as having said... Totally Tunsie Apr 28 #30
Back when, I went to Detroit's Grande Ballroom (pronounced GRAN-dee) a number of times. JustABozoOnThisBus Apr 28 #31
There is something I don't understand about doc03 Apr 28 #32
Watching a Netflix series about Tree Lady Apr 28 #33
Yes ... oldsoldierfadingfast Apr 28 #38
Quite often, actually. mwmisses4289 Apr 28 #40
The ballet/dance studio my daughters took classes at was a real old ballroom (100 years old), I think because of the age cksmithy Apr 28 #41
Yes. Raine1967 Apr 28 #42
Maybe when my class read Cinderella in 1st grade. Initech Apr 28 #43
Only when I got chafed from running in tight shorts Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin Apr 28 #44
Only when singing along with AC/DC doing "Big Balls" flvegan Apr 28 #47
I have used the word - RB77 Apr 28 #48
Only when buying underwear for my husband. Vinca Apr 28 #49
Only when I'm singing Texasgal Apr 28 #50
The largest room in hotel conference center is sometimes named "the ballroom" BlueWaveNeverEnd Apr 28 #51
It's a permanent debutante ball for Trump /nt bucolic_frolic Apr 28 #52
Only on a slide at a conference to show what room it was in JT45242 Apr 28 #53
I use when I go to fundraisers that are in Ballrooms maxsolomon Apr 28 #54
Only when discussing Guillotines and clueless corrupt Aristocracies C_U_L8R Apr 28 #55
Never kimbutgar Apr 28 #56
Mostly in reference to my HS sweetheart 60 years ago TexLaProgressive Apr 28 #57
Once, back in the 90s , when going to see Primus at the Crystal Ballroom in Portland 0rganism Apr 28 #58
I'm a lifelong softball player with a lot of gear, which I keep very organized Martin Eden Apr 29 #59
I searched my texts, which go back 7 years or so ecstatic Apr 29 #60
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