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blubunyip

(319 posts)
31. Totally agree
Sat Jun 27, 2026, 06:52 PM
10 hrs ago

Although I think it's important to take time out and do some recreational thing every week, that doesn't work for me as an antidote to the daily dose of horror we are witnessing. The pain of being victimized needs to be addressed IMO. It is super stressful to know that we are living in a collapsing democracy, where every day there's a fresh cut by ruthless perpetrators. To absorb those cuts remotely and passively is even more paralyzing when there's no immediate rescue from the state of dissonance and worry it induces. But fighting back feels good, no matter how small the effort! I suggest doing a direct action task or two as often as possible, every week at least, if not every day, til it becomes a habit. Everyone can find a different rhythm with this. It doesn't matter what direction this resolve to "get out there and do something" takes.

Write or call reps (do it with a support group)
Become a voter registrar or a GOTV volunteer
Write a Letter to the Editor or comment online (DU counts )
Donate time or money to charities and relief services (esp those harmed by this administration)
Attend regular street demonstrations
Work with orgs doing educational outreach and community support
Make guerilla art if so inclined, join resistance singers
And more...

The therapy lies in taking action, preferably with others in real time or networking with others who are feeling the same way. Living with the delusion that everything is OK is just not mentally healthy--- if there's any energy left after the necessary demands of life, the way out is through action with realistic goals. The autocrats and their enablers are depending on most of us being stressed, isolated and powerless. Why give them that satisfaction? It's time to pull together, if it ever was. Get busy in whatever way is available.

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7 members have recommended this reply (displayed in chronological order):

Do you have access to therapy? WhiskeyGrinder 12 hrs ago #1
I empathize. mr715 12 hrs ago #2
Escapism is a really good idea! ananda 10 hrs ago #21
I'm viewing the bdamomma 10 hrs ago #25
I watch, "Girl with Dogs" and Girl with Dogs 2" -- it's a simpatica Canadian woman who grooms fierywoman 9 hrs ago #37
I love her videos. mr715 9 hrs ago #45
Awww! fierywoman 7 hrs ago #66
Everyone has to do what helps them get through including escapism. It's not healthy to digest this 24/7 themaguffin 8 hrs ago #63
Turn this all off and find time for yourself - for some peace. NewHendoLib 12 hrs ago #3
THE quote that keeps me going 303squadron 12 hrs ago #4
Mr. Ferencz was a remarkable man. Joinfortmill 9 hrs ago #52
When I was a boy baseball players were my heroes 303squadron 8 hrs ago #62
Unplug for a while, maybe DarthDem 12 hrs ago #5
Pull out some old albums, listen to them, read the liners. dem4decades 12 hrs ago #6
It's getting better. Blue Full Moon 11 hrs ago #7
I agree the tide is turning annielion 10 hrs ago #23
We can take them!!!! bdamomma 10 hrs ago #26
Sign up for her (Parkrose Permaculture) posts. You need to be reading people who are uplifting and hopeful. Amaryllis 8 hrs ago #59
Thank you hookaleft 4 hrs ago #70
It's a hard time for good and kind people Tesha 11 hrs ago #8
I haven't watched network news in 15 years and I don't miss it one bit. Initech 11 hrs ago #16
I never in my life thought I would hear people want to voluntarily give up their rights. Initech 11 hrs ago #9
Get off the internet, and turn off cable news Fiendish Thingy 11 hrs ago #10
Less thought, more action. Get out there and do something. struggle4progress 11 hrs ago #11
Totally agree blubunyip 10 hrs ago #31
you are so sweet hookaleft 9 hrs ago #48
If you read the rw boards Boo1 11 hrs ago #12
You do realize that this is perfectly normal for right now, don't you? hamsterjill 11 hrs ago #13
*smiles* hookaleft 9 hrs ago #49
;-{) THIS Goonch 11 hrs ago #14
Yep. He presumes to be one of them. calimary 11 hrs ago #17
That's bdamomma 10 hrs ago #27
I meet lovely people every day. MerryBlooms 11 hrs ago #15
They're mighty nice and neighborly in northwestern Oregon, too! calimary 11 hrs ago #18
I was in Portland Metro for many years. We raised our boys up there MerryBlooms 10 hrs ago #19
When I was a small child, our next door neighbour was Mr. Gladiolus. BobTheSubgenius 9 hrs ago #43
How cool! Love gladiolas. Would get them from our Green Market. electric_blue68 4 hrs ago #68
Stay encouraged, hookaleft. ❤️ littlemissmartypants 10 hrs ago #20
love you hookaleft 4 hrs ago #71
💞 littlemissmartypants 3 hrs ago #74
We. The. People. Will. Get. Through. This. Nightmare! EndlessMaze 10 hrs ago #22
I don't mean bdamomma 10 hrs ago #24
"most of the people of this country are unaware" - NO TBF 10 hrs ago #28
Trump's overall approval is at 30%. That means 70% of We the People know what's up. flashman13 10 hrs ago #33
Yup, our focus needs to be GOTV - TBF 9 hrs ago #34
8 Democratic wins this week: applegrove 10 hrs ago #29
In circumstances like these, I try to remember the Christian Serenity Prayer. Intractable 10 hrs ago #30
Unplug and do what you can to make your part of the world better The Blue Flower 10 hrs ago #32
Immerse yourself in music, art, taking a nature walk. I'm surrounded by allegorical oracle 9 hrs ago #35
Agreed. Evolve Dammit 9 hrs ago #36
You might consider taking a break from politics for a short time. Buddyzbuddy 9 hrs ago #38
More and more people are aware Tree Lady 9 hrs ago #39
I am struggling too proud patriot 9 hrs ago #40
I love this idea! pat_k 8 hrs ago #65
Bake bread. cachukis 9 hrs ago #41
They want you to feel this way. Aristus 9 hrs ago #42
I do identify with the original poster. I myself feel imprisoned. sprinkleeninow 9 hrs ago #47
... Aristus 9 hrs ago #56
I hear you! BobTheSubgenius 9 hrs ago #44
yeah OK Skittles 9 hrs ago #46
Wow Cirsium 9 hrs ago #50
Me too. Deep breath. I'm sending hugs. Joinfortmill 9 hrs ago #51
One foot in front of the other one you are gonna be OK. We need you. Botany 9 hrs ago #53
Democracy is a struggle bucolic_frolic 9 hrs ago #54
Been thinking lately we need to educate voters about what's in Project 2025 KS Toronado 9 hrs ago #55
I empathize, too. I had to unplug last year. orthoclad 9 hrs ago #57
FWIW pat_k 8 hrs ago #58
Just read Ms Elm. TY There's a wonderful title to a book "Brighten The Corner Where You Are"... electric_blue68 4 hrs ago #69
I'm with you. The founders never imagined criminals could get control of all three branches of government. lees1975 8 hrs ago #60
I know. All three branches hookaleft 4 hrs ago #72
Thank you to everyone that has replied to my post hookaleft 4 hrs ago #73
As Plagiarized From 'Intractable' (herein) wyn borkins 8 hrs ago #61
I had to unplug during the Bush Jr years... Mark.b2 8 hrs ago #64
Seriously, if true, you should probably talk to someone. flvegan 5 hrs ago #67
I think we pretty much all experience some of the same anxiety, hookaleft. summer_in_TX 3 hrs ago #75
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