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SpankMe

(3,717 posts)
24. With respect, it's not my own characterization
Mon Mar 30, 2026, 09:06 PM
8 hrs ago

As evidenced by many comments in this thread, a number of people find single male adults "of a certain age" visiting Disney alone - without ever having had children that they took to Disneyland - to be somewhat odd. However, note the last paragraph in my post where I say "I agree that adults should be free to visit Disney without kids without stigma...". Apparently you didn't read that far.

My wife and I are Disney fans and had annual passes before the price went astronomical. We'd go the Disney Anaheim just to have dinner at Pirates of the Caribbean, watch a parade and some fireworks, and then leave. This was before kids. But, we were in our early to mid-20's and visited Disney many, many times as kids. We double dated there with other Disney fans and would occasionally point out Disneyland visitors who seemed out of place. Most of the time, this was lone males in their 40's or thereabouts wearing Disney attire that seemed inappropriate for adults, such as ill-fitting short Micky Mouse shorts, non-black mouse ears with their name glittered on it and other themed bling - like hand-held props that didn't match other elements of the costuming - that just struck us as strange at worst and tone-deaf at best. There was a creepy feel to it.

I don't deny that childless adults visit the Magic Kingdom, and I'm fine with that. But don't slam people who find that to be odd in certain particular cases.

All that said, I reacted to this story before I know all of the facts. Graham was visiting a high end restaurant in a resort location outside of the Magic Kingdom park itself. He was with other adults and was wearing a suit. TMZ's characterization of his visit and the pile--on by detractors is unfair. Frankly, I'm not eve sure I have a beef with him visiting there during the TSA shutdown. I'm sure congressional members of both parties still went out to nice dinners with their families or business associates during the budget impasse. We libs might be overplaying our hand on this one - as much as I HATE Lindsey Graham.

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Newsom is developing a pattern TommyT139 23 hrs ago #1
How is calling Graham a "diva" homophobic? Irish_Dem 22 hrs ago #2
Say what you want, of course. TommyT139 21 hrs ago #5
It's a term meant for a woman, not a man Polybius 7 hrs ago #25
I have never encountered "diva" as a gay slur Miguelito Loveless 20 hrs ago #9
There you go! "Goddess" ... it's mis-gendering him and using it to denigrate him. QueerDuck 20 hrs ago #12
You went straight to the original meaning from the Italian Miguelito Loveless 19 hrs ago #14
When such great care is taken to split hairs to justify misgendering ... QueerDuck 18 hrs ago #16
IIRC - Mohammed Ali used the term "niggardly" on the Dick Cavett Show just to bring up a point. rubbersole 17 hrs ago #18
Do you want everyone to be nice to Lindsay Graham. He has been the greatest advocate of this war. Let's not offend him Doodley 6 hrs ago #28
Maybe he should have just posted a sternly worded message?!?! Bengus81 20 hrs ago #11
Sorry. I'm not buying the microaggession argument johnnyplankton 18 hrs ago #17
isn't there a rule around about sit flinging? SalamanderSleeps 7 hrs ago #26
Newsom is attacking a war mongering, Trump stooge. You seem to be attacking Newsom. Doodley 6 hrs ago #27
Good for Governor Newsom, Graham is a bit of a Diva as far as I can tell. wcmagumba 22 hrs ago #3
Collecting his payoff. twodogsbarking 21 hrs ago #4
"Why is an old man with no kids going to Disney?" Ray Bruns 21 hrs ago #6
searching poozwah 21 hrs ago #7
There are many people who go to Disney World without kids LetMyPeopleVote 19 hrs ago #13
There's some context others see here that you may be missing SpankMe 18 hrs ago #15
There are many persons without children who enjoy Disney. LetMyPeopleVote 16 hrs ago #22
With respect, it's not my own characterization SpankMe 8 hrs ago #24
The difference is Graham is a creep. Would you trust him with your kids? Doodley 6 hrs ago #29
Graham's excuse sounds about as believeable as the one given by Cancun Cruz a few years back rpannier 20 hrs ago #8
I would like to see him grilled, like a hamberder, well done. twodogsbarking 20 hrs ago #10
Disney Ad Campaign Parody 2na fisherman 17 hrs ago #19
He's eating at a restaurant called Chef Mickey's chernabogg 17 hrs ago #20
He is a disgrace to mankind. Just like his hero. nt City Lights 16 hrs ago #21
WTF! Buddyzbuddy 15 hrs ago #23
When you're telling your constituents to send their sons & daughters to fight in Iran dflprincess 6 hrs ago #30
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