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BumRushDaShow

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41. I still think he had aspirations and that clashed with his family life and checkered past
Fri Apr 17, 2026, 10:30 AM
Apr 17

People like that don't just give up immediately. There are a pile who were in Congress over the years who were either defeated or forced to resign, yet would try try again later (e.g. Darryl Issa, Jessie Jackson Jr., Jeff Fortenberry, and Madison Cawthorn come to mind). The current occupant of the WH is the epitome of that mentality.

Don't discount that drive to be in some high office (which in his case, most likely drove him to snap).

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Was about to hit post BumRushDaShow Apr 16 #1
Northam mercuryblues Apr 16 #2
That's it! BumRushDaShow Apr 16 #9
I hate stories like this one. COL Mustard Apr 16 #24
Lt. Gov. is a stepping stone for higher offices BumRushDaShow Apr 16 #30
I think your timeline is off a bit. onenote Apr 17 #36
I still think he had aspirations and that clashed with his family life and checkered past BumRushDaShow Apr 17 #41
I'm friends with his former campaign manager. Fairfax was done with no new aspirations onenote Apr 17 #44
And that sounds like people like George Santos BumRushDaShow Apr 17 #45
Virginia Ex-Lt. Gov. Justin Fairfax Kills Wife and Self, Police Say mahatmakanejeeves Apr 16 #3
This is awful Jilly_in_VA Apr 16 #4
Kids Orangenero Apr 16 #5
I can't imagine what they are going through. COL Mustard Apr 16 #25
Reports their children were in the house at the time AverageOldGuy Apr 16 #6
Kids are 16 and 14 Jilly_in_VA Apr 17 #39
This is terrible. Raine1967 Apr 16 #7
Story is in Wikipedia FakeNoose Apr 16 #8
Domestic abuse cuts across all income levels - TBF Apr 16 #10
So sad 😞. n/t iluvtennis Apr 16 #11
His wife was a dentist. mahatmakanejeeves Apr 16 #12
Thank you. niyad Apr 16 #14
Heartbreaking. Interesting how all the stories kept mentioning niyad Apr 16 #13
I feel that it should always be mentioned either way Polybius Apr 16 #23
It was in post 3. I agree that it sould always be mentioned, but we niyad Apr 16 #26
Horrible get the red out Apr 16 #15
Instead of addressing the problem as mental health maybe the "cure" should be couched in in2herbs Apr 16 #19
Given the past allegations, I am not surprised. 58Sunliner Apr 16 #16
They were already divorcing; living in the same house though. Callie1979 Apr 16 #20
Sadly, that is not always a possibility. niyad Apr 16 #27
Well, money certainly shouldn't have been an issue; she was a dentist. Callie1979 Apr 16 #28
There could have been any number of factors in play, none of which niyad Apr 16 #29
Not at all. I've helped a couple women leave abusers in the past. Its never easy Callie1979 Apr 17 #38
Thank you for all you have done. niyad Apr 17 #40
He was the one who was ordered to move out by the judge. LisaL Apr 16 #32
Could well have been about a custody issue & not wanting to leave kids with him? SheltieLover Apr 16 #31
Why should she have left and not him? LisaL Apr 16 #33
Agreed. 58Sunliner Apr 16 #34
The second you bring a gun into the home you've dramatically increased the risk of death for your family 🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️ mahatmakanejeeves Apr 16 #17
This is where EDUCATION about firearms is important TexasBushwhacker Apr 16 #22
Leaving an abuser and sociopath, is the most dangerous time in a woman's life. 58Sunliner Apr 16 #35
What a piece of shit. TheProle Apr 16 #18
Yep. LudwigPastorius Apr 16 #21
Court documents reveal mounting tension in Fairfax marriage before murder-suicide mahatmakanejeeves Apr 17 #37
Divorce judge was concerned about Justin Fairfax's recent mental health, 2022 gun incident, court documents show mahatmakanejeeves Apr 17 #42
I lived in Annandale some 30 years ago. Nice town. Lots of military families. My neighbor worked at the Pentagon. CTyankee Apr 17 #43
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