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11. Hey, I used to take my future wife to restaurants in Northport.

Thu Feb 12, 2026, 02:30 PM

Feb 12

There was one by the harbor that we went to once on a day I will always remember.

That was because, as we were "just friends," I was anticipating her telling me over lunch about her date with her ex-boyfriend the day before. (My heart was sinking thinking ahe was going back to that guy.) So she shows up and I asked her how it went and she turned red and said she was never, ever going to go anywhere with him again. It's turns out he offended her by hitting on the wife of a married couple on the double date, while the husband was hitting on her. Maybe the guys were hoping for a four person orgy. I don't know but I do know there was a zero probability of that happening, given who my wife is.

The ex-boyfriend had showed up at the date bringing a pillow since he was expecting a "roll in the hay" as they say. He never made it into her apartment to retrieve the pillow.

I remember the restaurant because my future wife was sitting with her back to the harbor, looking more beautiful than ever while she expressed her anger at the guy.

I avoided saying "You're beautiful when you're angry," but anyway it wasn't directed at me but at the guy I hoped would go away.

I don't remember the name of the restaurant but it wasn't on Main Street but on Bayview. The harbor was filled with sailboats.

When I moved in with her I made a lot of jokes about the pillow which I used for many years. No pillow ever made me quite so happy, even if it was a cheap lumpy thing.

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Where did you go for you first date with your SO? We went to Red Lobster. And you? [View all] debm55 Feb 12 OP

Mariner's Inn cloudbase Feb 12 #1

Thank you cloudbase. I am sure it was better than Red Lobster. debm55 Feb 12 #2

Hey, I used to take my future wife to restaurants in Northport. NNadir Feb 12 #11

Small world. cloudbase Feb 12 #13

Yeah, I looked up some stuff on Northport history, and from what I can tell, the restaurant in which that tale... NNadir Feb 13 #23

Thank you so much! cloudbase Feb 13 #24

Well congratulations. It would appear that she's had 53 years... NNadir Feb 13 #29

That's wonderful! cloudbase Feb 13 #31

We went to an art fair and... radical noodle Feb 12 #3

Sounds very nice. Thank you very much, radical noodle. debm55 Feb 12 #4

We went to a party that some mutual friends were livetohike Feb 12 #5

Thank you very much for sharing with us. livetohike. It sounded like fun. debm55 Feb 12 #6

It's hard to say since we were friends before we were lovers. NNadir Feb 12 #7

Very romantic. Thank you for sharing, NNadir and it does sound like a date. debm55 Feb 12 #9

He came over to my apartment, and we talked until 3 am Mad_Dem_X Feb 12 #8

HAHAHHAHAH, Thank you Mad_Dem_X. That is wonderful. At comedy shows, I always sit int the back. debm55 Feb 12 #10

We didn't know what we were in for! LOL Mad_Dem_X Feb 12 #12

Now you know. Sit in the back. debm55 Feb 12 #20

Met for lunch Mz Pip Feb 12 #14

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To A Movie, Then To The Disco ProfessorGAC Feb 12 #15

Yes, I remember you met her at the disco. Much love to you and Mrs. ProfessorGAC debm55 Feb 12 #18

Mr Lucky's in Phoenix Mosby Feb 12 #16

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To see Star Wars. emulatorloo Feb 12 #21

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It was the sort of restaurant that more or less typified the mid 1980s: surrealAmerican Feb 12 #22

But you two are still on your life journey of love, compassion and passion. Wonderful debm55 Feb 13 #46

I had a friend who owned many acres in western North Carolina. OldBaldy1701E Feb 13 #25

Thank you very much for sharing with us, OldBaldy1701E. May you both continue on your life journey with love, compassion debm55 Feb 13 #45

A restaurant called The Broom Factory exboyfil Feb 13 #26

They may all be closed now, but you still have the love of Mrs. exboyfil with you. debm55 Feb 13 #43

Burger King! Well, she was married and I was freshly out of high school so... Tim S Feb 13 #27

Sorry, TimS, she is with you and always will be with you. May her memories be a blessings to you, my friend. debm55 Feb 13 #42

Thank you! Tim S Feb 13 #67

Bar hopping! We had been in and out of each other's orbits for a couple of weeks. We talked at a friend's house during a retread Feb 13 #28

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Halloween Costume Party 303squadron Feb 13 #30

Very sweet post, 303squadron. Beautiful. Give Mrs. 303squadron a kiss for me. debm55 Feb 13 #39

Ben Butterworth Parkway WmChris Feb 13 #32

Congratulations to you and your Beloved. Beautiful post. debm55 Feb 13 #38

Damn, that was over 42 years ago! lark Feb 13 #33

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I was a sophmore and he was a senior in college oberle Feb 13 #34

Thank you oberle. the walk sounds very sweet debm55 Feb 13 #36

To impress her with my 'refined' cinematic tastes,... Wuddles440 Feb 13 #40

I live behind the one in Sarver - and yeah, I'm an old 'Yinzer!' MyOwnPeace Feb 13 #47

I am a Yinzer too.Duquesne, North Huntington. Jefferson Hills. debm55 Feb 13 #51

Interesting! Wuddles440 Feb 13 #62

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I literally want to vomit... Wuddles440 Feb 13 #72

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I was a choir director...... MyOwnPeace Feb 13 #49

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We went to an Alice Cooper concert -- 47 years ago this month. rsdsharp Feb 13 #57

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