Welcome to DU! The truly grassroots left-of-center political community where regular people, not algorithms, drive the discussions and set the standards. Join the community: Create a free account Support DU (and get rid of ads!): Become a Star Member Latest Breaking News Editorials & Other Articles General Discussion The DU Lounge All Forums Issue Forums Culture Forums Alliance Forums Region Forums Support Forums Help & Search

Feminists

woodsprite

(12,469 posts)

3. When my husband took his first job out of college, his boss was

Reply to Gormy Cuss (Original post)

Thu Aug 28, 2014, 09:44 PM

Aug 2014

A wonderful lady who has been a great mentor as he's been promoted up into management. On his first review, she used the word "brusque" in her evaluation of his demeanor with some coworkers. It's been 30 years, and that comment, more than any other, has stayed with him, and he continues to make an effort that none of his employees can say that about him.

If it had been one of the male reviewers, I'm not even sure that it would have even been mentioned.

Edit history

Please sign in to view edit histories.

Recommendations

0 members have recommended this reply (displayed in chronological order):

11 replies

= new reply since forum marked as read

Highlight:

The One Word Men Never See In Their Performance Reviews [View all] Gormy Cuss Aug 2014 OP

I have often gotten reviews, over all positive, with a little character nugget in there kdmorris Aug 2014 #1

"Nurturing"? Curmudgeoness Aug 2014 #2

Yep, my male boss said that kdmorris Aug 2014 #5

"Yep, my male boss said that (nurturing)" Spitfire of ATJ Aug 2014 #10

Gads, that was insulting. Gormy Cuss Aug 2014 #11

When my husband took his first job out of college, his boss was woodsprite Aug 2014 #3

The Double Bind. Curmudgeoness Aug 2014 #4

In my last company, in 2000, we had layoffs kdmorris Aug 2014 #6

I'd rather be an Ice Queen Curmudgeoness Aug 2014 #8

Among the things that were noted on my review. . . Paula Sims Aug 2014 #7

I'd hire you on that review. nt Curmudgeoness Aug 2014 #9