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Mental Health Support

ShazzieB

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3. That is my thought as well.

Reply to SheltieLover (Reply #2)

Thu Sep 11, 2025, 04:19 PM

Sep 11

If she tried to alienate the ex bil from the rest of the family in the past, I'm at a loss as to why anyone in the family would want to invite her. I feel like I must be missing something!

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My upcoming dilemma [View all] Siwsan Sep 11 OP

Per Miss Manners Pucks mom Sep 11 #1

Why not ask that she not be invited? SheltieLover Sep 11 #2

That is my thought as well. ShazzieB Sep 11 #3

Do you know for sure she has been invited? SheltieLover Sep 11 #4

This is such a complicated situation Siwsan Sep 11 #5

I am glad that your BFF will be with you. And I think a nice, quiet exit might niyad 11 hrs ago #8

My thought. I do not suggest doing it. OldBaldy1701E Sep 16 #6

In those kind of situations I really stress out, too. I usually ignore the person, and if they Ziggysmom Sunday #7