Dilemma

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6. You know, Tobin, up until the neighbor

matter of factly suggested he had Asperger's several years ago, I had thought he was just an a$$hole
to drive off and leave his 90 year old dad to figure out how to clean out the house
and get it ready to sell after his mom died. And I tended to agree with the neighbor that moving
his dad to Seattle was not really in his dad's best interest...just easier and cheaper for him.

Even though I don't particularly enjoy being around him I'm not comfortable turning my back on
him. I am going to leave it up to my husband to talk to him if he shows up here in his van/truck
without any warning, because the inattention to hygiene or social graces of arranging with someone
to come visit are steps beyond his usual "oddness".