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In reply to the discussion: Please send loving thoughts for a safe passage to Baast [View all]BigmanPigman
(55,032 posts)26. If you were super close she may come back and visit you.
That's what both of my babies did and one still comes after over 5 years. Be open to receiving any signs and it often happens when you are very relaxed and resting. I had to put my baby down after over 17 years together. She often comes at about 11AM and I remembered that was the time that she died in my living room in my arms.
Be kind to yourself and don't push yourself too much. If you forget stuff don't worry, if you can't stop crying don't force yourself. It is normal during severe grief. You two will join together again when you go back to your real home with her, she IS waiting for you.
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Beautiful, loving tribute! She sounds exquisite! I hope you are able to post photos soon,
liberalla
Monday
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I am so sorry for your losing Bellatrix. She was beautiful from your description.
Polly Hennessey
Monday
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