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EuterpeThelo

(466 posts)
33. THANK YOU all SO much. I am overwhelmed
Tue Mar 10, 2026, 02:14 PM
Mar 2026

by the level of support and responses here for the loss of my little Bellatrix.

For those who said she would visit - you weren't wrong and she already has! The first night, both my daughter and I felt her jump up to where we were sleeping (and, if you have cats, you know that you can tell the difference which cat it is).

The next morning, one of our automatic litter boxes had registered use in the middle of the night by a cat with a weight of 4.4 lbs - that could ONLY have been her (the other three are all 10+ lbs, and she was down to 5.1 at her last weigh-in).

My old tortie girl, Persephone, who we lost in 2019 at the age of 20-1/2, has visited in the past and still does from time to time, so this is not surprising. She probably taught Bella the ropes as soon as she arrived. (I used to call them Veruca and Violet because of the way they would spat when they were younger, but towards the end, they made peace...the day Percy had to be liberated, Bella kept jumping up to lay with her. On Sunday, the cycle continued when our tuxy girl did the same for Bella...)

I'm not a traditionally religious person - raised by a family of Christians (but real ones that quietly lived their faith rather than performative about it), but I've been pagan since 1993. However, my husband and mom made such short order of bombarding me with, I mean, the MOST *undeniable* signs that I no longer have ANY doubt our consciousness survives physical death.

Double thank yous to the folks who PMd me and/or taught me how to post photos. I have done so now and here is a link to the gallery I created to celebrate her life.

https://imgur.com/a/hYJVTvD

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I sympathize completely. I hope you find some peace. Walleye Mar 2026 #1
I'm so sorry! Ocelot II Mar 2026 #2
Beautiful quote! liberalla Mar 2026 #4
Beautiful, loving tribute! She sounds exquisite! I hope you are able to post photos soon, liberalla Mar 2026 #3
Very sorry DaBronx Mar 2026 #5
I am so sorry for your losing Bellatrix. She was beautiful from your description. Polly Hennessey Mar 2026 #6
My condolences about your friend Bellatrix Nigrum Cattus Mar 2026 #7
I'm so sorry for your loss. I loss my 18 year old, black cat in July. sinkingfeeling Mar 2026 #8
Dear EuterpeThelo, I am so very sorry for your loss. MIButterfly Mar 2026 #9
I'm very sorry for your loss. I hope your brer cat Mar 2026 #10
Love and Light to Bellatrix 🐈‍⬛ Clouds Passing Mar 2026 #11
So so sorry montanacowboy Mar 2026 #12
Even when it's the right thing to do, this decision is always heart-rending. 3catwoman3 Mar 2026 #13
This message was self-deleted by its author 3catwoman3 Mar 2026 #14
Beautiful memorial to your beloved kitty. May she enjoy eternity in the heaven for kitties. hlthe2b Mar 2026 #15
... Delphinus Mar 2026 #16
💧💔 littlemissmartypants Mar 2026 #17
It's sooooo hard to lose a good friend, two-legged OR four-legged. calimary Mar 2026 #18
Holding you in my heart - such a painful loss. n/t TygrBright Mar 2026 #19
Yes, it is hard to lose KT2000 Mar 2026 #20
Thank you for such a lovely eulogy EuterThelo, JMCKUSICK Mar 2026 #21
Please accept my condolences for your family member's passing. hamsterjill Mar 2026 #22
My heart is with you there is nothing stronger than unconditional live Tribetime Mar 2026 #23
Sincere condolences Picaro Mar 2026 #24
Loving peaceful sleep to your Bellatrix Figarosmom Mar 2026 #25
If you were super close she may come back and visit you. BigmanPigman Mar 2026 #26
Beautiful elegy for a beautiful cat soul Wicked Blue Mar 2026 #27
POST A PHOTO PLEASE -- here's how orleans Mar 2026 #28
What a beautiful eulogy oberle Mar 2026 #29
Remember her laying in the sunlight as it warms you.... Bayard Mar 2026 #30
Sending you and your daughter ❤️❤️❤️❤️. MLAA Mar 2026 #31
Lady Bast, please take Your little Bellatrix gently home in Your loving niyad Mar 2026 #32
THANK YOU all SO much. I am overwhelmed EuterpeThelo Mar 2026 #33
What a beautiful kitty! Mountain Mule Mar 2026 #42
So very sorry for your loss. Mad_Dem_X Mar 2026 #34
... orangecrush Mar 2026 #35
My deepest and most heartfelt sympathies on your loss. AltairIV Mar 2026 #36
I'm so sorry. HeartsCanHope Mar 2026 #37
A a cat-lover myself RetiredParatrooper Mar 2026 #38
I'm so, so very sorry, EuterpeThelo. KatyaR Mar 2026 #39
Oh Dear... 2naSalit Mar 2026 #40
Very, very sorry but that was a lovely story ...nt Jarqui Mar 2026 #41
Beautiful Bellatrix Dear_Prudence Mar 2026 #43
Deepest condolences to you SheltieLover Mar 2026 #44
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