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EuterpeThelo

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33. THANK YOU all SO much. I am overwhelmed
Tue Mar 10, 2026, 02:14 PM
Tuesday

by the level of support and responses here for the loss of my little Bellatrix.

For those who said she would visit - you weren't wrong and she already has! The first night, both my daughter and I felt her jump up to where we were sleeping (and, if you have cats, you know that you can tell the difference which cat it is).

The next morning, one of our automatic litter boxes had registered use in the middle of the night by a cat with a weight of 4.4 lbs - that could ONLY have been her (the other three are all 10+ lbs, and she was down to 5.1 at her last weigh-in).

My old tortie girl, Persephone, who we lost in 2019 at the age of 20-1/2, has visited in the past and still does from time to time, so this is not surprising. She probably taught Bella the ropes as soon as she arrived. (I used to call them Veruca and Violet because of the way they would spat when they were younger, but towards the end, they made peace...the day Percy had to be liberated, Bella kept jumping up to lay with her. On Sunday, the cycle continued when our tuxy girl did the same for Bella...)

I'm not a traditionally religious person - raised by a family of Christians (but real ones that quietly lived their faith rather than performative about it), but I've been pagan since 1993. However, my husband and mom made such short order of bombarding me with, I mean, the MOST *undeniable* signs that I no longer have ANY doubt our consciousness survives physical death.

Double thank yous to the folks who PMd me and/or taught me how to post photos. I have done so now and here is a link to the gallery I created to celebrate her life.

https://imgur.com/a/hYJVTvD

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I sympathize completely. I hope you find some peace. Walleye Monday #1
I'm so sorry! Ocelot II Monday #2
Beautiful quote! liberalla Monday #4
Beautiful, loving tribute! She sounds exquisite! I hope you are able to post photos soon, liberalla Monday #3
Very sorry DaBronx Monday #5
I am so sorry for your losing Bellatrix. She was beautiful from your description. Polly Hennessey Monday #6
My condolences about your friend Bellatrix Nigrum Cattus Monday #7
I'm so sorry for your loss. I loss my 18 year old, black cat in July. sinkingfeeling Monday #8
Dear EuterpeThelo, I am so very sorry for your loss. MIButterfly Monday #9
I'm very sorry for your loss. I hope your brer cat Monday #10
Love and Light to Bellatrix 🐈‍⬛ Clouds Passing Monday #11
So so sorry montanacowboy Monday #12
Even when it's the right thing to do, this decision is always heart-rending. 3catwoman3 Monday #13
This message was self-deleted by its author 3catwoman3 Monday #14
Beautiful memorial to your beloved kitty. May she enjoy eternity in the heaven for kitties. hlthe2b Monday #15
... Delphinus Monday #16
💧💔 littlemissmartypants Monday #17
It's sooooo hard to lose a good friend, two-legged OR four-legged. calimary Monday #18
Holding you in my heart - such a painful loss. n/t TygrBright Monday #19
Yes, it is hard to lose KT2000 Monday #20
Thank you for such a lovely eulogy EuterThelo, JMCKUSICK Monday #21
Please accept my condolences for your family member's passing. hamsterjill Monday #22
My heart is with you there is nothing stronger than unconditional live Tribetime Monday #23
Sincere condolences Picaro Monday #24
Loving peaceful sleep to your Bellatrix Figarosmom Monday #25
If you were super close she may come back and visit you. BigmanPigman Monday #26
Beautiful elegy for a beautiful cat soul Wicked Blue Monday #27
POST A PHOTO PLEASE -- here's how orleans Monday #28
What a beautiful eulogy oberle Monday #29
Remember her laying in the sunlight as it warms you.... Bayard Monday #30
Sending you and your daughter ❤️❤️❤️❤️. MLAA Tuesday #31
Lady Bast, please take Your little Bellatrix gently home in Your loving niyad Tuesday #32
THANK YOU all SO much. I am overwhelmed EuterpeThelo Tuesday #33
What a beautiful kitty! Mountain Mule Tuesday #42
So very sorry for your loss. Mad_Dem_X Tuesday #34
... orangecrush Tuesday #35
My deepest and most heartfelt sympathies on your loss. AltairIV Tuesday #36
I'm so sorry. HeartsCanHope Tuesday #37
A a cat-lover myself RetiredParatrooper Tuesday #38
I'm so, so very sorry, EuterpeThelo. KatyaR Tuesday #39
Oh Dear... 2naSalit Tuesday #40
Very, very sorry but that was a lovely story ...nt Jarqui Tuesday #41
Beautiful Bellatrix Dear_Prudence Tuesday #43
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