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SuzyandPuffpuff

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4. Yes
Tue May 12, 2026, 10:24 AM
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1) cover crate so he doesn't feel exposed . He Will associate when he's ready ... 2) put yourself in his place. Scared. Confused. Disoriented. Everything with these guys must be SLOW and QUIET. Most important...make sure he can hide. That crate will b his safety zone so make it his. 3) sit quietly next to crate but don't force yourself on him. 4) peacock feathers are a great way to introduce soft comfortable play. Keep us posted. I worked over 3 decades with animals of all species ... I know of what I speak

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Long leather gloves.. ZDU Tuesday #1
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Infinite patience. GiqueCee Tuesday #5
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He'll come around... GiqueCee Tuesday #18
When you look at him UpInArms Tuesday #7
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A lot of patience and love. He's so afraid so it will take time to trust you. TommieMommy Tuesday #11
Congratulations! Hope I can get there with Oliver. I've only had him with me for allegorical oracle Tuesday #14
Just a BIT!!!! DEEEEEEEP, SLOOOOOOOW breaths! niyad Tuesday #20
He might like the Churu tubes of pate. You can clip off the end and slowly squeeze out the pate... 3catwoman3 Tuesday #16
He is a black shorthair. I've always been partial to black kitties, altho' I've allegorical oracle Tuesday #22
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Wow -- they sound gorgeous. Cats sometimes remind me of marbles... allegorical oracle Tuesday #40
I raised 4 feral kittens Laurelin Tuesday #17
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Fun! Laurelin Tuesday #33
Same here. Once my husband died I had too much to do. Plus, friends of allegorical oracle Tuesday #35
Utah, i have fiends who still have horses Laurelin Yesterday #43
Check the labels to make sure it is single ingredient baby meat. 3catwoman3 Tuesday #34
Oh thanks for the warning. I will check first. :-) allegorical oracle Tuesday #36
Sending love and hugs from my furbaby and me to you and Oliver. niyad Tuesday #19
Thank you. Always read your posts and appreciate them. nt allegorical oracle Tuesday #41
awwww, thank you. Please keep us posted. niyad Tuesday #42
Don't keep him crated. Jirel Tuesday #21
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Time & patience Blue Owl Tuesday #31
There are stages. So many stages. chowmama Tuesday #32
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