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bfoxmatt

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54. She told me in a dream

Tue Jun 24, 2025, 09:24 AM

Jun 24

Raised Baptist, too. My mother was very religious and we went to church Sunday morning, Sunday night, Wednesday night, Girls Auxiliary on Monday after school, and when anything else was going on at the church. She died of breast cancer when she was 38 and I had just turned 11. Shortly after she died, I had a vivid dream about her and I asked her if she went to heaven. She said "No" and that's when I decided there was no heaven or hell. I lapsed when I was 18 and for a short while, was "born again." But the thing about no one is going to heaven unless they are BAPTIST and BAPTISED -- so, the rest of the world's religious people are all damned. I don't think so! Shortly after she died, I talked my dad into letting me stay home on Sunday night to watch My Favorite Martian! From then on, I only had to put up with Sunday mornings until I went away to college. No church and no religion works for me!

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Reason orangecrush Jun 24 #28

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