Bereavement

Marthe48

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23. Anyway, just live in the moment

Fri Mar 3, 2017, 09:55 PM

Mar 2017

John found out years ago that he had a mild form of asbestosis. We found out that it would probably affect his life span. And we found out last year that esophageal cancer has been linked to asbestos. We made sure we lived happy in spite of the cloud hanging over our heads. He made me laugh every morning even before we had coffee. I wasn't as quick as he was and I loved it when I could get him to laugh and say, 'good one'. I miss the humor the most, so I have some joke sites and I try to read a joke or 2 every morning. Or make a joke to myself if I see something silly.
Try not to think of the time you'll be apart. Enjoy the time you have right now. Make memories. Take care.

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My husband passed away 1/26/17 [View all] Marthe48 Mar 2017 OP

Very Sorry! Chasstev365 Mar 2017 #1

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I'm so sorry for your loss. WhiteTara Mar 2017 #2

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Anyway, just live in the moment Marthe48 Mar 2017 #23

Blessings to you! cilla4progress Mar 2017 #3

Thank you Cilla Marthe48 Mar 2017 #10

My wife of 31 years passed away GP6971 Mar 2017 #4

Thank you GP Marthe48 Mar 2017 #11

Your welcome GP6971 Mar 2017 #14

I'm sorry about your husband. As for your sister.... LisaM Mar 2017 #5

Thank you Lisa Marthe48 Mar 2017 #15

I agree with LisaM Skittles Mar 2017 #43

I am so very sorry for your loss luvMIdog Mar 2017 #6

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My heart goes out to you at this time. It must be a huge adjustment and very painful! manicraven Mar 2017 #7

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I'm very sorry for your loss. gwheezie Mar 2017 #12

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People mean well Rorey Mar 2017 #41

My sincerest sympathy, Marthe48 Useless in FL Mar 2017 #13

Thank you in FL Marthe48 Mar 2017 #20

I'm so sorry you're going through this Warpy Mar 2017 #16

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What Warpy said and all the others' insightful contributions. sprinkleeninow Mar 2017 #37

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I wish you peace . Condolences lunasun Mar 2017 #22

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Everyone stayed away from me when my husband died. We all did notdarkyet Mar 2017 #25

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This thread has been so helpful cilla4progress Mar 2017 #26

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Just wonderful. cilla4progress Mar 2017 #62

So sad. You are just now climbing out of the depths of your loss elfin Mar 2017 #27

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You have my deepest sympathy, Marthe48 ailsagirl Mar 2017 #28

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I am so sorry. Justice Mar 2017 #29

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Sorry for your loss logosoco Mar 2017 #30

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I am so sorry for your loss. raging moderate Mar 2017 #32

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Truly sorry for your loss ATL Ebony Mar 2017 #35

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I am so sorry. murielm99 Mar 2017 #36

Sorry for your loss, Marthe48. democrank Mar 2017 #38

I am so sorry for your loss of your husband. Rorey Mar 2017 #39

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Sorry for your loss KT2000 Mar 2017 #40

i am so sorry for your loss. barbtries Mar 2017 #42

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My deepest condolences. ohheckyeah Mar 2017 #44

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I am so sorry for your loss. jrthin Mar 2017 #56

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May tomorrow's path to peace be more clearly marked and have fewer obstacles than today. IADEMO2004 Mar 2017 #57

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Hugs to Martha48... Tikki Mar 2017 #63

Hi Tikki Marthe48 Mar 2017 #64

I'm sorry I missed this when you first posted. You have my sincere condolences. sinkingfeeling Apr 2017 #65

Thank you Marthe48 Apr 2017 #66