Bereavement

livetohike

(23,794 posts) Tue Aug 28, 2018, 08:34 PM Aug 2018

I lost my Mom two weeks ago. She passed away suddenly [View all]

at home where she lived alone since my Dad died in 2004. My sister found her as they had plans to go grocery shopping etc. that morning. Mom was hospitalized for a week in June and then two weeks of rehab. She was to have her last PT and released from home care the following day. She was 87 years old and I know how lucky I am to have had her that long.

I'm just numb right now. I'm the Executrix and have been so busy in the last two weeks, which is good I guess because otherwise I would just sit here and cry.

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I lost my Mom two weeks ago. She passed away suddenly [View all] livetohike Aug 2018 OP

So sorry for your loss. Just know that you must be at peace Lint Head Aug 2018 #1

Thank you. I needed to hear that. n/t livetohike Aug 2018 #3

I'm so sorry for your loss. A sudden death is the most hurtful. My dad sinkingfeeling Aug 2018 #2

Thank you. It was/is a shock. No one could believe it livetohike Aug 2018 #6

🕯 sprinkleeninow Aug 2018 #4

Thanks so much. n/t livetohike Aug 2018 #7

I'm so sorry. Phoenix61 Aug 2018 #5

Thank you. It's going through her things that is going to livetohike Aug 2018 #8

Having your sister there will definitely make Phoenix61 Aug 2018 #9

Sincerest sympathy. Wishing you peace. Cousin Dupree Aug 2018 #10

Thank you Cousin Dupree. n/t livetohike Sep 2018 #28

I'm very sorry for your loss. Nt onlyadream Aug 2018 #11

Thank you onlyadream. n/t livetohike Sep 2018 #29

I'm so sorry. TomSlick Aug 2018 #12

Thanks TomSlick and especially for the advice. My Mom has good livetohike Sep 2018 #30

I am so sorry for your loss. Lifelong Protester Aug 2018 #13

Thanks Lifelong Protestor. Will keep you in my thoughts for livetohike Sep 2018 #31

May you find peace and comfort in the days ahead. InAbLuEsTaTe Aug 2018 #14

Thank you. Trying to only think of the good memories. livetohike Sep 2018 #32

(((HUGS))) Sunny Daze Aug 2018 #15

Thanks Sunny Daze. n/t livetohike Sep 2018 #33

You must have loved her very much. defacto7 Aug 2018 #16

I did defacto7. I was her rebel and probably gave her quite a bit of livetohike Sep 2018 #34

Sorry for your loss. GWC58 Aug 2018 #17

I'm so sorry for the loss of your Mom GWC58. My Mom livetohike Sep 2018 #35

Try not to forget to be kind to yourself. BigmanPigman Aug 2018 #18

Thank you BigmanPigman. I have not been doing a good job livetohike Sep 2018 #36

I am so sorry you lost your mom, I know how hard it is. FM123 Aug 2018 #19

Thank you FM123. n/t livetohike Sep 2018 #37

❤very sorry for your loss. dewsgirl Aug 2018 #20

Thank you dewsgirl. n/t livetohike Sep 2018 #38

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss kimbutgar Aug 2018 #21

Thanks kimbutgar. n/t livetohike Sep 2018 #39

((((hugs))) livetohike. My heart goes out to you. sueh Aug 2018 #22

Thanks so much sueh. n/t livetohike Sep 2018 #40

My heart aches for you. williesgirl Aug 2018 #23

Thank you williesgirl. n/t livetohike Sep 2018 #41

While it is not the same ... left-of-center2012 Aug 2018 #24

Thank you left-of-center2012. I'm sorry for your loss livetohike Sep 2018 #42

(((hugs))) kanda Aug 2018 #25

Thank you kanda. I'm so sorry for the loss of your son. livetohike Sep 2018 #43

Life is what happens when you're making plans - John Lennon hawaii007 Sep 2018 #47

Thank you kanda Sep 2018 #49

So sorry to read of your loss pandr32 Aug 2018 #26

Mahalo pandr32. n/t livetohike Sep 2018 #44

Sorry to hear this , duforsure Aug 2018 #27

Thanks duforsure. I am so sorry for the loss of your sister livetohike Sep 2018 #45

The Grim Reaper... comes for death when we least expect it on August 28th last year hawaii007 Sep 2018 #46

sorry to hear about your mom orleans Sep 2018 #48