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Bereavement

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Marthe48

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Tue Jun 18, 2024, 10:47 AM Jun 2024

June 18 would be our 53rd Anniversary [View all]

In my own way, I will observe the date, even if my husband passed a few months short of our 46th. I was thinking of the ways my husband and our marriage made my life a lot different and better. I live with good memories. Love never dies.
I don't have to consciously recall a certain moment. As I work around the house, random memories come to mind, so the past is never far away. I am doing okay on my own, but I never feel really alone. I'm not living a half-life. Part of my process of grieving has been a realization that people on this side of the veil love me and need me present, so I make sure they know I love them and need them.
In many ways, I am still married to my husband, even if he is not physically present. We will meet by the moon someday.

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What a wonderful tribute question everything Jun 2024 #1
What a beautiful tribute! 50 Shades Of Blue Jun 2024 #2
How very moving your words are. 3catwoman3 Jun 2024 #3
I understand you and hugs. Duncanpup Jun 2024 #4
Your loss is still fresh Marthe48 Jun 2024 #6
It's a burden we can't shake. Duncanpup Jun 2024 #7
I'm glad you have your kids and dogs and work Marthe48 Jun 2024 #9
Weeding flowers this morning and noticed a daylily flower pod on the ground. IA8IT Jun 2024 #5
Oh, the little things Marthe48 Jun 2024 #8
After my father passed, my mother continued to celebrate their marriage. Oopsie Daisy Jun 2024 #10
Bereavement continues 49jim Jun 2024 #11
I'm sorry for your loss Marthe48 Jun 2024 #12
Be aware... StarryNite Jun 2024 #13
I like the saying airplaneman Jun 2024 #14
That's a good way to look at it. calimary Jun 2024 #15
Thank you Marthe48 Jun 2024 #16
I read a short story many years ago Marthe48 Jun 2024 #17
Love is stronger than Death. ZZenith Jun 2024 #18
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