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Bereavement

kozar

(3,189 posts)

36. Dunc,,

Reply to Duncanpup (Original post)

Fri Jun 20, 2025, 08:19 AM

Jun 20

Since MrsK and LilBiit, left, I'm extremely careful of the music I listen to, or, sing, for that matter.
Music is one, of the most powerful triggers in Bereavement.
If, you pulled up this song,because you miss her.
post a pic of Elizabeth and you, in the good times,instead of,the song that was in background, for that good picture.

You love Elizabeth, still love, as , I do, MrsK and LilBit.
The brain hears music,the heart,, loves.
Don't let them fight,
Inside of you,
Koz

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I'm in mood missing my wife today. And it's not your problem. Yet I'd like to share where i go to remember my wife. [View all] Duncanpup Jun 19 OP

I can understand the 'unteathered' feeling Attilatheblond Jun 19 #1

You never know when a sound, a song, a smell will bring those feelings. LoisB Jun 19 #2

In a grief class we referred ChazII Jun 20 #37

"Ambush" is a good word for it. LoisB Jun 20 #39

(((((Hugs))))) UpInArms Jun 19 #3

THat album is a favorite of mine.. Evocative of so many things.. hlthe2b Jun 19 #4

Great album Duncanpup... c-rational Jun 19 #5

This brings back fond memories susanr516 Jun 19 #6

Great album, Dunc! ❤️ littlemissmartypants Jun 19 #7

So nice to have such an upbeat place to go to. SleeplessinSoCal Jun 19 #8

Oh man, that album! nuxvomica Jun 19 #9

Totally understandable, Dunc... WinstonSmith4740 Jun 19 #10

I wish I could say or do something to help. OldBaldy1701E Jun 19 #11

Something that helped me Marthe48 Jun 19 #12

I'm not sure Duncanpup Jun 19 #14

I understand Marthe48 Jun 19 #15

The incomplete is so Duncanpup Jun 19 #23

This might help. Sometimes by Jonathan Edwards. Botany Jun 19 #13

That is really beautiful Easterncedar Jun 19 #16

The soundtracks to our lives. CANADIANBEAVER69 Jun 19 #17

Your love of and admiration for your wife radiated from every post you wrote about her. 3catwoman3 Jun 19 #18

From memory I recall this album being the highest in sales of any over a long period. twodogsbarking Jun 19 #19

In Elizabeths name irisblue Jun 19 #20

Every song on the album ProudToronto Jun 19 #21

Thinking of you, Duncanpup. MLAA Jun 19 #22

Many hugs to you, Duncanpup. calimary Jun 19 #24

I'm so sorry you are suffering, Dunc! SheltieLover Jun 19 #25

I can only imagine how missing your wife must feel KPN Jun 19 #26

Saw this, jumped (well didn't jump) on my treadmill Prairie_Seagull Jun 19 #27

Yep. marble falls Jun 19 #28

Oh man, that album Diamond_Dog Jun 19 #29

So far away... Figarosmom Jun 19 #30

Not telling anything you don't know.. chouchou Jun 19 #31

Just so you know DENVERPOPS Jun 19 #32

Stunning SuzyandPuffpuff Jun 19 #33

You've got some friends here, Duncanpup LatteLady Jun 19 #34

awwwww Skittles Jun 19 #35

Dunc,, kozar Jun 20 #36

Sending you love and peace.❤️ PittBlue Jun 20 #38