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littlemissmartypants

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7. My ex and I went through that very thing. We had pre-marriage

Reply to bucolic_frolic (Reply #6)

Mon Dec 14, 2020, 01:21 AM

Dec 2020

counseling with a psychologist and we had pre-marriage counseling with the priest and he still cheated, repeatedly. I never remarried and still miss him sometimes after more than twenty years.

The MBTI test has combatability suggestions based on type but I don't think many people use it.

Here’s the link to a short form of the test here: https://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1237&pid=526

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10 questions you should ask someone before marrying them [View all] littlemissmartypants Apr 2020 OP

All questions you should already know the answers to SledDriver Apr 2020 #1

But we don't think logically sometimes... Karadeniz Apr 2020 #2

I would add some general metaphysical questions. Do you believe we all have a purpose in life, Karadeniz Apr 2020 #3

LBJ said in effect, 'know what their Mammy's & Pappy's did, and didn't do with them'. empedocles Apr 2020 #4

What about just dating someone? BigmanPigman Apr 2020 #5

If you don't know them well enough to fill out a personality test for them bucolic_frolic Dec 2020 #6

My ex and I went through that very thing. We had pre-marriage littlemissmartypants Dec 2020 #7

This message was self-deleted by its author bucolic_frolic Dec 2020 #8

I never tested anyone in the family except my niece and it littlemissmartypants Dec 2020 #9