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gollygee

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20. In some cases they aren't finding women to marry them
Tue Dec 17, 2013, 10:30 AM
Dec 2013

and in those cases they say it's because western women are evil man-haters or something.

These are also the guys who, no matter how average looking or even unattractive they are, are offended if really beautiful women don't date them. The types who are overweight and have a "no fat chicks" bumper sticker on their car. They don't just think some woman should be available for them - they think the specific woman they want should be available for them.

It's a huge entitlement issue.

Oh and then, as far as my MRA family member, his misogyny has this weird flip side of really over the top chivalry. So he really dishes out something that appears very charming at the same time as he's got these attitudes. Some times he'll be ridiculously (and IMO to the point of smothering) charming, but under it all this this base of control.

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Good god those guys are nuts ismnotwasm Dec 2013 #1
It sounds like this is the kind of guy who's never had consensual sex Warpy Dec 2013 #2
I'd keep him away from sheep farms, too. Ken Burch Dec 2013 #5
LOL ismnotwasm Dec 2013 #7
A doll if anything. redqueen Dec 2013 #10
What's the point, indeed? lolly Dec 2013 #3
+1 redqueen Dec 2013 #11
Manboobz, Freeper Madness and FSTDT intaglio Dec 2013 #4
They consider sex a "duty"? jmowreader Dec 2013 #6
Msybe he knows that for his partner, it would be. redqueen Dec 2013 #12
I think there's a lot of truth to that ismnotwasm Dec 2013 #19
And for the third time in three days, I invite these assholes to Sheldon Cooper Dec 2013 #8
Reminds me of a joke: DetlefK Dec 2013 #9
Why would a woman marry a jerk like this? CrispyQ Dec 2013 #13
Sometimes the true depth of jerkiness is not revealed until after the wedding. MadrasT Dec 2013 #14
I will never understand why anyone would want to have sex with someone redqueen Dec 2013 #15
Me neither. MadrasT Dec 2013 #18
"... apparently not, if you just view the other person as a sperm receptacle." redqueen Dec 2013 #22
Yes, I forget that these types can sometimes be very charming. --nt CrispyQ Dec 2013 #16
For sure MadrasT Dec 2013 #17
In some cases they aren't finding women to marry them gollygee Dec 2013 #20
we live in a society wehre not only beautiful, but computerized perfect women are presented to men seabeyond Dec 2013 #21
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