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chknltl

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21. I alerted Ron to this
Thu Apr 30, 2015, 08:08 PM
Apr 2015

First, thanks for offering up this bit of assistance.

I alerted Ron to this, turns out he was already aware of it but he pointed out a key importance: Jeff is not homeless, the program is for homeless Vets. Ron owns the house Jeff lives in now and Jeff is welcome to live there as long as he likes. Some of Jeff's neighbors are not so happy with this but we ain't so happy with them either.

I'll not be showing this to Jeff because he will think he will be getting some kind of money from this program and plan on using it to do...well something the money was never intended for. If we show it to him and he is unable to get anything he tends to blame us for keeping him poor! Btw, whenever we ask Jeff what he will do with the extra money he could theoretically get from any social programs, he never has a coherent response. His biggest plan stems from his belief that the Navy is gonna give him some sort of a pension dating back to 1979. With that money he wants to take me on some sort of world tour where everyone will adore him for being a 'supreme being'. His latest plan for this tour includes the Pope btw. (He is pleased as punch when he tells me about it too).

Currently Ron has Jeff on what social programs Pierce County and the Federal Government has to offer. He has an EBT card, (food stamps), which Ron uses for Jeff, he has his electric covered through a Pierce County Program, and Ron gets a stipend from another program as Jeff's primary care giver. I should point out that Ron is not without resources himself, that he spends out of pocket for any of Jeffs needs when they come up plus Ron dedicates a whole lot of his time to Jeff, likely about 30-40 hrs per week. (Not sure about the actual hours, maybe more, maybe less). I spend around 10 hrs per week with Jeff.

Thanks again for the heads-up on that program, it was a nice thought anyway.

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I have a cousin who has schizophrenia and a Doctorate. JimDandy Apr 2015 #1
Your option results in: chknltl Apr 2015 #3
Don't delete. You need answers. JimDandy Apr 2015 #6
Please show my response #13 to those psych professionals you mentioned. chknltl Apr 2015 #14
I have to one JimDandy Apr 2015 #17
Very cool. Thanks for this JimDandy n/t chknltl Apr 2015 #18
Is Jeff's drivers license proof to him that he is Downwinder Apr 2015 #2
We do not know why he wants things. chknltl Apr 2015 #5
Just a thought. Downwinder Apr 2015 #8
i wish i had an answer olddots Apr 2015 #4
FWIW I wasn't really seeking discussion about my brother chknltl Apr 2015 #7
So, are you any safer than Jeff or someone out there Downwinder Apr 2015 #9
Ouch, you strike a nerve here chknltl Apr 2015 #10
if the local cops know him mopinko Apr 2015 #11
You are in a really difficult situation and I feel for you. cbayer Apr 2015 #12
Most here are asking about Jeff, so I'll talk about him and our family chknltl Apr 2015 #13
Jeff is so very lucky to have you and your brother. cbayer Apr 2015 #15
Thanks, you understand now. chknltl Apr 2015 #16
the trailer idea sounds really good. cbayer Apr 2015 #19
Last week the Secretary of HUD announced that HUD was JimDandy Apr 2015 #20
I alerted Ron to this chknltl Apr 2015 #21
Is he a "good" driver? hunter May 2015 #22
I wouldn't know about his driving ability. chknltl May 2015 #23
I was living in Southern California and had a question I needed to ask a prominent U.C. Berkeley... hunter May 2015 #24
Jeff has his moments chknltl May 2015 #25
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