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In reply to the discussion: I was gone for three months. [View all]

JMCKUSICK

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30. Yes, the very first time I left Petunia while I was on vacation,
Thu Apr 30, 2026, 06:18 PM
Apr 30

she refused to have anything to do with me for 48 hours. Late the second night back, she snuck into my bedroom after I fell asleep an I woke up with her next to me so all seemed forgiven.

We lived happily ever after.

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Oh yes, there were times when I went away for a couple weeks and the cat would spend an hour or two yelling at me when I Walleye Apr 30 #1
yeap. When we go out on travel we have a pet sitter. drray23 Apr 30 #2
Meouch...I hope you are all healed and feeling better. Cats gonna cat... wcmagumba Apr 30 #3
Ha ha heh! I'm sorry, I couldn't resist laughing. Poor baby obviously missed you, and is pissed off at you. They'll SWBTATTReg Apr 30 #4
Oh yes. Dear_Prudence Apr 30 #5
Consider that it may be a trust issue Tesha Apr 30 #6
of course - it is what cats do rurallib Apr 30 #7
I'd be surprised to hear from anyone who hasn't. Harker Apr 30 #8
Yes, but, not for long. blm Apr 30 #9
I once visited my brother when he had cancer -misanthroptimist Apr 30 #10
Don't take it too hard Hey Joe Apr 30 #11
Yeah. I remember when my parents and I took a brief vacation. calimary Apr 30 #12
that's pretty normal for a cat Skittles Apr 30 #13
He is confused maybe. He will warm up Glad you are home and recovering. twodogsbarking Apr 30 #14
I'm sure he will forgive you. flashman13 Apr 30 #15
that's right Skittles Apr 30 #41
Mine are pretty much the second option. flashman13 Apr 30 #43
*SNORT* Skittles Friday #46
Oh yes. My old orange cat Basil would not have anything to do with us when we returned home from vacation. lark Apr 30 #16
Churu can change a snotty attitude Submariner Apr 30 #17
Our feline companions are sensitive creatures Niagara Apr 30 #18
Agree the scent ... legallyblondeNYC Apr 30 #35
Only ever had 1 cat sitter that the cats must have loved EverHopeful Apr 30 #19
We have had some that would start acting "mad" when we started packing for a trip! They knew what it meant and didn't Whyisthisstillclose Apr 30 #20
ours would climb in the suitcase NJCher Apr 30 #37
Very smart, and a true sign of love! Whyisthisstillclose Apr 30 #44
Cats and dogs. TomSlick Apr 30 #21
I love that! zanana1 Friday #47
It's not original with me. TomSlick Friday #49
Your cat loves you so much that he's mad at you. I see that as a good sign! chowder66 Apr 30 #22
I broke my leg at the end of December and did not return avebury Apr 30 #23
wow, what an ordeal NJCher Apr 30 #39
It's why I have dogs Bluestocking Apr 30 #24
Never have had cats mountain grammy Apr 30 #25
Every time we would leave our cats, they would react the same way. HeartsCanHope Apr 30 #26
I have a similar story. bluescribbler Apr 30 #27
Broke 3 bones in my ankle a few years ago Katcat Apr 30 #29
Absolutely! Katcat Apr 30 #28
Yes, the very first time I left Petunia while I was on vacation, JMCKUSICK Apr 30 #30
He's just being a cat. Laffy Kat Apr 30 #31
He'll get over it. I'm experienced with cranky cats. NNadir Apr 30 #32
Absolutely. sinkingfeeling Apr 30 #33
Glad you're back and healing malaise Apr 30 #34
Not me. punguin54 Apr 30 #36
He'll get over it. Figarosmom Apr 30 #38
Welcome back, zanana1! MIButterfly Apr 30 #40
Cats SULK some_of_us_are_sane Apr 30 #42
My beloved dog, who loved my Dad more than anyone, completely ignored him when he returned from a trip Rhiannon12866 Apr 30 #45
It's their specialty. WinstonSmith4740 Friday #48
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