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Flo Mingo

(516 posts)
Tue May 5, 2026, 02:12 PM Tuesday

Why do I cry at the drop of a hat? [View all]

I have lived this reality for a long time and I'm trying to understand why. I'm emotionally intelligent and work through my issues via self analysis and a belief that the Universe is perfect. But here's my "problem"; when I speak, if I'm at all emotionally or empathically engaged what I'm saying, I cry. The catch comes in my throat, I swallow hard, pause, think of something unpleasant or unappealing, etc. But nothing stops the tears from wanting to flow. I mean, like ugly crying over a story or thought or inspiration or whatEVER.
Help me out. Is it just me and how do I keep my empathy without having to bawl like a child over it?
TIA

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Do you cry over good stories and thoughts or bad? AloeVera Tuesday #1
Yes, Aloe. Exactly that. Flo Mingo Tuesday #5
Now you've made me cry! AloeVera Tuesday #10
Yes! Flo Mingo Wednesday #15
Several possible reasons. LuckyCharms Tuesday #2
Thank you, Lucky Flo Mingo Tuesday #6
My tears are always ready to drop Tesha Tuesday #3
Thanks, Tesha Flo Mingo Tuesday #7
I would cry at heart warming commercials knowing the adds were just trying to sell products. cksmithy Tuesday #4
I had tears running down my face when my daughter played her violin in a quartet...... Flo Mingo Tuesday #8
Your welcome. cksmithy Tuesday #9
people that know me well tease about my crying at public meetings Kali Tuesday #11
Thank you, Kali Flo Mingo Wednesday #16
Keep in mind that I don't have medical, psychology, or social work degree Niagara Tuesday #12
Wow, Niagra Flo Mingo Wednesday #17
It's already suggested up thread that you could be empathic. hamsterjill Wednesday #13
Thanks Hamsterjill Flo Mingo Wednesday #18
Now I am crying knowing that I am not alone in this 10 Turtle Day Wednesday #14
Thank you, Turtle Day Flo Mingo Wednesday #19
I'm the same way Mad_Dem_X Wednesday #20
New group at DU? Flo Mingo Wednesday #21
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