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In reply to the discussion: To my husband. [View all]

OldBaldy1701E

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25. I figured that, but when you said "..it doesn't apply just to the woman.", I felt I should respond. (n/t)
Tue Jul 1, 2025, 07:54 AM
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To my husband. [View all] OldBaldy1701E Sunday OP
*Nobody* is a failure, except maybe for Trump. Ocelot II Sunday #1
But, when stuff happens disproportionately... OldBaldy1701E Monday #10
If there is a failure it's that of our society, not you, Ocelot II Monday #18
I will not disagree with you on any of that. OldBaldy1701E Monday #22
Whoever "they" are, screw 'em. Only bad, stupid people blame victims. Ocelot II Monday #23
Then, there are WAY more bad, stupid people in the world than one might think. OldBaldy1701E Tuesday #24
Dear Heart WhiteTara Sunday #2
We did not make such vows, but we pretty much said it in our exchanges. OldBaldy1701E Monday #11
Sounds like a conversation is in order. WhiteTara Monday #16
You are valued. Nanuke Sunday #3
I doubt I am giving him any joy or comfort. OldBaldy1701E Monday #12
you are giving him purple_haze Tuesday #28
You are NOT a failure. You are a beautiful, loving, unselfish person. It is not your responsibilty LoisB Sunday #4
Well, we are a gay couple. OldBaldy1701E Monday #13
As a performer, you brought pleasure and enjoyment to your audiences. Ocelot II Monday #19
Gay couple, straight couple - no difference to me. A couple is a couple. I hope something LoisB Monday #20
I figured that, but when you said "..it doesn't apply just to the woman.", I felt I should respond. (n/t) OldBaldy1701E Tuesday #25
I apologize. I should have said "does not apply to only one spouse". I really just want you to LoisB Tuesday #30
First, I hope that your husband didn't give you the impression that he felt that way about you. 1WorldHope Sunday #5
He did not. OldBaldy1701E Monday #14
Oh, no. murielm99 Sunday #6
Thanks. The people here seem to be the only ones who think so. (n/t) OldBaldy1701E Monday #17
I don't think your husband is a nice person for making you feel like this. Duppers Sunday #7
He is not to blame for any of this. OldBaldy1701E Monday #9
I'm sorry life has treated you like it has. crosinski Sunday #8
Thank you. (n/t) OldBaldy1701E Monday #15
Oh man mdmc Monday #21
I don't know how old you are or where you are but Tadpole Raisin Tuesday #26
Thank you for your suggestions. OldBaldy1701E Tuesday #27
Once to are over 60 for snap the numbers may change. Tadpole Raisin Tuesday #29
There is only life. And it can throw awful stuff at you. applegrove Tuesday #31
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